kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| I always say it doesn't cost a thing to be nice, and for the most part I live by that rule. But every now and then I will start reading some of the not so nice people and the way they attack others, or that they are absolute or being an absolute horses ass, then I take it upon myself to "tune up" these folks.
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incredulous
Greenville, SC
age: 59
| People are not naturally "good" or "bad." We have the capacity for both. We have evolved as problem solvers, so we think things need to be fixed. People are as argumentative as they are agreeable.
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Don't change people. I love it when people answer. Their answers allow me to get to know them and how they are. That's what DHU is for. To get to know potential dates.
You are perceived to be as you post, until proven differently.
Be a moody BIATCH in the forums and I can almost tell exactly how our date will be.
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cassinigirl
Albuquerque, NM
age: 50
| I really have to agree with the southern gentleman, for what it's worth.
Of course we will all come across someone or some topic that we disagree with. Maybe the topic, or particular words, will even kick up our dander. But there are an infinite number of ways to disagree, and even to verbally "chastise" if that is a necessity, without being hateful or hypocritical.
I, perhaps in my naivety, like to think of these forums as an avenue for giving and receiving different points of view - thoughts to ponder. It is a super huge turn off to so often come across hateful, vindictive spewing; it’s the equivalent of verbal road-rage.
If you have to vent, then vent. But please keep in mind that the people on these forums are not your Albatross.
Southerngent52 – what a pity you are so far away, darlin'. I’d give you a hug for saying what so many of us are thinking.
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tndvdsgirl
Chattanooga, TN
age: 54
| cassinigirl......I couldn't have said it better myself. No one is wrong, we all just have a different perspective. Stay open people.......learning never ends and experiences aren't necessarily the best learning tools.
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