| 1/12/2008 12:24:18 AM | out of my league??? | |
dbqguy
Dubuque, IA
age: 41
| i have looked at alot of women on here and thought "the only way i am ever going to meet her is if she hired me to clean her pool,or cut her grass"could someone like me ever attract a women like that????
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| 1/12/2008 3:06:01 AM | out of my league??? | |
huckleberrysqr
Renton, WA
age: 38
| Attraction is a strange thing brother. I'm a down to earth, large and in charge, pierced, tattooed guy. I'm finding women that I didn't think would be in to a guy like me flirting away. I think that if you are truly approachable, friendly, and have a wear a nice smile, and make eye contact and maintain it, show confidence, and actually listen to a woman, she's likely to show an interest in you.
Yes there are shallow people out there, but they just aren't worth your time brother. Good luck finding the right woman for you.
Rick
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| 1/12/2008 6:38:20 AM | out of my league??? | |
michaelcee
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
| It's all in the way you carry yourself and, partially, how you dress.
Take a look at my fugley mug.... I'm nothing special but I've had relationship(s) with Doctors, lawyers and engineers.
(plus, quite a few less "professional" ladies)
Was married to the lawyer and comp-sci engineer.
Doesn't hurt to be able to hold a half-way intelligent conversation too.
In that case... if you're lost just do the Radar O'Riely thing and say "Ahhhhh... Bach"
Michael
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| 1/12/2008 6:46:34 AM | out of my league??? | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| The same thing applies to some of us women....I've seen a few men I think are extremely attractive, some that are funny, witty with their comments, and when I read their profiles....either they are too far away, too young,not really looking for anyone, or I'm left at the gate. Attraction is like Beauty, its heart that counts 
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| 1/12/2008 6:47:05 AM | out of my league??? | |
v2_1
McHenry, IL
age: 45
| LMAO @ Michael! I loved that episode!
Dubuque, I checked out your profile.... you seem honest and down to earth. Great qualities that any woman would be happy with! You've gotten some great advice here. When a woman is comfortable in her own life, what a man does and his income don't make any difference... it's all about the fit.
Be yourself, flirt, say hi.... don't be afraid to take a chance.... you never know! Good luck!
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| 1/12/2008 7:25:23 AM | out of my league??? | |
sgtazzpants
Estes Park, CO
age: 47
| wow you give us too much credit.. Just be yourself.
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| 1/12/2008 7:32:05 AM | out of my league??? | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| DBQ guy...don't forget that there's some nice gals just a little older too!! (hint hint)..and happen to be neighbors!  Hi neighbor!!!
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| 1/12/2008 7:38:49 AM | out of my league??? | |
wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 41
| There was a time when I thought everyone was out of my league..self esteem issues..but I've dealt with them..I may not be a Tom Selleck...or whoever the broads drool over today. .but I have a good and open heart..a belief that we are all equal in God's eyes..
So no one is out of my league..they may just be on a different page in the book of Life than I am..but eventually..we're all gonna be on the same page.
Just keep yer chin up.maybe put on a nice shirt..and dont be afraid to be yourself.
Good luck
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| 1/12/2008 8:17:05 AM | out of my league??? | |
esirah
Roosevelt, NY
age: 37
| to me that's the best part of the internet, you can't tell 'league' everyone is on the same page -- well, at least in the same chapter. we are here to meet people and see where it will go. and not for nothing, Duke has GOT to be a great ice breaker for you. 
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| 1/12/2008 8:20:51 AM | out of my league??? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| How do you know they're out of your league if you don't ask? The worst that can happen is they won't respond or will say they're not interested. Not a big deal since you really haven't invested much in asking.
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| 1/12/2008 8:24:17 AM | out of my league??? | |
drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| oh please! we all know that there are extremely attractive women who won't even look at a guy if he doesn't meet a certain standard, in her eyes. guys, we're not that smart. our standards are, does she have all of the women "parts", she does, good, let's go. we're just horny.
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| 1/12/2008 8:26:30 AM | out of my league??? | |
esirah
Roosevelt, NY
age: 37
| Drummr
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| 1/12/2008 8:29:54 AM | out of my league??? | |
drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| am i wrong? preahc, while i pray!
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| 1/12/2008 8:39:09 AM | out of my league??? | |
bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46
| drummer ru saying lower your standards and have more fun,,,,,i'll play in my own league and let them find me
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| 1/12/2008 8:40:17 AM | out of my league??? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| I agree that there are attractive people like that, Drummer. My point, though, is that not ALL attractive people are like that. It just doesn't seem fair to me to judge people based on stereotypes.
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