| 1/2/2008 2:49:15 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
lowpezz26
Ontario, CA
age: 27
| hi my name is manny here is my delema i was married for 2 1/2 years with a girl that i dated for 8 years we have a 2 yr old doughter togeather well in october out of the blue my x wife came to me and told me that she did not love me , did not want to be with me , and thats why we did not have sex for the last 4 months prior , and she told me she had a new friend , and that she was sleeping with him , and seeing him as a friend , and she told me that i was her friend too and that she wanted to seperate with me , after hearing this i filled for a divorce , the next weekend when i went to pick up my doughter she rolled up with this guy in a new chevy avlanche and looked at me like i aint crap cuz i was in my old toyota rav 4 , but what i drive is just for the moment cuz i graduate college this may and i will be a radoilogists , i have never treated her wrong all i ever did was work to support her and my lil girl and go to college to have a beatter life do you think she will try to come back ? will carma hit her ? i am so confused ? do u think the guy will dump her ? the guy is divorced with 2 kids that she left me for ?
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| 1/2/2008 11:07:00 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
cooltammy45
Eugene, OR
age: 46
| Karma will surly come back and get her it did my father in law but it took 16 years for it to happen. But when he left his first wife because he cheated on her he married the other girl and then after married to her for 16 years she left him and cheated on him with his golf instructor. So yes karma does and will catch up with you just hang in there sorry you had to go through that. Best of luck to you and your daughter!
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| 1/3/2008 8:39:50 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
cookiestar
Surrey, BC
age: 54
| Whether you call it karma or 'what goes around, comes around' which is from the Bible, it is true. Take time to heal your wounded emotions, be a good Dad and work on your goals. When you are ready, a new relationship will unfold gently. Don't rush into a new one. Learn from this break-up. Rarely is it ever only one spouses fault. See if you can discover why she started looking to other men. Another safeguard to a healthy relationship is communication. If one person has needs, it is their responsibility to voice them. It is always one's responsibility to 'tune in' and make sure that the partner is happy and not 'gunnysacking' negative emotions such as anger, jealousy, envy etc. I wish you all the best. These challenges are 'growing experiences' if we adopt a healthy perspective. Don't let it make you bitter. It's also good advice to protect the child from the angry, hurtful part by only ever speaking kindly of Mom. She will respect you for it in the years to come. Often it is the children who suffer the greatest trauma in divorces. You have many strengths and a great career ahead of you. I worked 25 yrs in the healthcare field. Working with and for people is very rewarding. Set your sight high when it's time for a new wife. Love yourself well so that you hv lots of love to give to your child and those whom you meet everyday. God bless you.
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| 1/5/2008 5:41:50 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
advance4000
New Britain, CT
age: 38
| I do believe in that karma and I have seen it in action a few times! You sound like a standup kind of guy! Any woman would definitely want someone like you in their life! Well, she didn't love you anymore, that happens and it sucks. But, to have a guy on the side is a bad thing to do instead of being truthful with you about her feelings!
Keep doing stufff for yourself and your child. Keep on with school and I assure you, she will get hers in one way or another! Put out good things and you get good things! Put out bad things and thats what you get back!
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| 1/6/2008 1:46:25 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
4realski
Tracy, CA
age: 41
| Sure what goes around comes back around. A little advise to you, dont be angry, dont be envy and dont do anything to hurt her. Always put your child first. Dont even worry sure it hurts. Time is on your side, it might be days from now or even years but if you DO THE RIGHT THINGS you will get all the GLORY. Try to stay focus on You and Your child and remember 2 wrongs dont make it right. She will reap what she have sown in your life. Stay focused. If it was meant to be you would still be together.
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| 1/6/2008 6:23:40 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
shineonml
Newburyport, MA
age: 34
| Forget about her; easier said than done I know. She wasn't the one if she's capable of that! Sorry about the hurt, and don't worry she'll get hers.
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| 1/21/2008 8:34:34 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
fifi
London
United Kingdom
age: 51
| Absolutely without a doubt. What goes round comes round.
[Edited 1/21/2008 8:35:35 PM]
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| 1/22/2008 6:00:37 AM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
safiya48
Queensland
Australia
age: 48
| yes eventually karma will get her and anyone else who does the wrong thing. Its a very difficult time for you right now. One day you will love again and be glad she was out of your life. Its more difficult because your child means youll have to see her again and again. Dont feel insicure about your car, it means jack shit what car someone drives.Its probably owned by the finance company anyhow. Be kind to yourself, this is a big growing time for you.
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| 1/22/2008 5:58:34 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
sweetynikki
Canyon Country, CA
age: 23
| i truly believe in karma, every person that has done wrong to me or something horrible usually have something worse happen to them.
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| 1/22/2008 6:00:14 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| My Grandmother believed in karma, only she called it "What goes around comes around!"
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| 1/22/2008 10:09:04 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
sensual_latin
Pleasanton, CA
age: 41
| I'm not too sure what karma is but is there such thing as a good karma?
I suffer from something like that (if there is such thing)
I'm always finding wallet with money, purses with money, gold jewelery. One time I played the scratcher lotto for the very first time and got the numbers right so I immediately destroyed the ticket (I don't like money following me around). This has been going on with me all my life.
Lots of times I accidently lose my purse and always find it few days later untouched LOL
One time I left it in one of the grocery carts at the grocery store over night, I had lots of cash and all my credit cards in it. I went back to the store parking lot the next evening and my purse was still in the grocery cart where I left it untouched! 
An yes, this applies to men too (always meeting the greatest guys ever)
So I wonder if this is good karma or what? 
(ironically none of this is fun to me)
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| 1/23/2008 4:30:35 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
micky_grays
Cleveland, OH
age: 23
| Hey man, too bad that b*tch done you wrong.
I hope she gets hit with a red hot salted frying pan.
And I hate to break it to you, but there is no karma shit...
I'd let the b*tch go, but if you want get a frying pan and buy a fifth of vodka ...
...actually dont do it cause youd have to explain it to your kid eventually.
I would just hope someone else does it to her 
[Edited 1/23/2008 4:31:55 PM]
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| 1/24/2008 11:51:13 AM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
akila1
Denver, CO
age: 30
| Why worry if karma is going to hit back or not? It's hard because it looks like she wronged you in so many ways, therefore it feels like you won't be happy until she comes to you and say she is sorry or until you see her miserable or something. Personally, I would try my hardest to move on and look at the future,look at the potential of other future opportunities(dating,new relationship,new career & many more). Easier said than done when you have a kid in the mix.
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| 2/1/2008 11:56:33 PM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
wburno
Des Moines, IA
age: 61
| Hi Manny , It is true , what goes aroung ,,will come back . But for now you need to heal also ... I can understand you hurt , All most the same thing happen to me 9 yrs ago . But this I will tell , It was not out of the blue , this was something .She was planning , for weeks or months,. But don,t try to get back at her, Or it will come back on you!!!! I don,t know if you beleive if God and Jesus ,, But until you make peace with Jesus , Things will go a lot faster, ,Then God ,can start his plan,when you make peace with jesus . A lot of christian will tell you this , Hat the sin , But not the sinner! Look at it this way What would Jesus do .Its good you finish schooling to learn a trade ,, It shows you trying to better your self. I,ll keep you in my prayers!!!!:May the peace od God be with you!!
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| 2/2/2008 7:26:48 AM | help me please ! do u believe in karma | |
maxlite777
Louisville, KY
age: 60
| Yes I do believe in Karma:
I believe that we should seek out those who bring out the best in us...and
we bring out the best in them. If the relationship that you are in... results
in undesireable results than the two of you together will bring about bad Karma.
If you and your wife were to get back together...Do you honestly feel that you and
your childs life would move forward in a positive direction?
Listen, be aware, know in your heart what is true.
Always want the other persons life to have positive results...Do we really want
another person to suffer because they weren't right for us? ( Let Go ) ! Your
Free to find the one who will bring out the best!
Good Luck
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