| 1/20/2008 2:39:28 PM | how long do you wait! | |
linder008
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 44
| Ok u have talked and been friends with this Guy for years..Both have spoken of there feeling for each other but never acted upon them...The day has come...1st date...do u after all these years...do u jump in bed with him...or do u just wait and see if this is what you both have been dreamon of! need help tell me plz
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| 1/20/2008 2:43:37 PM | how long do you wait! | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Linder, Don't rush it. Savor the feelings as they build. The loving sex will happen. The longer you wait, the better it will be. 
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| 1/20/2008 2:45:38 PM | how long do you wait! | |
linder008
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 44
| a man after my heart tks lov....and yes i shall i have waited for this long lol whats more time..
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| 1/20/2008 2:48:10 PM | how long do you wait! | |
badsanta65
Louisville, KY
age: 43
| If you have been friends for a long you both obviously know each other. So having sex on the first date I think is ok. Sex can change things between people. Might as well find out if it will be for the better or worst.
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| 1/20/2008 2:51:15 PM | how long do you wait! | |
linder008
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 44
| true again...we have known each other for 6 years lol...just do it....o0oweee
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| 1/20/2008 2:56:23 PM | how long do you wait! | |
easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46
| If you have been friends with this guy for a long time.you cant jump into bed with him.hes gona back off and wonder what the hell just happened!!!.if i was your friend id want you to flirt with me .Check my reaction if its all good ease into things that way he knows whats coming .You dont wanna loose a friend
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| 1/20/2008 2:56:57 PM | how long do you wait! | |
micky_grays
Cleveland, OH
age: 23
| You have to do it all night long!
I bet he'd be up to it 
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| 1/20/2008 2:58:49 PM | how long do you wait! | |
linder008
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 44
|   That is also true.... dazed and confussed in Tenness is my new name lol tks all..
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| 1/20/2008 3:08:24 PM | how long do you wait! | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Ease him into it slowly LINDER. It will mean much more to both of you and the relationship will have a better chance of surviving if built on more than sex alone.
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| 1/20/2008 3:12:46 PM | how long do you wait! | |
linder008
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 44
| But you see...He is the one talkin about sex,Im the one sayin one day at a time....lol...
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| 1/21/2008 3:00:12 PM | how long do you wait! | |
delaine3
Downs, IL
age: 56
| You should know by now how you feel, let him know and take it from there.
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| 1/22/2008 11:51:02 AM | how long do you wait! | |
mollyflogging
Encinitas, CA
age: 19
| I think you're so lucky to even get to the point where you've expressed each others' feelings and that it's mutual. How long do you wait? It really depends how well you guys hit it off. Passion is a crazy thing.
The time frame really depends on the person. In some of my relationships I've learned that the sooner you screw the sooner your [relationship is] screwed. If I knew which kinds of relationships were like that then I'd let you know but I'm still trying to figure that out :/
[Edited 1/22/2008 11:55:28 AM]
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| 1/22/2008 1:09:58 PM | how long do you wait! | |
workinglaman
Golden Meadow, LA
age: 47
| If u been friends that long why hasn't it turned romantic sooner,romance,not sexual.Is it because ur both scared to make the first move,or maybe there is no real attraction. Have u ever considered him as more than just a friend. Do u have the hots for him. I say go for it.
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| 1/22/2008 1:32:34 PM | how long do you wait! | |
princessd01
Albertville, AL
age: 43
| well, you need to decide if you can do this and still remain friends if it doesn't work out, sometimes a great friend is a lot better than a short time lover. JMO
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| 1/22/2008 1:53:43 PM | how long do you wait! | |
rich3787
Fernandina Beach, FL
age: 58
| Definately NOT.... you are at the begining of changing your entire relationship with him. If things were going to go in that direction, then you would have acted on them before. It's better to wait and see rather or not you two can make this transition.
Going from friends to commited relationship can blow up in both your faces, and end up losing not only a potentual life long relationship, but a friendship as well.
Do the courtship and see where things are going to land between you first, the sex isn't so far away that you can't bring it in if everything is right.
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