| 11/7/2009 8:42:53 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |  mizzbrea Joplin, MO age: 19
| Ok, not like over a guy, but something else, what would be your reaction. I personally have a major obsession with shoes. I have over 500 pairs...but, I've thrown a few away but I think its scared some guys off. I don't know though.
Just wondering how guys react to these odd quirks that some girls have.
Brea
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| 11/7/2009 9:34:43 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 pike45 Omaha, NE age: 56
| Ok, not like over a guy, but something else, what would be your reaction. I personally have a major obsession with shoes. I have over 500 pairs...but, I've thrown a few away but I think its scared some guys off. I don't know though.
Just wondering how guys react to these odd quirks that some girls have.
 Brea
Need more info to answer, What size are the shoes?
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| 11/7/2009 9:45:31 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 mizzbrea Joplin, MO age: 19
| My size....9. I wear them all....and I have this OCD thing about them. Arranged by sandals, tennys, color...ect. Its weird.
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| 11/7/2009 9:46:30 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 crow09
 Ponca City, OK age: 35
| I don't see anything wrong with it...we all have our little fetishes.....just some have em bigger then others 
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| 11/7/2009 9:54:13 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 ladydi780 West New York, NJ age: 49
| Shoe is not obsession , Oh BTW I love my shoes Yes I'm shoe junkie ...only about 150...I have cut down a lot. I tend to buy 3 pairs at a time ...
It not like someone picking their nose in public that's weird ..lolo
[Edited 11/7/2009 9:56:13 AM PST]
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| 11/7/2009 9:56:47 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 i_am_bill
 Astatula, FL age: 50
| I dated a girl once and I looked in her closet and she had ropes hanging from the rod in the closet,,dozens at least,,,all thicknesses and colors,,,just hanging there. I split. It weirded me out.
Too bad because nowadays that would be,,well,,,you know,,,,hehe.
Bill
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| 11/7/2009 10:18:02 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 zipperlynn
 Porterville, CA age: 39
| I dated a girl once and I looked in her closet and she had ropes hanging from the rod in the closet,,dozens at least,,,all thicknesses and colors,,,just hanging there. I split. It weirded me out.
Too bad because nowadays that would be,,well,,,you know,,,,hehe.
Bill
Hey Bill... I have 16 feet worth of shelving in my Closet Room...
Ya, I know, not the same as ropes. I do have lots of nylons though! Not all of them have runs in 'em. Yes, they're the conservative, boring kind a woman wears to work - sorry.
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| 11/7/2009 10:21:48 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 i_am_bill
 Astatula, FL age: 50
| Have you ever put a nylon on over your head? Just askin,,,,hehe. Bill
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| 11/7/2009 10:25:51 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
gypsysays Westbank, BC age: 44
| Depends on the obsession. I have a lingerie obsession....I cant go into a store without wanting to buy something!!
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| 11/7/2009 10:26:42 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
doublehugx Campbell, CA age: 46
| LOL...I dated a guy once who had Wheaties boxes tacked to his walls....saved them for years. Shoes, on the other hand are at least useful!
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| 11/7/2009 10:28:06 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
leftarian Hermosa Beach, CA age: 45 online now!
| Depends on the obsession. I have a lingerie obsession....I cant go into a store without wanting to buy something!! 
That's a good obsession. I got no problem with that one. My obsession is wanting to see you in all that lingerie.
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| 11/7/2009 10:28:08 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 i_am_bill
 Astatula, FL age: 50
| LOL...I dated a guy once who had Wheaties boxes tacked to his walls....saved them for years. Shoes, on the other hand are at least useful!
Hey,,,much can be done with a Wheaties box. But I prefer Cheerios. Bill
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| 11/7/2009 10:30:12 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
gypsysays Westbank, BC age: 44
| That's a good obsession.  I got no problem with that one. My obsession is wanting to see you in all that lingerie.  Well you have to be my sexy boyfriend first!!! 
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| 11/7/2009 10:31:00 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 trancelater Boulder, CO age: 50
| When obsessions interfere w/ a healthy life?
Houston, we've got a problem ...
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| 11/7/2009 10:37:58 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
doublehugx Campbell, CA age: 46
| Hey,,,much can be done with a Wheaties box. But I prefer Cheerios. Bill
I suppose it is all good, as long as they are not Fruit Loops....lol.....
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| 11/7/2009 10:39:52 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 i_am_bill
 Astatula, FL age: 50
| As long as you can build a fort with them,,,,,but yeah,,,fruit loops might dampen the fort making mood. Bill
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| 11/7/2009 10:42:24 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 windyoo1
 Enumclaw, WA age: 40
| your obssesions are part of you then it comes with the package
like tran said as long as you still pay your bills
and have a healthy life.
I collect die cast motorcycles and skulls myselfe  
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| 11/7/2009 10:46:32 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
doublehugx Campbell, CA age: 46
| As long as you can build a fort with them,,,,,but yeah,,,fruit loops might dampen the fort making mood. Bill
Yeah....LMAO...but I kind of thought he might be a "cereal" killer.......
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| 11/7/2009 12:00:27 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 settee_for_2
 Flower Mound, TX age: 56
| Honey baby, sweetie pie, we ALL have our obsessions...
What would be wierd about yours is if they weren't organized and you kept them in a big ole heap in the middle of your bed...now that would be wierd...
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| 11/7/2009 12:33:32 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 10_2ur_biz
 Highland, CA age: 43
| If all I ever had to do was to buy you shoes for gifts , that would be easy. As long as you are not hooked on drugs you have a chance to find love regardless of your shoe fetish. Good luck.
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| 11/7/2009 12:41:58 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 judit0606
 Big Stone Gap, VA age: 52
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Too FUNNY!!! IF he can't accept your fetish, he is not accepting you...sooo, MOVE ON to someone who DOES~~~
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| 11/7/2009 12:47:31 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
leftarian Hermosa Beach, CA age: 45 online now!
| Well you have to be my sexy boyfriend first!!!  
Lucky for me that I have a very vivid imagination--that and you have some very nice pictures on your profile.
[Edited 11/7/2009 1:06:32 PM PST]
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| 11/7/2009 12:49:47 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 dutchboy4u
 Huntington Beach, CA age: 46
| Are your credit cards maxed out on shoe purchases?
If so, there may be a problem.
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| 11/7/2009 5:45:44 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 tryagaindj68
 Evansville, IN age: 41
| I have a shoe holder hanging from my closet rod, and it's full. If I want a new pair of shoes, an older pair has to give up its spot in the shoe holder. Hasn't happened in over a year.
My Barbies keep their shoes in a Tarzan lunchbox (he's quite a handsome cartoon character), and I play Barbies with my nieces and friends' kids.
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| 11/7/2009 9:16:08 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 steven030463
 Newton Falls, OH age: 46
| nope your too expensive for me, I can't even afford buying myself some shoes.
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| 11/7/2009 9:54:04 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 stasisbane Irondale, MO age: 39
| It would depend on the obsession and how it affected her life, and whether or not I could deal with it. Thus far, I haven't run across too many I couldn't handle.
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| 11/7/2009 11:12:03 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 surrealone
 Overland Park, KS age: 38
| Ok, not like over a guy, but something else, what would be your reaction. I personally have a major obsession with shoes. I have over 500 pairs...but, I've thrown a few away but I think its scared some guys off. I don't know though.
Just wondering how guys react to these odd quirks that some girls have.
 Brea
Umm, I hate to break this to you, but women having a thing for shoes is sort of a cliche ... so men tend to expect it and it's not 'weird'. (You just happen to be someone who qualifies as a poster child for the cliche; 500 is, well, a lot.)
-- SR1
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| 11/7/2009 11:24:33 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 latestflame
 Memphis, TN age: 32
| I don't think I would think of it as a bad thing.
edit: well that's about the one you mentioned having. As far as people in general yes some obsessions could be bad or weird or if they were taking over ehr life that wouldn't be healthy.
[Edited 11/7/2009 11:25:29 PM PST]
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| 11/8/2009 4:09:51 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 looking4_prince
 Twin Falls, ID age: 56
| I think 500 is too many...there cannot be that many different styles and colors...and no way can you wear them all..Is Carrie on Sex and the City your idol ?
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| 11/8/2009 4:34:29 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 gentlemanjim1 North Fort Myers, FL age: 60
| My only problem would be thinking if I got involved with you, as a couple we would always be broke! That is an expensive obsession.
So it could become a serious problem if you could not control your spending on shoes. It could wind up ruining yhour relationships.
Good luck! 
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| 11/8/2009 5:01:31 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 latestflame
 Memphis, TN age: 32
| I guess I will listen to Bad Obsession by gnr because I'm bored and now the title reminded me of it.
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| 11/8/2009 6:42:36 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 roguevampire Burlington, MA age: 34 online now!
| Ok, not like over a guy, but something else, what would be your reaction. I personally have a major obsession with shoes. I have over 500 pairs...but, I've thrown a few away but I think its scared some guys off. I don't know though.
Just wondering how guys react to these odd quirks that some girls have.
 Brea
thats not a weird obsession. trust me. I know about obsessions.
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| 11/8/2009 6:55:38 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 wolfi
 Albuquerque, NM age: 44
| You mean to suggest there are girls without weird obsessions?
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| 11/8/2009 7:46:07 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 thebestman
 Alpharetta, GA age: 35
| As long as she has her shoes in a closet to her organization and if we become married it doesn't impact space etc., and she doesn't run up the credit card or checking account on shoes etc., she can have all the shoes she wants.
The things I pay attention for long, long term relations are:
1. Her spending habits and how she manages her money or does she participates in just crazy shopping well above her means
2. Her hygiene
3. Her attitude and how she handles herself in debates or constructive criticism
4. Her consistent actions or lack thereof
Any quirks such as tons of shoes etc., I can careless unless it falls into paragraph one.
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| 11/8/2009 8:42:20 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 pablo_cruz Chicago, IL age: 40
| Ok, not like over a guy, but something else, what would be your reaction. I personally have a major obsession with shoes. I have over 500 pairs...but, I've thrown a few away but I think its scared some guys off. I don't know though.
Just wondering how guys react to these odd quirks that some girls have.
 Brea
If that's your worse habit, you're alright.
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| 11/8/2009 9:50:00 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 storm_hotsheets Angus, Scotland United Kingdom age: 29 online now!
| Storm_Hotsheets. Inspiration To All here. All women have at one time or another developed an obsession with ME. That's not weird. That's the glory of nature.
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| 11/8/2009 9:55:25 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 pebblesbambam Allentown, PA age: 43
| My size....9. I wear them all....and I have this OCD thing about them. Arranged by sandals, tennys, color...ect. Its weird.
Jesus!!!! if u were a man, you'd be very blessed...
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| 11/8/2009 9:58:17 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
post_punk Houston, TX age: 46
| I've been stockpiling food and weapons for the upcoming zombie apocalypse. I used to hide this from my dates until I figured out that some guys think it's cool.
I'm looking for volunteers for my zombie defense militia. Please submit your references.
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| 11/8/2009 9:59:14 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 crow09
 Ponca City, OK age: 35
| I've been stockpiling food and weapons for the upcoming zombie apocalypse. I used to hide this from my dates until I figured out that some guys think it's cool.
I'm looking for volunteers for my zombie defense militia. Please submit your references.
the govt stinks...is that enough? 
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| 11/8/2009 10:01:41 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 metu
 Mansfield, TX age: 48
| the govt stinks...is that enough? 
So do zombies if they're ripe & juicy enough...
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| 11/8/2009 10:52:55 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 xpamela_leighx
 Springville, UT age: 36
| I obsess over just men in general. Kinda been boy crazy since birth if that is possible. but I am hoping my love for Cin helps curb it a bit. 
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| 11/8/2009 11:03:55 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 kinkycapitalist
 Atlanta, GA age: 55
| Not really. Didn't Cin confess that he's "pre-op"?

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| 11/8/2009 11:06:32 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 xpamela_leighx
 Springville, UT age: 36
| LOL you hush your filthy mouth. My Cin is perfection incarniate! 
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| 11/8/2009 11:08:37 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
gayfife Fife, Scotland United Kingdom age: 46
| oh fuk off and get a life imelda!
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| 11/8/2009 11:11:45 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 oceandive
 Clonfert Ireland age: 52
| well hells bells,,,,,i'm obsessed over hot lurid sex,,,,mouth to mouth sensual kissing,,,,playing around in the kitchen,,,,,touchy feely in public,,,,whip cream,,,,oil and plastic sheets,,,,,skinny dipping in the ocean,,,,,pouring chocolate down my tummy and having it licked off..........slowly.............strip teasing in the bedroom,,,,,wearing no panites under my dress,,,,groaping in the movie theatre.....and an entire list of obsessions....so what.?.?.?
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| 11/8/2009 4:27:31 PM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 pebblesbambam Allentown, PA age: 43
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U forgot the whip.... lol...
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| 11/9/2009 5:05:06 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 shiloo1 Tulsa, OK age: 30
| I have 3 pairs of shoes.
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8 Suits for work.
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7 changes of daily clothes (complete outfits that I can't wear to work)
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No tv
5 tv dinners
A phone in every room (bathroom as well)
3 laptops
I guess my only obsession is my job.
Today I enjoy a forced furlough. My city is broke and can't pay me to do nothing today. 
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| 11/9/2009 5:14:53 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
jayson07345 Reseda, CA age: 52
| I don't think collecting & organizing shoes is an obsession....
However, if you are giving them all names or talking to them like they are your pets, than maybe we do have a problem.
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| 11/9/2009 6:08:57 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
 roguevampire Burlington, MA age: 34 online now!
| well hells bells,,,,,i'm obsessed over hot lurid sex,,,,mouth to mouth sensual kissing,,,,playing around in the kitchen,,,,,touchy feely in public,,,,whip cream,,,,oil and plastic sheets,,,,,skinny dipping in the ocean,,,,,pouring chocolate down my tummy and having it licked off..........slowly.............strip teasing in the bedroom,,,,,wearing no panites under my dress,,,,groaping in the movie theatre.....and an entire list of obsessions....so what.?.?.?
Let me add a few to that list, or rather replace. blood, razor blades, whips, torture, fighting, biting, sucking, now thats fun.
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| 11/9/2009 8:50:02 AM | If a girl had a weird obsession... | |
longhairbadass Durand, WI age: 44
| Obsession is fine. As long as it stays in the realm of reality. Don't confuse obsessive traits with a mental disorder.
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