Forums: Relationships: Help I need my confidence back
1/17/2008 8:55:10 AMHelp I need my confidence back 

waitingforyou11
Marquette, MI
age: 20

I need my confidence back to start dating...need help

1/17/2008 9:06:42 AMHelp I need my confidence back 

passionplay1975
Arlington, TX
age: 32

you are pretty cute there. can't tell much about you in your profile except you want a long term, picture is far away

1/17/2008 10:03:08 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

tinasdream
Katy, TX
age: 31

me 2

1/17/2008 10:04:37 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34

Here I come too save the day.......

1/17/2008 10:05:20 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

gotboostvr4
Littleton, CO
age: 23

first step: don't ask for pity, you need to exude confidence
second step: take the plunge, get out there man!
third step: go for it and don't look back

1/17/2008 10:09:19 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34

Just do it.....take a chance, you can't get ahead in life if you don't

1/17/2008 11:12:51 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

howaboutme22
Madisonville, TX
age: 22

That is right! You don't know where you land until you jump!!!

1/17/2008 11:14:31 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39

Hanging out here and making friends........will help build ur confidence back up. Run far away from the negative peeps

1/17/2008 11:19:21 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

rnwolf
Elkhart, IN
age: 37

join the club, I looked for mine on ebay and it's not there

1/18/2008 10:20:23 AMHelp I need my confidence back 

thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34

1. Take a deep breath and don't be shy and afraid.

2. Dating is like sales it's a numbers game, while you are single, try to talk and meet as many women as possible - why? because you know as well as I do, everyone you date will not lead into a relationship for a variety of reasons, you will get dissed, you will not get return phone calls, you will meet flaky women along the way. That's why you need extra dates to combat this. You cannot put your eggs in one basket while you are single because anything can happen at any given time. We cannot control what another person does. So you have to protect yourself.


3. Don't be afraid of rejection - it happens - just know it may not be you? don't beat yourself up... you may not meet some of their criteria example, you may not be at least six ft tall etc...

4. Make them laugh and hold great conversation

5. Be honest - tell them that you are dating also.

I can't give you much more because I don't know what your strengths and weaknesses are. But the above 5 should get you started.

1/18/2008 12:25:03 PMHelp I need my confidence back 

yunvs
Columbus, OH
age: 35

you'll never know if u dont try, its better to be rejected than beating yrself mentally wonderin what if