| 12/30/2007 1:59:41 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
cherry6000
Anaheim, CA
age: 46
| I love to dance in the dark. It can be very romantic, sexual, etc... When I dance at a club.... I am way to interested in what steps come next. I get sweaty,clumsey,tired,distracted...  Do you men really like to go dancing???? Is Club dancing the best way to meet men these days??? Can't we skip the club, exchange numbers and do coffee. I want to be a wall flower. Hurry and get all the date stuff over with and make out, take out, sleep in.
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| 12/30/2007 2:02:28 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
wolv87
Castro Valley, CA
age: 40
| I'm with ya'. 
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| 12/30/2007 2:03:00 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
welder_one
Nashville, TN
age: 48
| sounds like a plan
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| 12/30/2007 4:59:55 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51
| I believe ,if two are looking for a long term dance partner a courtship period ,practice session of two weeks ,three days,nine hours should be applied before the two go dancing in the dark.
When the two join to dance in the dark their steps will be as stylish and romantic as a Waltz ,close and intimate as a Tango ,precise and exciting as a Rumba or free and provocative as a Cha Cha.
If one wishes to hurry the steps of the dance ,mistakes and falls are often the result.
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| 12/30/2007 5:11:18 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
whalemstr
Corning, CA
age: 51
| Was just listening to "Dancing in the Dark" by Bruce -last night!
dan 
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| 12/30/2007 5:15:10 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
| Clubs are not a good place to meet some one for a lasting relationship. Well at least there were when I went to them, but that was over 20 yrs ago, so it might be different now.
But I am like you. Dancing in clubs I get concern if ppl are watching me and if I an not dancing the right steps and it makes me nervous. Go getting a cup of coffee sounds like a far better idea to me.
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| 12/30/2007 6:55:01 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Most men I've talked too or have been with don't like dancing. Dance clubs you have to be alert on bumping into people. Tho I've been to a dance club (20+ years or so) and some dudes look like they trying to clear the runway for take off 
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| 12/30/2007 6:57:41 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
| I don't like dancing in clubs cause now a days, these young punks want too ruin the fun for us,
they get it in BOTH their heads, that they want the woman you are dancing with, and will start ALL kinds of shit, just too get you out of the picture, so they can have her
[Edited 12/30/2007 6:57:52 AM]
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| 12/30/2007 6:57:57 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
| i dont dance and do not go to clubs ,so i guess i will be single the rest of my life. 
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| 12/30/2007 7:41:02 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
davids07
Princeton, LA
age: 50
| Hi, Ive done the club and dancing in the dark and nothing beats Dancing in the dark!
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| 12/30/2007 8:54:47 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
cooltammy45
Eugene, OR
age: 46
| I have danced in the dark under the pail moon light. There is nothing in this world like it when two people are falling for each other than to dance under the moon in the dark on the beach. One does not need to wait for anything if the feeling is right then do it, it's like the first kiss if you have to ask then you have spoiled the moment that was at hand. You can tell when you both are there and ready it is just natural and will fall into place. I may not have dated for 27 years but I am a romantic at heart and I have not for gotten what feels right. I can remember as if yesterday the feeling that one has doing this with the person they are attracted to and have deep feelings for while on a date. Those are the things I seek in a man and to recapture the moment and how I felt once again.
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| 12/30/2007 4:37:29 PM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
invar
Long Island City, NY
age: 60
| Hi Cherry,
You are preaching to the choir, I know the slow, dark, quiet private dancing phenomenon soul mate 
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| 12/30/2007 5:01:01 PM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
dragan
Clinton Township, MI
age: 39
| Dancing in the dark, In a club, you have to yell to try to hear each other and if you done dancing in the club, then you have to try and find a place to sit, without beer spilt on the table or empty cups all over it.
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| 1/2/2008 9:46:02 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
healthologist
Page, AZ
age: 60
|  Skip the club, Dance real close all the way to the bedroom.
Works for me, with or without music.
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| 1/2/2008 10:16:50 AM | Dancing in the dark vs club | |
nightowl64
Fallon, NV
age: 43
| Women like to dance, that’s why you see them all dancing with each other in clubs. Men don’t like to dance, that’s why you don’t see many men on the dance floor. That is also the biggest problem with club dating… The men will dance to “get” the girl, but after that the dancing is done. Chances are if you meet someone in a club then that’s what they will want to do, go clubbing. If you’re not into the bar scene, you’ve just started off on the wrong foot. I agree with the coffee shop type date and that’s my preference. Coffee shops are quieter and give you a chance to talk without all the background noise.
I came to the online dating sites to hopefully meet people who share my interests. It’s the people who enjoy doing things around the house that have the toughest time with dating. There’s probably 50 women in my town who, like me don’t like bars and they are sitting in their house wondering where all the single men are.
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