rudyheg
Bountiful, UT
age: 35
| If everyone would keep it simple and try not to read into the other promblems or trying to find faults, or bringing the past relation in thee new relationship. Its like a river to me go with the flow, Because I know that people know if its going to work or not. I know i do grow some nuts people and be blunt, forward, (honest) truth hurts dont let it rent space in your head   
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lickmytongue
Brownwood, TX
age: 55
| amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| You are right. That's why good relationships are hard to find. Like sex, relationships were not meant to be difficult.
However, blame the following:
1. 100s of online dating sites and other free sites such as [blocked site] and a list of others
Many people are in active relationships but still remain greedy and checking out others for possible hook ups or other types of gratification. Meanwhile, they defend their actions for remaining on said sites due to another list of excuses and rationales.
2. Blame numerous magazine and online articles from a variety of sources that state what you should and should not do - some people take heed to that information like it's the law that all it causes is confusion and off balance when they are actually on a date and or in a relation that they focus too much on what they read in these articles and not focus on SIMPLY HAVING A GOOD TIME and doing what's natural and makes them feel good.
3. Instead of just testing the other person and or putting them on trial, and or treating them unfairly based on past experiences, and or playing silly mental games on the first or second date - people should just DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT NATURALLY - and if they feel that it is not appreciated or reciprocated - simply stop dating the person. THE PROBLEM IS MANY PEOPLE STAY THEN END UP BITTER AND THE CYCLE OF BLAMING NEVER STOPS.
[Edited 1/18/2008 2:27:35 PM]
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stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50
| "The problem is people stay."
So sad, but correct.
Now I got to edit...
Hopefully not bitter, but wiser?
Know more of what you want...or don't?
[Edited 1/18/2008 2:29:45 PM]
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