| 1/3/2008 10:27:46 PM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
owensborogirl
Owensboro, KY
age: 44
| It seems these days men want to play games. Just to try to get into your pants. Why can't people be friends and get to know eachother first?
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| 1/3/2008 11:37:50 PM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Well, you are in luck OWENS. You have just entered a dating medium where you can control when you meet. You can take as long as you like to interview your potential dates. Technically, you can go out on as many dates as you like BEFORE you ever meet. Ask the right questions and you should know the person you are going to meet as well as you know yourself. Look at all the power this Internet dating has given you. I suggest you post a photo and give it a try. Profiles with photos get much more attention. Good luck.......
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| 1/10/2008 3:06:02 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
lonlyboy1937
Bowling Green, OH
age: 70
| sorry i think you got that wrong 'the women are the ones who play the games 90% just c``k teasers  
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| 1/10/2008 4:53:57 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
talktomi
Queensland
Australia
age: 27
| Owensborogirl, I hear you. I have had a fair few mind games played on me and I must say the last one got right into my crenail cavity!
Thing is, the only way I lived through it was to learn to be true to me. Now, I listen to my good sense and don't make as many exceptions. So many times our intuition warns us that there is something not quite right. There are many mind game players male and female. Unfortunately majority of the "love-mind games" are played on the more smitten partner where as if you are the object of affection, the smitten one feels the mind games are being played on them. Quite a cycle, we would all be happier if we stuck to the facts and were true to ourselves and others.
I still haven't met "Mr.Right" (please note the quotation marks) but my dating experiences are better now that I feel more complete in myself. I find that the "good opinion" of some would be mind game players doesn't affect anymore. He wants to play mind games, I choose to walk away. (I have actually had a mind game player come back with a different attitude after realising he didn't hold my cards)but by then, I wasn't too keen.
It's a vicous cycle. There are plenty of guys out there,you just might have to turn afew more stones than anticipated. I hope this helps.
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| 1/10/2008 5:57:48 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
stilwater4u
Riverview, FL
age: 58
| it seems to me that more women are playin games to me ,however in my case im always friendly smile say hello and if people wanna be friendly ok if not move on life is to short for games ,I dont play .
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| 1/10/2008 6:20:25 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
| Yea, not into games. Game over for me!
Mikey
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| 1/10/2008 6:49:32 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 42
| Men and Women both play games..........I don't play those kind of games - too old for that shit..
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| 1/10/2008 8:31:11 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
lorlie
Eugene, OR
age: 52
| agree with stormy 100 percent.
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| 1/10/2008 9:05:24 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
meh777
Midland, TX
age: 30
| yeah mind games suck I don't play them and hope they never get played on me
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| 1/10/2008 9:55:56 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| Both men and women play games, but not all do. It's all about who you meet. One cannot control the other person's agenda and game playing. I advise dating until you meet someone who doesn't have "playing games" on top of their agenda.
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| 1/10/2008 10:00:59 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
ylickr
Ottawa, ON
age: 40
| Only cowards play games, there are some of us that do what we say 
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| 1/10/2008 10:01:28 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
17cloverman
Delanson, NY
age: 45
| I play games card games board games and sex games   
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| 1/10/2008 10:42:16 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| sometimes it's hard to know if its a game that's being played. Sometimes, you are far enough into the relationship before you realize that you are bing played...and that just sucks...
Trust is about all you can do. And watch for red flags....
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| 1/10/2008 10:45:22 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50
| Trust is earned, not given....
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| 1/10/2008 10:50:25 AM | How do you meet others, without all of the games? | |
silver_rain1011
Springfield, VA
age: 22
| try meeting some people in group settings. Bring some of your friends, tell them to invite their friends. Somewhere in the middle you all have a good time regardless of what happens. You never know who your friends know! I never realized how many attractive, available guys my friends had until we did a huge group outing.
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