| 1/1/2008 11:19:06 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Richmond, KY
age: 39
| What do you all think about a first date that two hours into it the lady is having to fight off the advances and wandering hands of the man. I personally have had this to happen to me....It made me feel dis-respected and that the only reason he wanted to go out was for sex. I believe that I am an intelligent woman who has had many great life experiences and if I were a man I would want to try and learn all about a woman who had so many rich experiences in life. If I was truly interested in her I would not have tried to slip my hands into her blouse or even down her pants....the message rings clear to me.....SEX, SEX, SEX. I do not function that way, I will not become physically involved with someone I had just met and went out with on the first date. I like to get to know someone and see what they are all about. Needless to say, it has left me wandering if there truly are men out there who want to get to know a woman before sharing their self with them physically. If you do not know a person it is just what I said SEX. If you get to know them and really care about them then I beleive it becomes Makeing LOVE. Keep it clean guys when answering please.....LilRED
[Edited 1/1/2008 11:22:55 AM]
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| 1/1/2008 11:23:18 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
mfpc58
Woodlyn, PA
age: 49
| stylist7, I agree with you. I want to know just about everything about the woman that I see even before the word sex comes up. I guess I'm more old fashioned than most men. That would deffinately not have been me there. I want to know how a woman feels inside her heart first.
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| 1/1/2008 11:31:48 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
mred41563
Alexandria, KY
age: 45
| it doesnt matter if it is on the first date or the 100th date if the other person doesnt respond to your advances touch's and even pulls away or says no than you should respect that and stop, anyone that doesnt is just a jackass and only thinking of themselves
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| 1/1/2008 11:32:35 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Richmond, KY
age: 39
| thank you, in todays society it is all about self gratification. It is the ME ME ME thing. It is the I Want it and I will get it syndrome. People do not take enough time to invest into the potential relationship. Even men should respect there selves in such a way that they would not want to share their self physically with someone they do not know. Where is the true passion? what about building desire? You are not old fashion...you are respectible. LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 11:35:50 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
| he had no respect for you.his brain was between his legs.
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| 1/1/2008 11:36:58 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
mfpc58
Woodlyn, PA
age: 49
| Thank you. I always was and always will be. I put myself in the other persons shoes, like how do I feel, what do I want here? Most of the time if the connection is not there, I walk away as friends, and still to this day have many female friends that I chat with.
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| 1/1/2008 11:37:58 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
happinessnlove
Dade City, FL
age: 41
| Maybe he was an Octopus and his tentacles just kept getting in the way. Those poor sea creatures, they have such a tough dating life.
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| 1/1/2008 11:38:51 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 52
| I understand you point but it is silly for a woman to say what she would do or not do if she were a man. You're definitely not a man and for that I thnak your parents. All hetrosexualy men are into having sex with any woman that they find attractive. While they are pursuein ghta simple goal, they may or may not discover a person that they would like to know. That's the way the Lord made men, with that thing hanging there.
Women on the other hand are looking for the material to create a relationship and may eventually try sex to see if that part of the mix is there. It is not wrong or unwarranted for the guy to be after sex, but NO, means NO and no matter how much we are after sex, we should never cross the line of consensual behavior.
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| 1/1/2008 11:45:57 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
truthfulheart
Clarksville, TN
age: 52
| This puts a cloud over real men who know how to respect a Lady. We are all not like that. An As.....Like that is what makes it hard for us to meet and date women.
I have to agree i wouldn't care if it was the 100th date it's not right.
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| 1/1/2008 11:46:29 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Richmond, KY
age: 39
| God gave man the thing that is hang'in there to reproduce...and he also gave guidelines for the use of that thing for men and women....Marriage, I believe he said should come first.....But are you saying that because they have it hangin there it is the only thing they think about....I do not agree with that. There are many intelligent and respectful men out there. It sounds like you are saying men can not help themselves....I totally disagree. There are many good tools (in general) put into this world when used correctly these tools can benefit the world as a whole not just one selfish person who is only thinking of themselves. LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 11:47:25 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Richmond, KY
age: 39
| truthful heart, you are a gentlmen. LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 11:50:59 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
nightowl64
Fallon, NV
age: 43
| It all goes back to how they were raised... Or I should say NOT raised! People learn behavior from the environment they grow up in. Let’s face it, the world is full of people who do NOT have morals, manners or a conscience… like murderers, rapists, thugs and thieves… The only thing you can do keep your distance from them until there safely behind bars!
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| 1/1/2008 11:52:56 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| I don't agree with the men are made that way they just gotta have it. Women have needs and desires as well and some don't act on it. I don't talk sex. Sex is important but not a number one factor in a relationship. Doesn't mean I don't desire it and it doesn't mean I don't enjoy it. It is a private matter and is a bonus of a relationship...not my reason to be with someone.
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| 1/1/2008 11:53:57 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Richmond, KY
age: 39
| Nightowl, that is an excellent suggestion.....I agree, many have not been taught the right way. LILRED
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| 1/1/2008 11:54:57 AM | First Date and His Hands are all Over!!!!! | |
stylist7
Richmond, KY
age: 39
| Well said Garnet....I could not have said it any better....you go girl!!!!!
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