Forums: Relationships: ladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know
2/6/2008 1:10:10 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

craigsheart4u
Southington, CT
age: 43

i was just wondering, if you say your busy on a day your asked, do you like it when the guy comes back to ask again? because i ask once, then i assume you don't want to be bothered,
or you have no interest. i'm talking about in person, but i guess you can answer about on line also, if you'd like

what about if she says no thanks? then what? or just smiles, and says nothing?






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2/6/2008 1:15:07 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43

Geesh, one strike and you're out rule huh? Oh well, you are likely missing out on some interesting encounters whether they end up as friendships or deeper relationships.

We all have lives and responsibilities whether they be to our children, household, family, or employer. Some of us take those responsibilities seriously. We won't drop them at the first request at a new friendship or interest.

Rather than a blanket dismisal of the person that has to say "no" for the first date or time why not give them the benefit of the doubt? If you are that interested in them to ask in the first place rather than asking to relieve some boredom then I think you owe it to yourself to try again.

JMO

2/6/2008 1:16:00 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

jules34
Quincy, IL
age: 35

If they really have other plans you might be missing out on someone special. Pay attention to body language. If they can't look you in the eye, stammer or act like they can't wait to get away from you they're probably lying. I would call them again and if they shoot you down lose their number.

2/6/2008 1:16:27 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

ldt
Houma, LA
age: 41

if I say I'm busy and I'm interested I would give you my number and tell you to call me tomorrow.
or
make a date for a later day when I am free.

2/6/2008 1:19:24 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

yankeesweet
Aiken, SC
age: 58

Sometimes, people really are just busy!
I met someone through mutual friends that I am really interested in
that was three weeks ago!
The first weekend after...he was away on business.
The next weekend I was away...he called and left two messages.
I returned his call and he was away again...then he called me
Saturday. We are FINALLY getting together this weekend for dinner.
If he hadn't called again it might never happen....

So, short answer, don't give up too fast. She may really be just
that busy. Also, for women who are busy alot, like me....I really
hate last minute calls. I don't want to be someone's afterthought...so
if you do that, you might just get turned down too.
Something to think about.

Good Luck!

2/6/2008 1:25:27 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

countrydancer32
Elmo, UT
age: 33

Play hard to get w/one you really want to know

NO


Do you like it when the guy comes back to ask again?

Yes!



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2/6/2008 1:46:28 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38

Of course you do!!! It makes the chase that much sweeter.
Unless she says no not intressed pursue pursue...

2/6/2008 1:55:30 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

craigsheart4u
Southington, CT
age: 43

ok, i asked one girl years ago 3 different times, she said she was in colledge still and each time i asked about was once morning coffee, she said she had class, second time i said friday night movie? she said she had class, ok , third time i asked if we could have a drink sunday after class, she said she had another class, so i finally told her
listen ...call me when you have no class, and she never called??? lol

2/6/2008 1:59:14 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

craigsheart4u
Southington, CT
age: 43

PS, Thanks country

2/6/2008 2:06:04 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53

I to will give my number if i am interested,

so to be told 3 times no - that would be the

end of asking

toooo many out there for one to spoil the
fun

2/6/2008 2:10:11 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

katiescarlett72
Justin, TX
age: 35

No, some women just really aren't as impressed with you as you are.

2/6/2008 2:12:25 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39

Nope

2/6/2008 3:15:43 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

willowgrace
Roan Mountain, TN
age: 48

If I am interested I stay in touch. I may not want to move too quickly, test the waters so to speak. But playing hard to get is foolishness. Keeping it friendly wise. All in good time.

with peace,
willowgrace



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2/6/2008 3:21:49 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43

The only time I play hard to get is when playing a game of strip monkey tag thru the house. i think playing games is self centered and unproductive.

2/6/2008 3:25:09 PMladys, do you play hard to get w/one you really want to know 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43

I think Craig is fairly impressive overall. Not based on looks, I only have one negative thing to say and I am certainly not going to share it out here. But To answer the question....If He contacts me and has something significant to say then yes but if he is inquiring about sex or wants to tell me alla bout himself and ask only one question regarding me..thats always a bad sign.


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