| 1/12/2008 4:34:27 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
stillcute
Minneapolis, MN
age: 46
| If a Women is Interested in a Man, isn't It true that you dont tell them your BROKE.
OR VISA VERSA I GUESS
Too many people take it as a sign of them being a gold digger or worse.
that could' be why Men think Women are Fake on websites, the women who back down or don't follow through could be on a budget, lets say.
Men do not traditionally ask women out on Dates anymore (letting them know they are treating), for the same reason,I Think.
[Edited 1/12/2008 4:59:48 PM]
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| 1/12/2008 4:41:58 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| if i am interested in a woman, and would like to take her out. i really don't give a damn if she's wealthy beyond belief, or dirt poor. but i will give a damn if she lies. who hasn't been financially strapped at one time or another in their life. it should have nothing to do with whether you have an interest in someone.
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| 1/12/2008 4:47:10 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Money has never been a point in considering whether or not I would go out with a Lady.
Never.
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| 1/12/2008 4:47:19 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
| But then thats kind of sneaky...........
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| 1/12/2008 4:48:04 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 47
| Good answers guys! Money isn't everything!
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| 1/12/2008 4:49:41 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
| Money is though........I used to believe that but not anymore.......
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| 1/12/2008 4:49:58 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 47
| you cant buy happiness---
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| 1/12/2008 4:51:46 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 52
| If I loved them that wouldnt matter
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| 1/12/2008 4:53:49 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 53
| this is a good question.If she came right out and asked me.I would just say,I am financially stable.As time goes on, if she was truely interested in me, and not whether about my assets, then I would tell her whatever she would want to know about anything.
TRUST is built, not given away like candy.
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| 1/12/2008 4:54:13 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
freeagain17
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 47
| While money isn't everything and can't buy happiness it is important. If I met a guy and he told me he was broke I would first want to know what the situation is. Is it a temporary, down on your luck kind of thing or have you been "broke" for years. It it's the latter, I probably wouldn't pursue it any further because that would indicate to me that the guy isn't aggressive enough about his financial future and since I am, there would be problems for sure. I've been there and know it can cause problems if one person is motivated and the other isn't.
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| 1/12/2008 4:54:58 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
stillcute
Minneapolis, MN
age: 46
| Its not decieving just not to mention, but why can't we admit we would shy away from them more if initially known.
Thank You FreeAgain
[Edited 1/12/2008 4:56:10 PM]
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| 1/12/2008 4:58:21 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 51
| I'm BROKE n have been 4 YEARZ.
Just thought I'd get that out there...
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| 1/12/2008 5:00:36 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
| You know being broke doesnt buy you happiness either. Actuall it bought my family misery when I was young!!
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| 1/12/2008 5:01:20 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
superheroscoo
Garden City, KS
age: 25
| This sounds like another one of those dishonest scenarios where you try to be something you aren't, appearing to have more money than you really have. It never works out in the end because you end up really being broke.
I make a decent wage. I wouldn't say I am broke, but I don't just fling money at everything. Middle class is not upper class. If the right person came along, I would just have to budget differently.
Money is not everything, but I heard once that there are three reasons why relationships end:
1. communication
2. Money (security)
3. Sex
Not sure how people want to take that. Keep in mind that people make theories like this one all the time. I won't claim its valid.
I think claiming to be something you aren't goes under communication and over-spending goes under two. If you are bad in bed on top of that...you're f**ked.
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| 1/12/2008 5:01:41 PM | You don't tell them Your Broke................ | |
jmr44
Zion, IL
age: 45
| Had money till I got married, then I got divorced and now
I am broke.......so what, But I have a heart of gold.
Money didnt buy me love it bought me a divorce...
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