1/4/2008 5:46:19 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

familyman230
Meriden, CT
age: 44


My wife thinks it's cheating. I'm here for entertainment value only although I was originally here because we weren't doing well in our relationship and we were close to divorcing. A little cart before the horse, I know. Things have changed recently(past three weeks) just never thought to change the status of my profile. More to it,but for the sake of space........... Wanted to know what others thought. I realize I'm putting myself under fire here, but, that's ok, I'm more interested in others thoughts and opinions.

1/4/2008 5:49:28 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

steveredman
Spotswood, NJ
age: 37


yes

1/4/2008 5:49:46 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

freeagain17
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 46


Yes, it's wrong. If you're married...happily or not...you don't belong on here. End of Story.

1/4/2008 5:51:35 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 53


not if your lookin for a date for your sister.

1/4/2008 5:51:43 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 34




1/4/2008 5:52:18 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

kelkel1984
Mascoutah, IL
age: 23


If I was in your wifes shoes hard to say what I would think....I beleive that as long as your not hiding it from her...if she wanted and u allowed her to see what you were saying to ppl or what they were sayin to you I think it she should be ok with it...If you are one of them guys that hide it close out the screen if she comes near then its ovious that your doing something you shouldnt be and your trying to hide it...thats just my opinion...

I was with a guy for 3 years didnt care what he did online or who he talked to until he started closin out windows when I got near him or he would wait till I wasnt home to get online to me that just makes it seem like he had something to hide from me so he must been doing something wrong...

On a side not...you said you got on here b/c you were on way to divorce...seems to me 1st time a problem came about you were just going to give up on ur marriage you must not be to happy with your wife if the 1st time things get rough you jump onto a dating site...to me that just shows your not happy and if you were to get divorced you would be ready to move on right away and get with to someone else therefore....how much love do you really have for your wife...


sorry if anything I said offends you just being honest and you might think well shes only 23 whats she know...you would be suprised how much I know and how many relationships I have helped and how many ppl come to me for advise over someone much older...again not tryin to offend you in any way just my personal opinion...

1/4/2008 5:53:14 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46


why would u want too be here

1/4/2008 5:55:01 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46


....for entertainment???????

1/4/2008 5:55:06 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48 online now!


I wouldn't want my husband in here so yes I think it is wrong. IMO married people shouldn't date others. Even if you come in 'innocently' opens the door BIG TIME. A bad relationship isn't going to get better being in a dating site.

1/4/2008 5:55:21 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

magicmanooo7
Pineville, LA
age: 34


i couldnt do it...i would feel sooo bad!

1/4/2008 5:55:53 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37


may not be cheating but what the hell are ya here for???? don't you already have a relationship that you need to be working on??? they are hard enough without adding to it.these sites can hinder even a perfecty strong relationship.

1/4/2008 5:56:16 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

barbiegirl000
Mandeville, LA
age: 24


ha your wife shouldnt get all offensive over just an e mail but im new here so i dont really know so....

1/4/2008 5:58:18 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


Why not??? There seems to be a lot of married people and couples who think single is a double digit number. What would be different??? Says DateHookup and before logging in it states that I can meet singles. My definition of single is one and yet I have been messaged by couples looking for an addition to their marital bliss. I have been messaged by men who state they are single but then found out that they want some action on the side.

1/4/2008 5:58:59 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

cullingsong
Ayden, NC
age: 40


I consider it cheating. I also consider it rude.....it's called "datehookup", for Pete's sake. What the hell do you THINK most people are on here for? It doesn't say nice things about the people you contact to speak to, either, as you're assuming they won't mind speaking to a married man. If you want entertainment, go to the movies. Take your wife with you. Get out of here and quit wasting everyone's time (yours included).

1/4/2008 6:00:12 PMIf you're married, is it wrong being here chatting ................ 

iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41


i think its deinitely wrong, i wouldn't want my husband, oops x, to be in here if we were still together.


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