| 1/12/2008 8:50:44 AM | out of my league??? | |
drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| crafty, i agree with you. i guess the only way to really find it to approach the woman and see if you can strike up a conversation. if db can, he's definately a better man than me. women look at me, and think one thing. where's my mace?
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| 1/12/2008 8:54:00 AM | out of my league??? | |
corbinsgaga
Wooster, OH
age: 47
| Not true drmmr. Some of look and say damn.He's kinda hot.
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| 1/12/2008 9:01:42 AM | out of my league??? | |
seawench1
Maricopa, AZ
age: 55
| That is a two way street...after reading the answers here
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| 1/12/2008 9:04:19 AM | out of my league??? | |
pirate72
Paris, IL
age: 36
| Nobody is out of anybody's league. We all eat, drink, sleep, and...dare I say it? I dare, I dare!...shit the same. Nobody is better than anybody else, and anyone who thinks they are are likely missing out on some golden opportunities to know a really cool person. I pity those people.
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| 1/12/2008 9:05:46 AM | out of my league??? | |
superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 31
| Anyone that thinks they are too good for me makes me happy to hear it. That just means they aren't good enough.
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| 1/12/2008 9:17:42 AM | out of my league??? | |
corbinsgaga
Wooster, OH
age: 47
| Good answer Pirate. My thoughts exactly.
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| 1/12/2008 9:21:29 AM | out of my league??? | |
pirate72
Paris, IL
age: 36
| super...Awesome attitude! And spot on!
Their attitude just lets you know that they're not really worth your time 
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| 1/12/2008 9:21:56 AM | out of my league??? | |
kellyleed
Sumter, SC
age: 36
| I must say some of these answers surprise me,
but I guess if you get hurt and burned enough times
your priorities change when entering a relationship.
No one is out of anyone's league
you may not make good lovers
but everyone can be great friends.
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| 1/12/2008 9:28:12 AM | out of my league??? | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
| confidence is the key!
money cannot buy love,only gold diggers.
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| 1/12/2008 10:32:50 AM | out of my league??? | |
drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| i agree with all of you. we are equals, no one person is better than the other. however, let's be realistic about one thing. there are attractive people out there that you may want to get to know, and before you can even get out of your mouth: hi, my name is..., they give you the: "oh please", and walk away. these are the people to whom i am referring to. to me, if a woman doesn't want to talk to me, or get to know me, that's her loss. i'm a real good guy, and alot of fun to be around. and "ANY" woman would be the better to have me in their life. it's not ego, it is confidence. i'm sure there are a few women on this site alone, that if you gave them a wink, or sent an introductory email, it would be deleted immediately because you don't "fit" their profile of what they want in a man. it's the truth, that's all i'm saying. 
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| 1/12/2008 11:02:24 AM | out of my league??? | |
huckleberrysqr
Renton, WA
age: 39
| Amen drummr, preach on brother. I think exactly the way you do. I've been blown off alot on these sites, and the thing I think is "your loss"...I'm a hell of a great guy. I might not be the best looking man out there, but I'm no chud either. And I work my a** off, have a car, am active, and very loving. When I find the right woman, she's not going to regret giving me a chance that's for sure.
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| 1/12/2008 11:17:26 AM | out of my league??? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| the fears are usually unfounded.some people do look at how that person fits into their life as far as some things. these are the ones who are limiting themselves and very few chances of finding happiness.
at one time i felt the same and limited myself to contacting only women who i felt were at similar life's paths.if i felt that a women was at a higher level than me i would pass her by.funny thing is some of the same women actually contacted me.who knew?
i feel it's about the person.everyone has something to share that enhances another's life.
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| 1/12/2008 4:18:27 PM | out of my league??? | |
imagegirl5
Mobile, AL
age: 26
| I'm sure at some point we have all felt like someone was out of our league. I see only two solutions:
A. Get the heck over it and give it a shot...the worst they can do is say no
or
B. Turn, walk away, and find someone you are more comfortable with
Whatever you do don't sit and sulk about it. That won't do anybody any good.
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| 1/12/2008 4:23:05 PM | out of my league??? | |
castertroy
Belmar, NJ
age: 38
| Absolutely!
And this is why i will never give up on
K ATE
BECKINSALE
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| 1/12/2008 4:30:14 PM | out of my league??? | |
superheroscoo
Garden City, KS
age: 25
| I remember a girl who told me she liked me in high school. I laughed it off. She was a couple years younger than me, popular and drop-dead gorgeous. I couldn't believe that someone like that liked me.
It turns out she actually did and I was so caught up in my own social status to realize that she wasn't out of my league.
Give it a shot. I have never dated a girl that another guy did not want to take away from me. Sometimes I feel like my standards are too high, but it hasn't kept me from dating beautiful, remarkable girls. Now the real struggle is finding one who you want to keep and who wants to keep you too.
That's the b*tch of dating. If they don't want to keep you or you don't want them, its going to end eventually.
Keep the confidence and go for it. It might hurt, but it will hurt more to hide in your apartment and do nothing (like I have been doing, when I am not teaching, since July).
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