| 1/22/2008 7:11:33 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
mj121
Elyria, OH
age: 36
| Why is it when we do respond to your emails or winks, with a polite.. "thank you for your interest, but I don't think we are a match" or something similar, we get a nasty gram back? Someone actually asked me if I didn't like him because he was black? And another was mad because I said he was too young, I mean honestly he was 19, my friends have kids his age. As long as we respond nicely why all the negativity?  
I know to ignore it, but sometimes I wonder why people wink or email if they are not ready for possible rejection. I've been deleted and even emailed back saying no thanks.. I have never been mean in response. Delete and move on. 
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| 1/22/2008 7:24:29 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
prinskyoopid
Shirley, NY
age: 41
| I like you
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| 1/22/2008 7:28:30 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
sylviasmatch
Winter Springs, FL
age: 50
| I agree with you MJ.
How many threads have we seen where the men are crying because they dont even get a response? so here we are sending a polite thanks but no thanks, and we catch hell for that too.
Dammed if you do, dammed if you dont.
Dont stress over it. Let their B.P. boil and we will just move on.....
S 
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| 1/22/2008 7:49:32 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
that_wd_b_me
Essex Junction, VT
age: 50
| Some folks handle rejection better than others.a negative response to which is a sign of immaturity and/or desperation.If they get really rude,just block and flag them.
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| 1/22/2008 8:49:56 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 35
| Absolutely no excuse for nasty comments, guys....... If people are'nt prepaired and can't deal with rejection, then they really don't need to be here... just my 2 cents..
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| 1/22/2008 8:52:24 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| the answer is very simple. some guys are  . that don't posess the ability to deal with rejection. that have not been schooled on how to accept things that r not to their liking. don't let it get to u. don't waste your energy and time on them.move onward, and upwards.
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| 1/22/2008 8:57:26 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
| drummer you need to hold a thread for guys to learn how to step it up. Some of them send the lamest emails you almost feel sorry for them...almost...I just delete it nstead of trying to come with some excuse of how "I dont hardly think so" can be re-worded. Seriously some of the guys could use the solid guidance from a luvbug like you
[Edited 1/22/2008 8:58:04 PM]
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| 1/22/2008 9:02:53 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
aniceguy4you2lv
Visalia, CA
age: 44
| MJ, First I would like to say "Thank You" to you and any other women that were nice enough to take the time to respond. I have sent many many e-mails and winks over the last three years and only gotten a handful of responses. I always respond to a polite "no thanks" with a thanks for taking the time to look and good luck in your search.
Second I would like to apploigise for the jerks that reply with the "nasty gram" it is obvious that they are not ready to be dating or maybe they are single for a reason and should remain that way.
I would also like to ask the ladies here to PLEASE take the time to respond to a wink or e-mail even if it is a polite "no thanks" it really does mean something to any decent man.
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| 1/22/2008 9:08:51 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
silver_rain1011
Springfield, VA
age: 22
| I don't respond to Winks. I only respond to e-mails when they have something of substance that interests me. I don't respond to "U R Hot!" e-mails...
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| 1/22/2008 9:11:54 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Yeah Drummer! Where's that tread? The LuvBug Thread!
MJ, I wouldn't let it trouble you. Some people have no social skills. Clueless is more to the point.
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| 1/22/2008 9:13:38 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
| Nice guy I hear you and respect you but all guys are not nice and they DONT go away. Do you have an alternative suggestion...I feel winks are rediculious to begin with. A person does not win at someone they go up to them nd say hey how are you et we get mail that says hey wanna chat my yahoo who is..or worse ...it has a whole other view from what we go through. i have responded to guys to be nice some get it and are cool others do not and I am forced to just trash the mail....I know they just want love nd acceptance but when i say gee i am kind of busy all the time...that should be a clue ok i have blabbed for too too long sorry really bored,I keep boppin around... sorrysorry
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| 1/22/2008 9:14:44 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
| Dutch thank you..somebody needs to blow him some sh*t...
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| 1/22/2008 9:15:56 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
silver_rain1011
Springfield, VA
age: 22
|  Dutchboy you make me laugh... thanks for the Wink though
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| 1/22/2008 9:40:44 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
| Damn I'm glad i don't wink at people on here 
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| 1/22/2008 9:45:54 PM | Okay, I have a gripe about some responses from Men... | |
anniebrown57
Warrington, PA
age: 50
| I put it im my profile right at the begining. NO WINKS If you have something in your eye go rinse it out and still I get winks. I do not answer winks and rarly will answer no pics. Just keep deleting and right now my delete finger is cracked
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