| 1/15/2008 5:15:27 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
dcy
Brandon, SD
age: 54
| If your significant other had nummerous online "relationships",with single persons would you be concerned? I am told that these aren't meaning anything and that I'm the only one he's seeing, however, to me it seems he's looking for something or someone else to pursue.
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| 1/15/2008 5:17:54 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| If it bothers you tell him to pull the plug. If he says no, there in lies your answer.
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| 1/15/2008 5:18:36 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| numerous online RELATIONSHIPS???? you may have to define your meaning of that. but i always say, ones actions always speak louder than words.
quite naturally the other person will say that they don't mean anything. just like cheaters will say "oh she's just a friend, we are not doing anything."
GO WITH YOUR GUT
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| 1/15/2008 5:19:43 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
mi_race_girl_69
Wyandotte, MI
age: 38
| I'd say most of the time no.
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| 1/15/2008 9:24:23 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 41
| Yes, I would be VERY concerned. I'd tell her so and ask her to end all of them. If she wouldn't, I'd know I wasn't that important to her.
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| 1/15/2008 9:25:56 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
| I wouldn't go for it. 
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| 1/16/2008 11:47:24 AM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
ferrari348
Milford, OH
age: 47
| Cut the hi speed connection...dial-up for that boy
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| 1/16/2008 8:05:13 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 33
| If your husband or boyfriend is on sites like this making relationships with people online, that is a GIANT RED FLAG!! The fact that it's online doesn't matter. You need to have a talk with him. If he persists in this, you need to end the relationship.
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| 1/16/2008 8:50:07 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
stormie_temp
Fresno, CA
age: 36
| Yes, definately something to worry about. But, since you are also on a dating site looking for someone....I don't understand what the problem is?
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| 1/16/2008 10:41:21 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
froggienm
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
| If he is your boyfriend and he won't leave the sites to be with just you and only you, then yes, there is a huge problem and one you can't solve and are best to run away from. If you are here also looking for the same thing, they he isn't the only one with the same problem..... But yes, single female "friends" for a man who is supposed to be dating someone else are always something to worry about just like single "male friends" are for a guy to worry about from his girl whom he is dating.......
FroggieNM
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| 1/16/2008 10:42:35 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 29
| I have guy friends but when Im in a relationship the relationship comes first.
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| 1/16/2008 10:54:26 PM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| I would think something is out of whack. But then, I am gun-shy because of trust issues of days gone by, with the ex. I have a couple of women I talk to online. One I will always talk to. However it is not a relationship. I met her on an oncology chat line when looking for alternative cures for my late wife. We helped each other through some tough times, and we have continued to be friends. She lives in Malaysia.
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| 1/17/2008 9:19:53 AM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
yankeesweet
Aiken, SC
age: 58
| Like everyone said...define "relationships". If he/she is online on dating sights
talking and looking around then that is a big problem. If however, these are good
friends he/she has had for sometime then that is different.
For example, I am still friends with the best friend of someone I dated back in high
school. I have been married, had kids and divorced. He is married and has raised kids.
He is a good friend and just because I am now single again doesn't mean I am even
thinking of him as more than a very close friend.
I have several male friends that I correspond with. I tend to keep friends for a long time. I don't think we can have enough of them!!! Anyone that dates me has to understand that.
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| 1/17/2008 10:45:01 AM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
bouquet
Temecula, CA
age: 63
| I thought about bashing his computer with a sledge hammer ~ to make the point !!! I still think I should have . The look on his face would have been priceless (husband)
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| 1/17/2008 10:51:46 AM | are single female friends something to worry about? | |
bouquet
Temecula, CA
age: 63
| My husband passed away , and now that I'm in these sites and have been in cyber love a couple times ~ I don't think men take these afairs to heart anyways . . . . . . Now even my married female friends were very hot to him ! TROUBLE !!
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