joe7977
Temecula, CA
age: 29
| I have a question. I lost a girlfriend in high school to a car accident and years later found new loves here and there. My question is, how do you move on from what might have been? I just heard a Kenny Chensney song of "who you'd be today". It just seems soo hard to leave the major love in your life to anything new. Yeah I know we should all move one but, wow it just seems so hard. Anyone with the same situation or advice?
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auntiekk
Bellingham, MA
age: 45
| It is not very easy to move on you just deal with it.Love stays with you forever.they might not be here in person,but there love is always with you.As long as you remember the good times and the love you shared that keeps there spirit with us.I lost my best friend 5 years ago.He was everything to me,but i know in my heart he would want me to be happy.Which i am,I just can't find it in me to care for another just yet,because the love i have for him.I try to keep hs memory alive that gives me comfort.I even went to spiritual readers and what they had told me was really amazing.Don't get me wrong there are fakes ot there and there are real.When they tell you specifics only you two would know,thats scary.But the truth is they are always with us,just not in person.I hope I helped you.Take care
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dnhubert
East Elmhurst, NY
age: 53
| It's definitly not easy to move on but yes we must. I lost my husband 2 years ago and could not imagine falling in love again or ever even wanting to be with another man again. I met someone 2 months ago and I feel like my husband was watching over me and that he wants me to be happy again. Grant it, it will never be the same as it was; but its still good; just in a different way. God wants us to be happy and to move on with life. I really believe that when we die we get to see our loved ones again. We always hold our first true loves in our heart and our hearts are big enough to love again. I wish you the best of luck
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