| 1/20/2008 5:27:52 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
under_da_covers
Allentown, PA
age: 46
| Is it over when your wife says she cheated on me and hasn't cheated since. We are not on level communication lines she's in the health field with doctors an that is what stimulates her mind she talks politics I don't. I work with construction workers. Our friends are not mutual! She get horny and wet with other men. Needs lube and playes but is like "Are you done yet"!
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| 1/20/2008 5:30:30 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| Sounds like its over but only you can say for sure. Try to talk with her and see where the relationship stands and what you both want....go from there. Good luck
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| 1/20/2008 5:33:35 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
badsanta65
Louisville, KY
age: 43
| I think I could forgive the cheating since it was 4 years ago. But thats not the problem. The problem is if she cheated on you 4 years ago you have been miserable in that relationship for longer than that! It is time for a marriage counselor or a divorce lawyer my friend!
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| 1/20/2008 5:38:50 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
under_da_covers
Allentown, PA
age: 46
| Thanks, we are trying the counseling thing but seams thet I'm doing all the talking. She also has been telling her friends that she has another "Boyfriend" But she denies it and wants to know where i got the info from. It was sent to me from one of her friend s who I really don't know but was an E-mail from my wife to her friend!
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| 1/20/2008 5:42:17 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| I couldn't keep looking over my shoulder wondering if my spouse was cheating again. I can't think of any acceptable excuse to cheating but that is me. If someone loves me then cheating would not even be a thought that entered their mind.
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| 1/20/2008 5:43:06 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
badsanta65
Louisville, KY
age: 43
| then it is time to say good bye. It is never an easy thing but it is obvious she doesn't want to be with you. Move on and rebuild your life. You are obviously thinking about that or you would not be here. Good Luck Friend.
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| 1/20/2008 5:45:43 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
mred41563
Alexandria, KY
age: 45
| it sounds like she dont really want to be in the relationship to me but you have to figure that one out yourself dont take what i say to heart that is between you 2
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| 1/20/2008 5:46:29 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| Okay exactly how is it that you know she gets horny and wet from other men?
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| 1/20/2008 5:47:24 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
under_da_covers
Allentown, PA
age: 46
| It's true but i really love her and should I wait to see how the counseling turns out or not. She's also been on Ashley Madison looking for her girlfriends husband. Said that she's found him and then continued to chat with some of the other men that contacted her. Then, mapquest had a recent to The Red Roof motel a few miles from hy house. She said it wasn't her. I think I would know if I did it. 
[Edited 1/20/2008 5:50:48 PM]
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| 1/20/2008 5:47:58 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
under_da_covers
Allentown, PA
age: 46
| She told me. Was that just to hurt me more?
[Edited 1/20/2008 5:49:57 PM]
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| 1/20/2008 5:51:03 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| Alot of lies going on here! Why do you want to stick it out? What's in this relationship for YOU? The counseling only works if both are trying and sounds like you are the only one. I never have understood what is there to love anymore when someone cheats. jMO
[Edited 1/20/2008 5:51:32 PM]
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| 1/20/2008 5:54:26 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
under_da_covers
Allentown, PA
age: 46
| Her only defense was that was four years ago and hasn't cheated since. but she e-mailed her friend - "DENNY is still Fabulous and hopes she(her girl friend) would find a companion also" Need I say more?
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| 1/20/2008 5:56:05 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| Under- are you for real? She told you this and you still feel the need to try to make it work or is that just good fodder for your thread? You must not be trying as hard as you mentioned or you would not be on here.
Do you have to be hit in the head with a brick to understand?
[Edited 1/20/2008 5:56:42 PM]
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| 1/20/2008 5:59:25 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
nomad2
Falmouth, KY
age: 60
| I thought this was date hookup for singles??
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| 1/20/2008 6:00:33 PM | is it over when you wife says she cheated on you 4 years ago? | |
under_da_covers
Allentown, PA
age: 46
| no but my first wife was a bartender and cheated . she would listen to everyones sorrows and would up getting married to him now she screwing arond again also. what's wrong with women now a day?
Maybe I should just date.
She said before we got married ten years ago that she was going to break my heart. I guess I should have believed her then.
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