vaboinnc
Salisbury, NC
age: 32
| well im a gay male and have had a b/f of four years whom i live with in NC. i have had a suspicion he is not being faithful to me. I found in his stuff by accident a list of gay bars for each city that he works in, he works of town alot m-thurs. what should i think..i love him dearly, is it wrong to just keep going and trust him and look the other way? I am out of work now for 2 years due to fibromyalgia,degenerative disc disease and several mental illnesses. applied for disability and now waiting on judge. But anyway he doesnt support me on my illnesses. makes me pay rent and food, im not even working, WHAT THE H-LL. I mean i should help out but what does he want? He make more than enough to take care of us and his 2 kids at his wifes house and plus his sister lives with us and pays rent. so he is in good shape. But he's all about the dollar. I thought he would help me trough this difficult time. Well, went to moms dec 26 to spend xmas by myself i add, and ending in a bad sit and got a DUI new years eve. Well i have had to stay at moms in Va till court is finished, feb 14th. Hopefully i can go back home...My partner has only come to see me once..I feel he should be with me as often as he can..i need support and alot of love right now. too much going on with court and my disabilites and now dealing with him..feel like im going to loose my mind..JUST WANTED SOMEONES OPINON ON THIS MATTER ON WHAT THEY SEE AND MAYBE SOME ADVICE.....THANKS SO MUCH.. 
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cherokeerose07
Pottsboro, TX
age: 48
| Sounds like your in a bad way, i always trust my gut instinct and not been wrong very much at all!! trust what your heart and head is telling you for sure.. No support there from him emotionally or monitarily there is something with that picture. I know from very fresh wounds... you got to move on.. things will work out for you have faith take time out to heal and you will be okay.
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texas_belle
Red Rock, TX
age: 37
| sounds like he has another life... One he doesn't want to share with you...
( I know from experience) Its time for some self respect... Pick yourself up/ Move on..
I know it sounds brash.. It is.. What he is doing no matter what the orientation is just wrong.... No one should be treated or made to feel subhuman...
Good Luck
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jules34
Quincy, IL
age: 35
| Alright this might sound harsh but I'm just being honest. I think you're wallowing in self pity right now. Did you say his wife?? Is he still married??? If so you need to get the hell out of there! Where were you when you got your DUI??? If you were at a bar what gives you the right to get mad at him for going out when he's out of town. Furthermore I looked at your profile and you're looking for friends preferably Latino men. If you're only looking for friends why do you have a racial preference? Get honest with yourself. You are the only one that can make you happy.
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