Forums: Profile Reviews: can i get a review or is this only a special privilege???
1/25/2008 6:46:13 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

grlfriendwanted
Canton, OH
age: 54

i asked nicely and got ignored

1/25/2008 7:26:04 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

dbsuma
Lakewood, OH
age: 40

transBIAN?

What the hell is that?
Your a man pretending to be a women, looking for another woman?

I think you are gonna have a hard time with that one, really.
I mean really, most women are straight, straight or bi, errr or gay.
but you are not looking for a straight woman you're looking for a gay women that wants to have sex with a man, a transsexual man, errr, I'm pretty sure that is a very narrow minority consisting mainly of YOU!

Why not just take off the dress and see if you can get your penis sown back on, I think it will be a lot easier on you and everybody else, at least a lot less confusing.

1/26/2008 10:25:19 AMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

leggieflblonde
Jacksonville, FL
age: 47

im my opinion,id say take a normal pic as a man...but ya gotta be who u r...i guess id be mad if i thought i had a normal guy then suddenly he was cross dressing so ill give u credit for being honest...it will take a special woman to be able to deal with your lifestyle.....good luck

1/26/2008 3:05:58 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

grlfriendwanted
Canton, OH
age: 54

You're in serious need of education.

1/26/2008 3:07:59 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

grlfriendwanted
Canton, OH
age: 54

I read both of your replies and you both indicate STRONG need of education.


WWW.GENDERTREE.COM for starters.


Do you both live in caves?

1/26/2008 3:10:37 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

leggieflblonde
Jacksonville, FL
age: 47

im sorry you cant take comments,you complained about being ignored,if i offended you im truley sorry,but why the nastiness?

1/26/2008 3:28:20 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

grlfriendwanted
Canton, OH
age: 54

Why? Because I get attacked 7 days a week for being who am what I am. Yeah, you have a right to your opinion but why not ask me why instead of saying how you'd be angry to learn your boyfriend was crossdressing? I'm not crossdressing. I was born intersexed. I didn't even know until I was 39 so theres a reason I'm dressed as I am. And I happen to prefer women which means I'm lesbian identified. 7 days a week I get straight women telling me "why you must be gay." No, I'm not gay. I am in the statistical majority of transgenders who prefer women. Some DO want boyfriends or husbands. Most do not.

I'm not trying to fool anyone. I live as a woman 7 days a week and 7 days a week I get laughed at and scorned. I wanted NICE advice on improving my profile. Not advice like this guy above telling me to get my penis sewn back on. Whats in my skirt is none of his business.

I'm really sad that there is such a lack of education about sexuality and gender. Whats between our legs is NOT our gender. Its our sex organs. Your gender is determined between your ears.

So I guess I'm still seeking advice on how to improve my profile.

And for the record a transBIAN is a TRANSGENDER LESBIAN. Also for the record- there are way more than two genders. There are upwards of several hundred if I have my facts straight.

Again I recommend reading WWW.GENDERTREE.COM

Sharon

1/26/2008 3:51:25 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

leggieflblonde
Jacksonville, FL
age: 47

i deffinitly didnt mean to offend or make u angry,i am so sorry...as i said as far as your profile,just be you,that is the best thing to do

1/26/2008 4:00:53 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53 online now!

Lordy

how can you come on here and ask for a review
and you get them then you get pissed off cause
they tell you the truth ?

If you get offended 7 days a week
then mybe its you putting out the bad vibes,
if you like who you are put your head up
and a smile on your face and take what you ask
for

woman you ask for what you got
or what ever

1/26/2008 4:05:21 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

grlfriendwanted
Canton, OH
age: 54

I accept your apology but the biggest favor you or anyone can do is try to understand.

I am lonely. As my profile says- I want a girlfriend. The person that runs the gendertree web site can cite case after case of women who married one of US after being married to a heterosexual male and they praise their mates to the heavens.

Be myself? Yeah, I have to. I don't hang with guys watching Friday night football. If I had a girlfriend I'd rather take her to the mall and have fun being together.

I don't know what else to write here or how to make myself any more understood. I just know theres a LOT OF women who've rejected me without giving me a chance to prove myself.

And lets face it- women dress in mens clothes ALL the time. Victorias Secret is now selling a jacket called Boyfriend Jacket.

So how about a mens store selling the guys a Girlfriend Jacket? Yes it WOULD SELL.


-Sharon

1/26/2008 4:07:16 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

grlfriendwanted
Canton, OH
age: 54

Because I asked how to improve my profile, not opinions about my gender identity.

1/26/2008 4:44:44 PMcan i get a review or is this only a special privilege??? 

imtrina
Houston, TX
age: 56

hi:first i would suggest, you not be so offensive. i have read many profiles, and i stop reading them when they sound so offensive, your profile sounds so defensive also. just be you, say what you need without being critical of others that read your profile. love and appreciate anyone who crosses your path. and as for educating others: this is not that kind of site. there are other sites for education. people don't want to be told how ignorant they are by your profile and then contact you. they would be afraid of what response they will get. as you have proved by the results of your reviews. be gentle. treat others as you would have them treat you. accept who you are and the cards you have been delt...or get a new deck. we all have crosses to bear. be strong and bear yours.peace be with you