| 2/2/2008 7:12:48 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
wrestlingdad1
Prairieville, LA
age: 44
| I need help from everyone on this forum. I do understand that this is a dating service. Is everyone on here ready to jump right into relationships? I winked at a young lady and she winked back. Then she noticed I have kids and said she wasn't interested. That is OK with me, so I asked if she wanted to be friends....(Someone to get a diffent opinion from) and she said sure. We send one or two emails to each other about general chit chat and she rights back that she don't want to pursue this. I said pursue what? I thought we were friends.
Sorry for the long introduction to the real question,
Women, do y'all think just because a guy talks with you, we want more?
Any feedback will be help.
Thanks in Advance!
Stan
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| 2/2/2008 7:16:58 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
thebq
Fallon, NV
age: 29
| no not at all...i want nothing more than to find the perfect relationship but if i find a friend that is great too..
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| 2/2/2008 7:17:28 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
ldt
Houma, LA
age: 42
| no, not all of us are like that and there are men here that do the same.
 dad1
[Edited 2/2/2008 7:18:11 PM]
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| 2/2/2008 7:17:31 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
sensual_latin
Pleasanton, CA
age: 41
| Women, do y'all think just because a guy talks with you, we want more?
Depends on the conversation. If the conversation leads me to believe you want something else and I only want friendship then yes, I stop it on the spot.
Or if I see that you are constantly wanting to chat with me and communicate with me then that will do it also.
Other than that, is all good.
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| 2/2/2008 7:21:32 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
viktoriya75
Brooklyn, NY
age: 33
| I don't think that...I have several male friends here on DH. And they are just that, friends. We talk about everything and anything...We might even flirt from time to time, but there is a certain line that they don't cross. And I respect them for it...
I am not even going to try to defend or explain that lady's reaction since I don't know what her situation is. All I can say, is look for other people to be friends with...
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| 2/2/2008 7:23:47 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
wrestlingdad1
Prairieville, LA
age: 44
| Here's the conversation.
good night, have fun
--------------------Message--------------------
From: wrestlingdad1
Sent: 1/31/2008 6:02:41 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
I'm good. About to get ready to go out with some friends.
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Sent: 1/31/2008 6:00:04 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
I'm fine and how are you?
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From: wrestlingdad1
Sent: 1/31/2008 5:57:47 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
Sorry,
I was really busy at work. How are you?
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Sent: 1/31/2008 5:51:04 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
affect me you mean?
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From: wrestlingdad1
Sent: 1/31/2008 5:05:07 AM
Subject: RE: Thanks
How are you doing? How did Katrina after you?
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Sent: 1/30/2008 7:28:04 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
sure, hi friend
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From: wrestlingdad1
Sent: 1/24/2008 9:50:36 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
We cant be friends?
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Sent: 1/24/2008 5:36:37 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
I'm sorry, I just noticed you had children. I'm looking for a man without children. But thanks, you have a nice day.
Dana
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From: wrestlingdad1
Sent: 1/22/2008 6:33:01 AM
Subject: RE: Thanks
Hey Dana,
How has the on-line dating thing doing for you? I've never really had alot of success with it. I've met more people from my [blocked site] account than any of the dating services.
Please tell more about yourself.
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Sent: 1/21/2008 5:01:05 PM
Subject: RE: Thanks
I am ok and you? My name is Xxxx.
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From: wrestlingdad1
Sent: 1/21/2008 6:39:32 AM
Subject: Thanks
Hello,
My name is Stan. Thanks for the wink back.
How are you today?
[Edited 2/2/2008 7:24:34 PM]
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| 2/2/2008 7:25:28 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
kycountrygrl
Madisonville, KY
age: 32
| I have a lot of friends that are guys and I know that they don't want nothing more than friendship. I actually have more guy friends than I do girl friends.
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| 2/2/2008 7:27:46 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
viktoriya75
Brooklyn, NY
age: 33
| Not sure why you would post your e-mail exchange here....
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| 2/2/2008 7:45:04 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| Nope about all I do expect really...I only hope for more sometimes. I have many friends here, male and female. Some folks have a problem with it, I don't.
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| 2/2/2008 7:47:29 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
mariatwo
Appleton, WI
age: 50
| My motto has always been: you can never have too many friends! Too bad that particular gal didn't have the patience or the wisdom to just chat with a nice fella and maybe learn a thing or two.
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| 2/2/2008 7:52:16 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
mariatwo
Appleton, WI
age: 50
| I guess I should have read the e-mail exchange first before I replied.
That whole so-called conversation was a little wierd!
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| 2/2/2008 7:59:14 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
wrestlingdad1
Prairieville, LA
age: 44
| Thanks for everyone's comments. I thought maybe I was looking at this site from rose colored glasses. I'm very happy to see that other look at thing like I do.
I agree...You can never have to many friends.
I posted the conversation because someone asked how the conversation went. I'm an open book. I have no reason to hide anything. I asked the question, so I will give as much information to get the most from everyone comments. I think I deleted everyting that would let anyone know Who I was talking too.
Hey IDT...How are you?
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| 2/2/2008 9:37:05 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
katiescarlett72
Arlington, TX
age: 35
| I have all the friends I need. I'm not online looking for more.
There are a couple of guys on here that I e-mail back and forth with that I really enjoy talking to, because they have something interesting to say. If they weren't in other states they are men I would love to go out with.
Other than that, bleh. I don't want to be asked about the weather or how my day was. And for Pete's sake, please don't e-mail and say, "hi, wanna chat?" If that's the most original opening line you can come up with, then no.
Sorry, ran off topic a bit there. The original point is, I'm probably not the only woman who isn't planning to spend a lot of time on this site in one-on-one conversations with guys who I'm not interested in dating.
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| 2/3/2008 5:26:01 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
maryann2
Natchez, MS
age: 49
| Sorry Stan, but the name of the site is DATEHOOKUP!! A date is not a friendly chit chat thing, if you want that go to a chatroom. You say in your profile that you want to find special someone, etc. (same stuff everyone says) yet you want no communication with anyone outside of forums/discussions. You seem to want your ego to be blown up by many women in a fake attempt to look like you are searching for Ms Right. Yes, we did communicate and you seemed alright. You know I am well educated, look decent (hope they approve my new photo! LOL LOL) have a good job, own 2 houses etc, etc., yet you only have time for discussions & forums, not answering emails. You never give anyone a chance to get to know them because you are too busy with postings. It seems unlikely to me that you are looking at all unless it's purely a physical relationship. If that's the case, let me tell you..you have some real STIFF competition out there. Most of us are fixed up for that!! Right ladies?
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| 2/3/2008 7:50:12 PM | Need Help! A question for women. | |
maryann2
Natchez, MS
age: 49
| Sorry, I was really directing it at Stan. He has seen my photos. But to let you know, I had so trouble when I was on here before with guys sending me pics that I didn't ask for, married men, etc. that I made mine invisible. I have however put in a pic, updated my profile and it will be visible again as soon as photo approval hits. I don't mind getting to be friends first, on the contrary, it should start there. After you have written a lot to each other, however; you should move past that into a talk on the cellphone to see if you can carry on a conversation "live". I can tell a lot more in a 15 telephone conversation than a month worth of typed (sometimes "canned") emails
Oh and about this photo...took my "regular" ones off and put this one on instead-won't be on here much longer-I'm going to go back to the old fashioned way and take my chances with that.
[Edited 2/3/2008 7:59:17 PM]
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