| 2/8/2008 10:25:32 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38
| Here go's. About a year ago I was kinda in a rut taking care of my kids
rarely went out with my friends basicly just stayed home and did the mommy thing.
At the time my husband was doing the exact opposite living life with out
a care in the world. My fault I just am not the type to keep you from doing
what makes u happy. Well one nite we had a huge fight because he was going out
and I was sick of being alone. He said to me and i"Its not my fault you are a fat b*tch
with no friends and no hobbys" get off the couch and get a life. I cant tell ya how
much that hurt me. Here I was home doing the right thing for my fam and he couldnt
apperciate it. Ok so I got off the couch went to join a gym started playing tennis
and making new friends which I would go out with. Well in my travels of setting
out in my new life I meet a personal trainer who help me shed 20pds. We became friends
Then as I started to feel good about my self. My training sessions finished thats
when it started the trainer decided to start sending me txt messages. At first I
was taken a back but he always joke and said he was kidding. So I let it go they
kept coming even after I told him if my husband see them he would kill him& Im
not about to start explaining things that are not happening. He said again hes
just kidding. He wouldnt stop. I know ur probly saying y didnt u tell ur husband.
because I felt I could handle it. and besides I have this new great life at the gym
where I met many friends and I didnt want to put a stop to my life. My husband would have made me stop going and of course blame me. So needless to say he found out about
the txt and he thinks I had an affair. Help I dug a deep hole how do I get out.
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| 2/8/2008 10:29:58 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| He said to me and i"Its not my fault you are a fat b*tch
with no friends and no hobbys" get off the couch and get a life -----he's mad cuz u did what he told you to do??? HAHAHAHAHA....Mine tried the same thing to me....I found out that he WAS doing stuff he shouldnt have on the side and tried to accuse ME of doing stuff.
Not sure how to help you, sorry...I left mine.
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| 2/8/2008 10:30:30 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
smileingheart
Bellingham, WA
age: 42
| Bina not to sound harsh your husband sounds like a real
jackass.And your personal trainer has know respect.
You deserve to be treated with respect.
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| 2/8/2008 10:38:20 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38
| My husband is a jerk, the trainer well lets just say heard he was doing it to other
women and was fired. But that dosnt matter.
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| 2/8/2008 10:40:54 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38
| miko ur saying maybe hes the one doin shit on the side. Thats
y hes accusing me. Wouldnt b surprised
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| 2/8/2008 10:49:50 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| I cant say for sure, but mine accused me of sleeping with a friend, his brother, a coworker. Anyone who called me. It is possible though.
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| 2/8/2008 10:51:54 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
michaelcee
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
| Answer this honestly....
Were you hiding the text messages from him?
If your answer is yes then you *were* cheating.
There is *never* a reason for cheating.
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| 2/8/2008 10:55:38 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38
| Yes i was in fact. But is that considered cheating?? Even when
Nothing happened.
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| 2/8/2008 11:02:08 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38
| I know its a matter of trust and I didnt trust him anufe
to tell him. But even when he found out it was still my falut
so i feel if i told him any way in the beginning he would have
said the same thing.....
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| 2/8/2008 11:04:14 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| yeah, probably just looking for an excuse to justify something JMO.
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| 2/8/2008 11:06:16 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38
| I know just an excuse to trun the tables. He never even confronted
the guy. wtf If that was the case he should have ask him
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| 2/8/2008 11:06:56 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| File for divorce.. he's abusing you.
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| 2/8/2008 11:07:32 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
michaelcee
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
| Something did happen... just because there were no stains on the sheets doesn't mean you weren't cheating.
Don't get me wrong here... The guy sounds like a "real piece of work" and probably doesn't deserve you.
My 1st wife hid a gold necklace from me... some guy had given her.
When I found it....that was the beginning of the end.... I stuck around for our daughter but found out pretty fast that I couldn't continue in a trustless relationship.
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| 2/8/2008 11:09:27 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
bina19
Somers, NY
age: 38
| LoL... Where seperated. Its just a matter of time now.
Just for my sake is this considered cheating???
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| 2/8/2008 11:10:41 AM | I was not cheating will he ever believe me?? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Anything you can't tell your partner about.. is cheating.
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