| 1/1/2008 12:02:56 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
| there might be 1 in 10000 men will wait for marriage to have sex.maybe you need to be out front with sex before you go out on a date.
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| 1/1/2008 12:05:36 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Corbin, KY
age: 40
| When did the norm become...Hi I am so in so, I will not have sex with you on the first date...and then you go out...sex should not even be a part of a first date....I am not suggesting that I am not capable of feeling passion or even desiring it, and God help me to truly wait for the time that is right. I am not even suggesting that I would wait until marriage, but what I am saying is I want the right to choose, I want to play a role in what is otherwise considered to be a beautiful act shared between two people who love and care for each other. The thought that the man would wait, only enhances my desire for him....it builds that natural desire not the one the world has subjected everyone to. HELLOoooooo. LILRED
[Edited 1/1/2008 12:55:49 PM]
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| 1/1/2008 12:08:14 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50 online now!
| stylist...this is 2008.
I talk about it, before going. I know what I want to do, before going. Because I'd know the person, before going. JMHO
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| 1/1/2008 12:13:24 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
| stylist you need to also look at it this way everyones morals and dating are different .
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| 1/1/2008 12:18:43 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Corbin, KY
age: 40
| When has the numeric value of a year played any role in values or morals....The year 2008...hmmm goes something like this....It is 2008, I want sex, I am going to get it, it is 2008, and that makes it ok. It doesnt matter that morals and values play a role in establishing a great relationship..it is 2008 so I can trash my morals, trash my values it is 2008. It is 2008, I do as everyone else does...even if it is wrong it is 2008.
The world as a whole has severed its self from all that is good. We are quickly hurrling toward total demoralization, what all this suggest is that wrong is right, and right is wrong. LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 12:20:00 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
msjournee
Upper Sandusky, OH
age: 54
| Oh Pleazzzzzzzzzzzzzz, let me get my boots on here.....
And no, I'm not a man basher.....just honest.
If you put your heart out there, it's gonna get trampled.
And if's he's on you like a magnet in the way you stated it,
Trust me, he's got one more important at home or close by.
Go with your instincts.........Always.
Actions speak louder than words.
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| 1/1/2008 12:20:49 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Corbin, KY
age: 40
| Lynn you are correct, but there are still good people who have not allowed there values to be compromised by what society thinks is ok. Because everyone does think seperately and has there own opinions it does not mean that there view is right for me....LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 12:21:34 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Corbin, KY
age: 40
| great reply MS....LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 12:22:09 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
msjournee
Upper Sandusky, OH
age: 54
| Oh Pleazzzzzzzzzzzzzz, let me get my boots on here.....
And no, I'm not a man basher.....just honest.
If you put your heart out there, it's gonna get trampled.
And if's he's on you like a magnet in the way you stated it,
Trust me, he's got another one...... more important at home or close by.
Go with your instincts.........Always.
Actions speak louder than words.
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| 1/1/2008 12:27:00 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
| what all this suggest is that wrong is right, and right is wrong. LILRED
watch what you are saying you will be attacked for what you say is right or wrong,i have already went through this about a month ago when i asked about morals.
if you are a christan women then thats where you need to date christan man.
as far sex i have had plenty of women come onto me for sex on first date,it works both ways.
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| 1/1/2008 12:33:40 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Corbin, KY
age: 40
| I am merely keeping a great discussion going...by subjecting all view points into the equation....let's not get our panties into a knot.....I appreciate all the view points... subjecting several different ways of viewing the discussion can be a plus. It has brought some great replys, it really allows people to learn more about the people who reply....A little peak so to speak into the personality of each and every response.....I like that. So keep the replys coming....just remember I always like to keep things clean....I like great conversation, as well as the adversity that comes with the different opinions. It is much like a debate, hopefully without demise. Truly, LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 12:35:33 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
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| 1/1/2008 12:36:13 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 51
| OK Time out for a group hug....
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| 1/1/2008 12:37:12 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
bocky1019
Newark, DE
age: 50
| I agree with you LilRed,guys shouldnt be that way on the first date,But some are just looking to get laid .But I think you have to really get to know someone first if possible before meeting.Especially if you meet someone online.You have the chance to talk awhile before meeting and hopefully get a feel,no pun intended,of what the person is after.Its easy to pull the wool so speak over someone and lie and try and act nice and then when you meet they act like an ass.Just got to be careful and dont let someone like that give you the wrong impression of men.There are alot of nice guys out there,especially in Delaware..lol..
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| 1/1/2008 12:39:26 PM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Corbin, KY
age: 40
| Thanks bocky...anybody who is an eagles fan is a friend of mine..LILRED..
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