| 1/3/2008 8:34:23 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
sweetgurly
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 35
| 1. a man or women with book sense?
2.street sense?
3.common sense?
 we all would perfer someone that have all three but sometimes that is not possible at all not everybody no how to read or write or even spell great if you know what I mean by this question, or some people haven't never lived in the street to have street sense.what would you really perfer if that person lacked either one of the above if you really liked the person.
1. would you stay involved?
2. run like hell?
3. or check him or her out for awhile to see what there really about.
PS no smart comments 
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| 1/3/2008 8:52:35 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 35
| 3 and 3...
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| 1/3/2008 9:00:57 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 41
| I have dated all three. I can easily say #3. Number #1 & #2 drive my up the wall. I probably take #2 to the second question. If they don't have common sense, I'll drive them up the wall, because only a person with common sense will understand me.
[Edited 1/3/2008 9:03:39 PM]
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| 1/3/2008 9:14:12 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 41
| It's hard to pick between common sense and book sense. I don't really care if a woman has "street sense;" in fact, I might find that a bit of a turn off. "Common sense" is an important quality to me, no question about it. But I find "book sense" exciting and, yes, sexy! I like being around educated and intelligent women. Years ago, I went out with a woman who was very nice looking but -- I'm not trying to be nasty here, just descriptive -- dumb! We had nothing whatsoever to talk about! We'd go out to dinner and I'm bring up something in the news and she'd tell me about someone breaking a fingernail at work. I'd mention Edith Wharton or someone and she'd say "Who?" That's just not stimulating and not a recipe for a long-term relationship. Picking between common sense and book sense; very hard. Though as thebestman posted on a similar thread recently, they often are related as one has to have innate intelligence to have common sense.
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| 1/3/2008 9:20:19 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| common sense. ya can always get the other 2
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| 1/3/2008 10:27:28 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
bocky1019
Newark, DE
age: 50
| common sense leads to street sense
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| 1/3/2008 10:44:56 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| Many people use street sense to get over on a person and or manipulate for gain. Street sense typically are for hustlers, macks, drug dealers, players, prostitutes etc... Those people engage in activities in "the life" hence the term street smarts or sense whatever you prefer to call it.
Do I care if I meet a women with those qualities? Not really.
Street smarts and business smarts are two different things.
Book sense means just that. A person is so caught up in academics and or being a book worm, that their social skills in dating or in social settings are not always on point and they typically lack common sense.
Without common sense, a person can look like a real jackass. I prefer a woman with common sense because at least she can think on her feet.
Plain and simple, I leave a person if they don't make me happy and if I smell deceit, and stupid games/tests a mile away, and cheating.
You can always work with a person's flaws as long as they bring enough postive to the table.
[Edited 1/3/2008 10:45:09 PM]
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| 1/4/2008 12:37:52 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
sweetgurly
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 35
| thanks guys! i like your replies
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| 1/4/2008 12:52:02 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
craneoperatr1
Summerville, SC
age: 41
|  #3 of course because common sense actually reflects on the other 2 listed. i think.
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| 1/4/2008 12:59:20 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
nicki069
Perkinsville, VT
age: 36
| To be honest it seems like, the men I've meet on here after how's the weather and howare you all the interested is talking about sex. I don't post my picture, I a man ask for my picture before speaking, I know he's not interested in getting to know me. If by some miricale it's brought only in the second or third sentence I'll email him my picture.
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| 1/4/2008 1:00:20 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
nicki069
Perkinsville, VT
age: 36
| oh looks come first right guys
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| 1/4/2008 1:07:41 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
| i look for not of the above cause. cause to me love don't have perfer.to me it got to be unconditional are nothing . i don't want a woman to like me cause iam dum are smart. to me the most smartest person is one that look for godly sense .mean if one truely understand how and what god meant when his word say he give his only begoten son on our behalf . if one understand that kind of love. lol well nothing else make sense .
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| 1/4/2008 1:09:44 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
lorlie
Eugene, OR
age: 52
| 3 or nothing
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| 1/4/2008 1:11:10 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
| and no nick to some it dose mut iam one man that only look at other pic to see there eyes .cause throught a person eyes you can tell the bs . but i ask every lady i meet to let me know there mind first .
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| 1/11/2008 5:12:35 PM | what would you really perfer in someone??? | |
explorer3
Warminster, PA
age: 33
| I think a woman can get away with not having the other two but she definately needs common sense to have a decent relationship.
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