| 1/3/2008 7:14:24 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
funnyprincess
Loganville, GA
age: 44
| If you don't respond to a wink or message you are called rude (or worse), if you do respond it automatically means you're interested and could not possibly be that you are responding out of common courtesy 
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| 1/3/2008 7:16:53 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
hotdogz
Swansea, MA
age: 36
| i usualy dont respond if im not interested ive sent out wink and got no response no hard feelings
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| 1/3/2008 7:17:30 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
magicmanooo7
Pineville, LA
age: 34
| catch 22??..i wouldnt respond just out of courtesy unless it was understood that we are friemds to start with
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| 1/3/2008 7:17:55 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
cudarook
Saint Paul, MN
age: 25
| I personally don’t respond to winks anymore. It seems when I do you never get a response.
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| 1/3/2008 7:19:01 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
magicmanooo7
Pineville, LA
age: 34
| cuda...im trying to figure out WHO is not responding to YOU??
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| 1/3/2008 7:20:40 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
cudarook
Saint Paul, MN
age: 25
| There’s plenty who aren’t responding. That makes me sad.
but then I get over it and move on 
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| 1/3/2008 7:21:47 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
funnyprincess
Loganville, GA
age: 44
| It just amazes me how attached people get after one email that you are destined to be together lol
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| 1/3/2008 7:25:54 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
msshelly2u
Hyde Park, NY
age: 40
| I am new to this all and I don't really understand how a wink works.....Please someone advise me on the rules. I don't wan't to offend anyone.
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| 1/3/2008 7:28:20 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 51
| Winky is STINKY...
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| 1/3/2008 7:28:49 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
17cloverman
Delanson, NY
age: 45
| That's really up to you . If you wish to respond do so.
After reviewing their profile. If you don't want to respond don't.
Do what you feel You will be fine.
Most of the people in here don't respond to winks.
[Edited 1/3/2008 7:29:49 PM]
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| 1/3/2008 7:52:28 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
ericr64
Mount Pleasant, MI
age: 43
| Just think it as the same way you would if you were in a bar for example.
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| 1/3/2008 7:54:43 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
msshelly2u
Hyde Park, NY
age: 40
| Well if you are in a bar its face to face and you have to decline.........
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| 1/3/2008 8:03:13 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 51
| The rulez are your rulez. Every1'z idea ain't the same. My rulez are winkin' is STINKIN' n I don't answer 1 or an e-mail unless I want 2. I'm under no obligation n neither is any1 else as far as I'm concerned. In fact if ya not interested I'd rather ya not respond so I don't waste any mo' time on ya.
Call 'em like you see 'em. Hell, I do...
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| 1/3/2008 8:08:24 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
mistymay77
Newnan, GA
age: 31
| I think people feel safe with the wink. If they get a wink back then they feel more comfortable sending you an email because you have showed some interest. So do not wink unless you want to correspond with them! 
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| 1/3/2008 8:10:22 PM | To respond or not respond????? | |
magicmanooo7
Pineville, LA
age: 34
| i agree with misty!!
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