 sdcentaur Sioux Falls, SD age: 48
| Seems if she wants to screw around with older men she should at least charge for it and you should get your cut.
Oh my! did I just call your wife a wh*re?
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honestfriend381 Clarksville, TN age: 47
| I am so sorry this is happening to you...
My sister-in-law has followed the same road your wife is on. This isn't going to be a one time deal for you. It will happen over and over again. She'll realize she's made a mistake and come back to you only to be distracted by another man again. And then you'll have to deal with trust issues because you'll never be able to trust her around any man. Co-workers, your buddies, no man.
I love both my brother and would want him to be happy more than anything else in the world. And he wants to be with her.
You have to do what you think is right. There will be a lot of people that tell you to shake her loose, you're making it easy on her. She has a nest to return to as long as you leave that door open, she'll come and go. Is that how you want your children to view marriage? What was the point in getting married then?
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 chrisk1974 Bowling Green, OH age: 34
| in my opinion you have to leave her. while doing so may hurt, you will be able to move on sooner or later. if you stay its only gonna prolong the pain. she obviously doesn't love or respect you. if she did either she wouldn't be doing that. i have freinds who got married right out of highschool, never dated anyone but each other. they are perfectly happy because they love each other. its just an excuse, and a lame one at that.
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