| 1/27/2008 4:27:23 AM | ques. for the men... | |
iluv3angels
Derry, NH
age: 38
| Why do men cheat on the women who treat them with repect and love...?
I am a single parent--my ex cheated on me with more than one...don't understand...
I've been divorced for 4 yrs and still don't fully trust any guy out there..anybody trustworthy?
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| 1/27/2008 4:36:35 AM | ques. for the men... | |
jbnoosaheads
Queensland
Australia
age: 55
| Sweethart good question, i have been very lucky i guess, i realy have no respect for the ones that cheat on there love one.Saying that i hope it does not happen to me when i team up with new. And sorry to hear that i wasent helpfull but life can be b*tch sometimes keep your head up girl.
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| 1/27/2008 4:46:40 AM | ques. for the men... | |
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52
| The truth is we all cheat on something. Maybe not as severe as cheating on the one we are suppose to love but we do. None of us are perfect in anyway or anything. The truth when our spouse or the person when love goes to someone else that way they are not cheating on us but themselves. They are cheating themselves out of the love and respect we have for them they are loosing a gift from us. In the long run the cheater is the cheated and the cheated on is the one who will benefit from it. So don't look at yourself as being cheated on but showed how trustworthy you really can be.
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| 1/27/2008 4:55:36 AM | ques. for the men... | |
katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
| Out of curiousity, why did you stay after the first time?
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| 1/27/2008 5:06:33 AM | ques. for the men... | |
jbnoosaheads
Queensland
Australia
age: 55
| yes im with Kati i missed that part  
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| 1/27/2008 5:09:21 AM | ques. for the men... | |
collide64
Janesville, WI
age: 43
| As long as we are talking about cheating, if you know someone has a husband or wife or boyfriend/girlfriend, don't have a relationship with them until they are single. It would save alot of heartache all the way around. I know this will never happen but just wishful thinking. Key word THINK before you act. I'm sorry for your suffering through infidelity. It totally sucks, feels like your heart was ripped out, stomped on and put back inside you. 
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| 1/27/2008 6:56:08 AM | ques. for the men... | |
greggx
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 53
| You should change your question to why do men and woman cheat.Men in no way have cornered the market on cheating GREGG
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| 1/27/2008 8:14:39 AM | ques. for the men... | |
rustyalan
Plymouth, IN
age: 45
| I agree with you GREGG!
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| 1/27/2008 8:41:11 AM | ques. for the men... | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| truegrace  well said. My ex cheated himself. Admits he did and would give anything to have back what he once had. Is never going to happen. I like how you brought it to light...I wasn't cheated he was. Terrific way to think about it.
To the men...she ask about men because she was married to one. I'm sure no malice was intended. Of course there are women who cheat.
I stayed and mine, he cheated many times. My reason was my vows, for better or worse, richer or poorer.... Would I do it again? Nope I wasted my life on something that only one person truly wanted. The other liked being married but wanted lots of playmates. Not complaining, my marraige gave me the most wonderful gift this world has to offer, my child. I wouldn't change that for anything.
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| 1/27/2008 8:46:38 AM | ques. for the men... | |
nudefun
Oshawa, ON
age: 53
| seems all these guys are mainly trying to promote themselves and not answer the question.
typical dishonest cowards
why ... some say because its human nature
when chimp troups were observed ... they did the same thing ... in fact the female more often snuck off to have a clandestined liason with a rival troup...
they figure it is in the genes to help stop inbreeding ...
love and total monogamy are intellectual ideas
that is why they fail more often than not over time.
not spreading the seed so to speak is actually cheating nature and over the long run through inbreeding would cause the downfall of that family/tribe ... just like the royalty of Europe ... and the rulers of Rome.
best of luck in your fantasies of love for ever after.
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| 1/27/2008 8:51:16 AM | ques. for the men... | |
norcalballer
Sonoma, CA
age: 19
| I have never cheating on a girl in my life but i have been cheated on.
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| 1/27/2008 8:58:27 AM | ques. for the men... | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| people do it for a variety of reasons.the important now is to let go and move forward in a positive way.dont dwell on the past.in life we all learn lessons and it's what we do with them that counts. sorry i can't offer any primate analogy but i can say that true love and happiness does exist...... never give up.good luck
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| 1/27/2008 9:01:43 AM | ques. for the men... | |
castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38 online now!
| That is like asking is the a GOD?
Now you will have to act on faith and belief alone.
My personal opinion?
I have to see it to believe it.
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| 1/27/2008 9:15:33 AM | ques. for the men... | |
easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46
| nudefun 
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| 1/27/2008 7:20:39 PM | ques. for the men... | |
joduc
Norfolk, VA
age: 27
| Men don't just cheat on someone who treats them well. while that is true for both sexes, it can be summed up to challenge. Humans like challenges, if you are dating someone and do not have sufficient compatibility then eventually one of you (some cases both!) will start fooling around once there is no more excitement and/or challenge left. Children might be a factor but I have no XP in this area. Also, and this may seem shallow but its human nature, if one person changes, physically, from what they were when the relationship started it usually drives the other to mess around (and sometimes the person who changed, insecurity issues and all). People date others for many reasons, attraction is a major one, if the attraction fails....
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