| 2/6/2008 1:43:44 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
looseyloo
Cedar Park, TX
age: 48
| Hi! I'm new. When you're new you get lots of initial e-mails, winks, friend invites, etc. Ladies, if you see their picture, and you know (I mean you just KNOW) that they are not your type, do you respond or do you ignore? How do you handle unwanted requests without being rude? Help me!
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| 2/6/2008 1:46:24 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
meh777
Midland, TX
age: 31
| Depends on what they are sending me in email if it is rude or gross I just delete but if they are nice then I tell them that I appreciate the compliment but that I am not interested JMO
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| 2/6/2008 1:47:16 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51
| Be the lady you appear to be by saying, thank you for your kindness but, ".........".
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| 2/6/2008 9:25:37 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| I respond to all emails because just by looking at a picture I can't know who the person is inside. Winks, I don't anymore but emails I do.
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| 2/6/2008 9:47:16 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
luvlyinnm
Las Cruces, NM
age: 38
| Well in my case I say hi and then E-mail if there is really nothing to talk about then thats is it after all its just an E-mail.And im sure men do the same to me.
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| 2/6/2008 10:28:51 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| I respond with a wink back,and they still dont reply back to me. They leave off the face of the earth. Ive been lucky.
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| 2/11/2008 7:46:18 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
smilingatyou007
Roseburg, OR
age: 61
| Dearest Looseyloo,
I have a thing about people not responsing. I still feel that we are all still human and should at least say, I am sorry, I do not think we are a match or Lets chat and get to know each other better. On the net, it is so easy to just dismiss someone, someone that doesn't desever to be ignored. I still like to think there are gentlemen out there and ladies also that will do the right thing and just say, I'm sorry, but thanks for getting back with me. Good Luck - as for me, I think I am going to take a break and hopefully get my faith back in the human race.
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| 2/11/2008 7:54:02 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
exskypilot
Odessa, TX
age: 58
| Well its kinda like going to a Saturday night dance. If any lady askes me to dance i will dance with her out of respect for her. A simple thank you is always good  
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| 2/11/2008 7:58:55 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 41
| Wouldn't you want advice from the men, seeing they are the ones emailing you?
Just a thought.
I personally don't have a problem if someone doesn't reply back to my email. I guess that why I don't make the first one long-winded.
[Edited 2/11/2008 8:09:47 PM]
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| 2/11/2008 8:00:01 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
jmo33
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 25
| I'm new as well, and I can just say I don't respond. No need in sending them a rejection or getting there hopes up by trying to be nice. That's just my two cents
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| 2/11/2008 8:01:57 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
exskypilot
Odessa, TX
age: 58
| ahhh.. i think that was a dimes worth
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| 2/11/2008 8:04:38 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
teaurtei
Anderson, IN
age: 41
| I write back.
I might be looking for love, but I'm sure not going to reject a few good friends I may find along the way. 
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| 2/11/2008 8:06:37 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| I ALWAYS respond back to emails and most of the winks. Even if they arent my type.....which is just friends......I still welcome them to DH.
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| 2/11/2008 8:11:25 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| Well, by God, there are some ladies here that have their own air of class. If only I could find one in my area. 
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| 2/11/2008 8:16:06 PM | Need Some Advice From The Ladies | |
goofynurse
Nixa, MO
age: 51
| I have days when I even appreciate a wink,,, just to say someone thought of me... and I reply to each wink and mail, unless they are inappropriate.
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