| 1/20/2008 10:12:58 PM | Are You Competitive | |
rubyjolene1
Crossville, TN
age: 25
| Who is more competitive the man or the woman in the relationship. I am just curious. I am a little competitive in sports and in life. But not extremely. I am not trying to better then a man. I just think it spices up the relationship.
[Edited 1/20/2008 10:31:37 PM]
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| 1/20/2008 10:18:51 PM | Are You Competitive | |
onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 56
| Competitive in what way?
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| 1/20/2008 10:27:03 PM | Are You Competitive | |
drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 33
| Big turn-off for me. I don't like women who are always trying to 1-up me about stupid stuff. You should think about trying to curb that.
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| 1/20/2008 10:32:39 PM | Are You Competitive | |
rubyjolene1
Crossville, TN
age: 25
| Don't you like it when a woman succeeds in life. Or do you think she is below you?
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| 1/20/2008 10:33:01 PM | Are You Competitive | |
rubyjolene1
Crossville, TN
age: 25
| In a relationship or in sports
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| 1/20/2008 10:37:03 PM | Are You Competitive | |
drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 33
| rubyjolene,
Succeeds in life? No, I would want my woman to succeed in whatever she does. But when she's going out of her way to be competitive with me about anything and trying to demonstrate some kind of superiority, that's a big turn-off. Not interested. If you're in a long term relationship with someone, you should be doing your best to support, nurture, and encourage each other, not compete with each other all the time.
If you're just talking about activities that you do together like games or sports, that's different.
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| 1/20/2008 11:11:10 PM | Are You Competitive | |
dbsuma
Lakewood, OH
age: 40
| ??????
what are you competing for?
What is the competition?
Career? sex? what?
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| 1/20/2008 11:12:33 PM | Are You Competitive | |
simpl3kindofman
Henderson, KY
age: 28
| i love a indepent strong minded women but im big on compermiseing
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| 1/20/2008 11:18:29 PM | Are You Competitive | |
cali08
Palm Desert, CA
age: 43
| What if the woman is truly not in competition. She just plain smokes you in everything she does. Can your egos handle that?
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| 1/20/2008 11:20:06 PM | Are You Competitive | |
simpl3kindofman
Henderson, KY
age: 28
| lol never had it happen but would probaly turn me on
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| 1/20/2008 11:21:44 PM | Are You Competitive | |
cali08
Palm Desert, CA
age: 43
| Thats right use it to your advantage. You get a payoff out of it. Nice!
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| 1/20/2008 11:28:04 PM | Are You Competitive | |
luvinlifetothem
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
| Sexually competitive is fun....with an understanding between you both.
I can SOO blow your mind/body quicker/better/faster than you can mine...
and just take turns.
Now...thats the kind of competition I like.
but hey...
thats just MHO....
luvin
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| 1/20/2008 11:29:03 PM | Are You Competitive | |
markmeunier
Timmins, ON
age: 41
| The only competition worthy of entering is in competing with yourself. Betterment for you and no losers.
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| 1/21/2008 6:23:41 AM | Are You Competitive | |
thankuvets
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 40
| IF You can out compete me in bed then I want to be with you, but you better be ready play hard and have lots of stamina, your gonna need it..
NOT braggin, just the truth..
Other than sex, hell, I am to busy riding to worry about that stuff, you wanna run faster, jump higher, cook more, clean better? Go for it, I am gonna go have some fun, not worried about competing with someone, did that when I was younger, now I want to have some fun with my life..
Run all you want, I will still be there first, cause my bike can outrun your car... And its alot more fun way to get there.. 
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| 1/21/2008 6:28:54 AM | Are You Competitive | |
drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 33
| What if the woman is truly not in competition. She just plain smokes you in everything she does. Can your egos handle that?
That's kind of a vague question. That depends on what exactly you're talking about that she does so well. If it was something I was good at myself and had an interest in, it would probably get me more interested in her.
For example, I'm a drummer. I seriously doubt I'll ever date a female who is better than me at playing drums. If I did find one who was, I would probably be totally enamored with her.
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