| 1/15/2008 6:22:47 PM | are winks superficial? | |
redcat1496
Des Plaines, IL
age: 48
| The other thread made me wonder about that.I'v used them.The thinking,or lack thereof,is that if theres absolutly no intrest whatsoever after seeing my profile,what would be the point.I'v always responded to winks,but I guess woman apparently get lots more than I thought.Theres always the mindlessly insipid first email,and yes I do read the profiles first.
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| 1/15/2008 6:28:48 PM | are winks superficial? | |
drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| personaaly, i have gotten alot of winks. most are of the bogus variety. but there r some women who just want to say hi. u r just going to have to manuver through the pretenders, in order to find the contenders. good luck.
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| 1/15/2008 6:34:56 PM | are winks superficial? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| exactly drummer
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| 1/15/2008 6:35:19 PM | are winks superficial? | |
harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39
| Personally i rather a small hello in a an email than a wink. A wink just tells me they like what they see. A small email tells me they liked what they read.
good luck
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| 1/15/2008 6:38:10 PM | are winks superficial? | |
treize
Sylacauga, AL
age: 31
| Most winks I get are scammers. So much so I am wary of them. I agree that an email that actually lets the person know you did more than just look at their pic is more attention getting.
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| 1/15/2008 6:45:41 PM | are winks superficial? | |
redcat1496
Des Plaines, IL
age: 48
| from now on emails it is,I guess woman can't know if I just sent one to her ,or just some guy sending winks all over the place.thanx.
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| 1/15/2008 7:33:22 PM | are winks superficial? | |
osipsc
Chicago, IL
age: 54
| I prefer a brief email as well. Winks don't require any thought...
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| 1/15/2008 8:55:17 PM | are winks superficial? | |
drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 33
| I agree. I don't like winks at all. What does it mean when someone winks at you? It could mean anything. If you're really interested in someone, send them a short e-mail. It doesn't have to be something super poetic, just something simple like "Hey would you like to chat sometime" or something. Winks bug the hell out me. I never know how to respond to them and when I do wink back or even send an e-mail, they usually don't answer back which annoys me even more.
Winks are for the lazy.
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| 1/15/2008 8:58:06 PM | are winks superficial? | |
seawench1
Maricopa, AZ
age: 55
| I do not do winks....they just get deleted.
[Edited 1/15/2008 9:09:26 PM]
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| 1/16/2008 4:39:49 AM | are winks superficial? | |
azangelkisses
Mesa, AZ
age: 47
| I for one don't mind the winks.. unless it is the same ones that keep winking and never write.. but the first wink is ok.. because it lets me know they seen my profile and interested...therefore i response to it depends on if i would be interested in them.. then i say thanks... and opens up for my contact. so not wasting each others time.. but if one writes weather im interested or not will write them back and let them know.
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| 1/16/2008 9:58:40 PM | are winks superficial? | |
mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
| I delete winks...seriously do you wink at someone in a bar noooooooooooo!! you go talk to them, winks are clutter so email detailed show of interest. From the ladies prespective guts...we get bomnarded with mail and if He cant show me a good chunk of his mind, deepth of character and a spark of what makes him passionate aboout life it goes in the trash...there's just too many...it's like sorting any other mail, if it looks like junk mail dont you throw it out....so be real!
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| 1/16/2008 10:01:33 PM | are winks superficial? | |
sdcentaur
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 48
| I like getting winks.
They tell me that the winker didn't read my profile
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| 1/16/2008 10:13:41 PM | are winks superficial? | |
stephentrue
Ladera Ranch, CA
age: 59
| most winkers are clinkers. Show me watcha got!
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| 1/17/2008 8:09:52 PM | are winks superficial? | |
ss76
Toledo, OH
age: 32
| I'd be happy to get any communication, frankly.
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| 1/17/2008 8:15:13 PM | are winks superficial? | |
drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 33
| It's even better when a woman does send you a message saying hi or whatever and then you say hi back and then that's it. When you check the message you sent, it's been deleted. I got one of those today.
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