10/25/2009 12:09:27 PMWhy are they afraid? 
mommarin
Anoka, MN
age: 23


Okay so question is, why are all you men playing possum?!

I've had two guys say they would like to meet me, when I give the okay they get scared and chicken out. I'm not that damn good looking, tho they like to kiss my butt and tell me this. So what is it? Maybe I'm just to assertive for the boys here on DH lol

So any of you ladies had this issue? I think these men are shakin in their booties.



10/25/2009 5:41:09 PMWhy are they afraid? 

skadude
Minneapolis, MN
age: 26


I'm not afraid. I've met two people on here and never backed out. Maybe they just straight up aren't who they say they are.

10/25/2009 6:14:26 PMWhy are they afraid? 

jsnake33
Minneapolis, MN
age: 22


What the hell are you talking about Rin?? You straight up just stopped talking to me at random for NO reason. So maybe the problem lies with you.

10/26/2009 6:02:13 AMWhy are they afraid? 
mommarin
Anoka, MN
age: 23


Quote from jsnake33:
What the hell are you talking about Rin?? You straight up just stopped talking to me at random for NO reason. So maybe the problem lies with you.


I just talked to you the other day, and this has nothing to do with you. lol Maybe you're just not my type ever thought of that one..? You ever realize you're not even in the age range that I am looking for? And I thought I made myself clear in the texts obviously not.





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10/26/2009 6:04:57 AMWhy are they afraid? 
mommarin
Anoka, MN
age: 23


Quote from skadude:
I'm not afraid. I've met two people on here and never backed out. Maybe they just straight up aren't who they say they are.


Maybe that is it! lol

10/26/2009 6:44:22 AMWhy are they afraid? 

jacobrocks25
Mound, MN
age: 25


i dont know what it is ive backed out once but i just wasnt feeling it an i know ive told you you were gorgeous before you think i was lying i think very much so goodlooking so if ya want to get at me againlol

10/26/2009 1:41:45 PMWhy are they afraid? 
mommarin
Anoka, MN
age: 23


Quote from jacobrocks25:
i dont know what it is ive backed out once but i just wasnt feeling it an i know ive told you you were gorgeous before you think i was lying i think very much so goodlooking so if ya want to get at me againlol


Send me a e-mail we'll get back on track maybe lol

10/26/2009 8:45:43 PMWhy are they afraid? 

swig11
Preston, MN
age: 47


Maybe they aren't who they say they are?.....yup I do believe you've nailed it.

I've been on two dates this fall with girls from this site. Was like pulling teeth trying to get it all set up. All they seamed to want to do was text and chat......Then when I did get to the date I realized why they were holding back. They were nothing like they had implied.

I just wish people would be honest and move on to finding thier type. Just look at me for instance. Most members that have been here long know I'm a right wing, conservative Jack Ass....LOL....With a since of humor.....Just gotta find the right girl that's OK with that.

Drop me a note, give me a call, we can do coffee....Swig11

10/27/2009 4:10:51 AMWhy are they afraid? 

scuffer
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,983)
Saint Paul, MN
age: 49


Quote from swig11:
Maybe they aren't who they say they are?.....yup I do believe you've nailed it.

I've been on two dates this fall with girls from this site. Was like pulling teeth trying to get it all set up. All they seamed to want to do was text and chat......Then when I did get to the date I realized why they were holding back. They were nothing like they had implied.

I just wish people would be honest and move on to finding thier type. Just look at me for instance. Most members that have been here long know I'm a right wing, conservative Jack Ass....LOL....With a since of humor.....Just gotta find the right girl that's OK with that.

Drop me a note, give me a call, we can do coffee....Swig11
if you didnt live so far id say lets hook up for coffee....

10/27/2009 8:01:16 AMWhy are they afraid? 
mommarin
Anoka, MN
age: 23


Quote from swig11:
Maybe they aren't who they say they are?.....yup I do believe you've nailed it.

I've been on two dates this fall with girls from this site. Was like pulling teeth trying to get it all set up. All they seamed to want to do was text and chat......Then when I did get to the date I realized why they were holding back. They were nothing like they had implied.

I just wish people would be honest and move on to finding thier type. Just look at me for instance. Most members that have been here long know I'm a right wing, conservative Jack Ass....LOL....With a since of humor.....Just gotta find the right girl that's OK with that.

Drop me a note, give me a call, we can do coffee....Swig11


I've been on a few dates this fall from this site, but a few that I really connected with and had wanted to meet bailed out on me. Which is fine, their loss the one that didn't is turning out to be a great find. Friends for now, possibly more int he future.

I'd love to meet for coffee, but you're a bit out of my age range. No offense intended!

10/27/2009 8:36:05 AMWhy are they afraid? 

swig11
Preston, MN
age: 47


Yes, that invite was for girls closer to my age. Some guys like chasing after girls that are half their age. But I personally think that is down right strange. I mean really, think about it. As we approach 50 years of age, our body goes through some big changes. Why would anybody want to live through that twice? Why would a young girl in her 20's want to be with a man in his late 40's. She shouldn't of you ask me. If you want an older more mature man? Find one no more than 10 years older. Make that your limit.

This is exactly what I was getting at earlier. Members of this forum should be looking for dates with people that are their type. That most certainly includes age group.

Scuffer....Did you just ask me out on a date?

10/31/2009 5:02:37 AMWhy are they afraid? 

bobinmn
Detroit Lakes, MN
age: 35


So what IS ur age range anyway? Not that I'm interested but since ur profile is "invisible" it's kind of hard to know.

11/2/2009 6:42:34 AMWhy are they afraid? 
mommarin
Anoka, MN
age: 23


Quote from bobinmn:
So what IS ur age range anyway? Not that I'm interested but since ur profile is "invisible" it's kind of hard to know.


When this thread was made my profile wasn't invisable =) Not that your interested? lol Okies well if you must know, you're not in my age range either. Sometimes I make exceptions to said age range, but they have to be very exceptional people obviously. Other wise, no I'm not an "Age is just a number" type of gal. Because it really isn't as far as I've noticed.

"I'm Seeking: A man ages 23 to 33"



11/3/2009 3:05:15 AMWhy are they afraid? 

bobinmn
Detroit Lakes, MN
age: 35


Thats fair...

-Bob

11/3/2009 7:29:56 AMWhy are they afraid? 

puck1337
Osseo, MN
age: 32


Quote from mommarin:
Okay so question is, why are all you men playing possum?!

I've had two guys say they would like to meet me, when I give the okay they get scared and chicken out. I'm not that damn good looking, tho they like to kiss my butt and tell me this. So what is it? Maybe I'm just to assertive for the boys here on DH lol

So any of you ladies had this issue? I think these men are shakin in their booties.



Not all of us men do that. I can't speak for the rest but I'm always open to meeting someone. If it doesn't work out romantically, there's always friendship.

I met you and didn't chicken out. Even if you don't believe, or care, I think you're pretty hot! And I'll only kiss yer butt if you tell me to, or I did something wrong. And you can a little assertive, which may scare some guys away. And they would be a fool if it did, you would make a great catch to anyone not stupid enough to lose it.

Since I'm not a lady, I can't comment on that line. But I don't wear booties, just steel toes!!

11/4/2009 4:23:22 AMWhy are they afraid? 

scuffer
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,983)
Saint Paul, MN
age: 49


every man ive chatted with from mn just chickened out..so what does that tell me??..im done wasting my time....

11/4/2009 10:01:05 AMWhy are they afraid? 

bobinmn
Detroit Lakes, MN
age: 35


You aren't wasting your time, just find the men and leave the little boys at home...

11/4/2009 1:32:45 PMWhy are they afraid? 

photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
age: 40


Where should we meet for coffee? I've been stood up too. At least you should beable to meet for a coffee at a public place. Come on what gives?