| 12/23/2007 7:15:27 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
princesscrys
Johnstown, PA
age: 33
| Okay, if you're the guy just looking for a lay/one-night stand, this is not for you.
I'm telling you now that I have had my experimental times. I may have even been involved in one or two of these threesome things. BUT, I have yet to be with a man who doesn't constantly bring it up in bed.
I'm here to tell you guys this: It is possible that many women fantasize about other women. Most possibly do. And there are certain people out there who are swingers. That's the lifestyle that they've adopted. But what makes you think that your girl wants to hear that you would enjoy being with her AND someone else?
Most girls are insecure to begin with. So hearing that I'm not enough to satisfy you is a smack in the face.
And maybe I've entertained the idea just to shut you up or make things sexier in the bedroom (in theory) - why then would it be with someone in this town? Because the chances of her wanting more, or wanting to ruin our relationship are very real.
And even if I did indicate that it might happen some day, why would you degrade me by telling me each and every woman who you think is sexy as we walk on by her?
Fantasies whipered in the bedroom are one thing - a play to keep things hot. But taking it to the next level is usually not what we've intended to do. And yet you harp on the subject.
I'm not going to say that men are pigs or perverted to want something such as this. Just heartless if they think the girl they supposedly 'LOVE' is going to survive it.
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| 12/23/2007 7:16:56 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
lovetolaugh7878
North Richland Hills, TX
age: 40
| sing on sister!! i got your back~!!
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| 12/23/2007 7:18:35 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 34
| OMFG!!!!  Im not insecure but its disrespectful! Couldn't have said it better myself! GREAT POST!
[Edited 12/23/2007 7:20:35 PM]
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| 12/23/2007 7:25:02 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
| Here is my thought on all this 3-some crap
Having one women too handle is enough, why would you want too double the trouble?....
Last I knew you went into a relationship cause you wanted that person and no one else, *now I could be wrong here*
I also believe that guys that want too have more then one women at once in bed, are rude, disrespectful, and don't really care about that womans feelings
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| 12/23/2007 7:29:02 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
deserted
Arlington, TX
age: 42
| Talking about it is great in my book, but doing it does cause problems.
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| 12/23/2007 7:34:04 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
| If a guy even asks a women too be involved in a 3-some, then he needs too be kicked too the curb, cause that just shows he doesn't really even care about her
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| 12/23/2007 7:34:33 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
linuxian
Dunedin, FL
age: 36
| A threesome equals a relationship implosion!! Every Time!
Don't do it, don't ask for it.
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| 12/23/2007 7:35:48 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
huckleberrysqr
Renton, WA
age: 38
| I have friends that don't live a monogamous lifestyle, and they're relationships are every bit as strong and loving as my friends that practice monogamy. To each their own imo. Now, on that note, if you are in a monogamous relationship, and you keep bringing stuff like that up, yes you are being completely disrespectful, and imo you don't deserve the person you're with.
I've been in both types of relationships in my life, and I've gotten both good and bad from them all. There is nothing wrong with couples that "swing" or live in a poly type of life, just like there is nothing wrong with couples that stay monogamous. Not everybody lives by the traditional rules of Christianity, and that doesn't make them bad people, they just have a slightly different take on things.
Rules and boundaries are important, and if the rules and boundaries of a relationship are such that there is to be no playing with other people, then those boundaries need to be respected period and point blank. To do otherwise is a violation of trust.
Big bear hugs
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| 12/23/2007 7:37:21 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 54
| i have to agree with crow on this on one lady is plenty and i don't share real well in that dept. i want all my partners attention.
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| 12/23/2007 7:39:07 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 34
| 1mt
Talk about getting violent! That experience can only end with someone getting thier ass kicked! Sorry, I don't play well with others and I don't share!
More times than not, the man wouldn't be willing to have a 3some with 2 men and their woman so how can they even ask their woman to do it?
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| 12/23/2007 7:48:35 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 54
| cajun iam not a violent person but ask me to share my lady or to bring another lady into a relationship i believe that would probably be the end right there
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| 12/23/2007 8:01:46 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
whatsluv
Ellicott City, MD
age: 51 online now!
| Wow, I'm no psychiatrist or anything, but CROWDOG, I think you have some Freudian thing going on there. Did anyone happen to notice his references to "womEn" and "too" instead of two? If I had to interpret the meaning of those subliminal errors, I'd say he's secretly into threesomes! Dahhhh, too many women????
Just an observation, really.
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| 12/23/2007 8:32:28 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
| shit, so hukd on fonix didn't werk fer me.....
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| 12/23/2007 8:50:40 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
whatsluv
Ellicott City, MD
age: 51 online now!
| LOL, CROWDOG! I don't think it was phonics, as much as parapraxis!
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| 12/23/2007 9:11:46 PM | Threesomes? Why? | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Most-Most-Most. I Heard that too Much. I Know MOST of the women I have been with would slap the shit out of me had I suggested any of the 3 way crap. I think that bringing another person into that relationship shall doom such fore mentioned relationship.(PERIOD)
Since you are not willing to say it I will. MEN THAT EXPECT THEIR WOMEN TO PERFORM 3 WAY RELATIONSHIPS ARE PIGS AND HEARTLESS!
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