 gmalarchik Cary, NC age: 39
| Most people want to rush into a relationship, first date to have drinks 2nd date to the movies, 3rd date to Dinner. 4th date they want to move in.
Or its just the flip side, they just want sex and no commitment.
what ever happened to just being friends taking things slow, get to know someone before you jump into something that wont work because you dont know the person good enough.
there is a differnece between Lust and Love, Lust is always there at first, but fades....
Love is earned through a long term friendship, Knowing your partner will always be there for you.
You can never control what the other person in your life will be doing, or where they go or who they talk to so dont try. if you Trust them they will either prove there love to you with commitment or they will leave you. you have no control in the matter. best thing to do is take your time meet the right person and keep trying to make them happy.
some people just dont belong together no matter how Wonderful they look or how charming they are.
All I ever wanted in life was a Wife kids and a home, a good job and christmas mornings, easter eggs hunts, pony rides, piggy back rides, train sets around the tree. and a dog and a picket fence around the house.
So who is ready in Raleigh NC for a Long Term Friendship that could turn out to be the Love of your life?
George.
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 winesong Bend, OR age: 88
| George..welcome to DH..
enjoy the friendships in the groups and forums...
you really get to know people by what they write, or respond to...
Enjoy.
wine
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 gmalarchik Cary, NC age: 39
| Thanks for the short very non discriptive blog entry. 
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