| 2/9/2008 12:17:20 PM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
chuck92
Ottawa, IL
age: 34
| just wondering if there are women that over look a great guys faults for his looks, his attention, his affection, his charm, his romantic side, his "magic feeling he gives a woman, his honesty and his loyalty??
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| 2/9/2008 12:19:29 PM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
sea_wench1
Chandler, AZ
age: 55
| What faults??.....( wink )
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| 2/9/2008 12:22:03 PM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| no there aren't. everybody in a relationship is perfect
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| 2/9/2008 12:41:52 PM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
sweetpea40
Mexico, MO
age: 41
| It would depend on what his "faults" are.......if it's harmful such as any type of abuse be it physical, mental, substance.........hell no I wouldn't overlook it, nobody is that great in looks and personality but if it's something such as always forgets birthdays and anniversaries or leaves the toilet seat up or never picks up his dirty clothes or snores.........sure. I have my faults to but none that are harmful to myself or anyone else. If a man is going to sweat the small stuff then I guess I really don't need him around anyway. Life is stressful enough without worrying about being "perfect". JMO
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| 2/9/2008 9:17:45 PM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 46
| sweet you daid that beautifully . but there are some that do over look bad i mean really bad thing for that one great looking guy are girl
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| 2/10/2008 2:06:15 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
angelsart
O Fallon, IL
age: 38
| Actually, I think more often than not, a girl ends up overlooking a guys LOOKS for his STRENGTHS!! lol
Any woman will tell you that every guy has faults... you cant help it, you have that damned Y chromosome!! hehe.... but seriously, dating is just about finding a balance between the good things in a person and the bad things! Cause we ALL have them (male and female). We are all flawed in one way or another, the trick is to find someone who's flawed proportionately to yourself!
Good luck!
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| 2/10/2008 2:17:34 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
elaine47
Petersburg, IN
age: 47
| We all have faults! but the secret to everthing to is a good personality. so as long as you are being honest and sicere then that is the key to it all.Good luck!
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| 2/10/2008 2:57:52 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
|  been there....
how do you think it is I came to embrace the beautiful male ego.......some guy's are just fine to have big egos....but not arrogance major dif
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| 2/10/2008 8:04:51 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
chuck92
Ottawa, IL
age: 34
| Righton everyone. I agree with you. I understand that I/men have to have confidence,honesty,loyalty,be respectful, and funny and fun to be with. Hence, women can be just as bad as some guys. Dating a woman that know she's hot is a challenge. And hot women like the challenge as well.But how about bigger women that have low self esteem and insecurities while dating a goodlooking, nice guy. And why is it that women that have insecurities get scornfull and disaproving when I dress up and look better for them. I have experienced this and will keep myself up and look the best I can when I can. A woman will come along sometime that keeps them attracted to me because how I keep my appreance. And I love women that like to look good when they can. Especially for their man. So, lets say my topic could go the same for women also! Hi to all of the nice loving women on this site....
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| 2/10/2008 8:18:19 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
baba_booie
Johnstown, PA
age: 45
| chuck, that is a very good question, from my point of view that YES a lot of ladies over look a man because of man faults, i have found that a lot of ladies like to look at a book from the cover then to read it,
a lot of ladies don`t give a man the respect of even a hello or thank you i don`t think were a match becasue of what they see in a picture,
no matter what woman saies to me in a message, i always reply to her to let her know i have recieved her message or i don`t think were a match
but yes i have to say that YES a women would pass up a good man because of his faults
the problems is no one has any repsect for each other anymore
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| 2/10/2008 8:20:17 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
puppetgirl
Norwich, NY
age: 54
| I'd rather know a man's heart works, most faults can be overlooked, but abuse is a tough one cause there are many forms of it. Seems to me if you meet someone from here if you click on fist meeting, you will work out, otherwise move on.take care
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| 2/10/2008 8:50:52 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| Whoa the intricacy of this question is too complex for our simple heads -
if you had stopped the question at do we overlook his faults just because of his looks?
My answer would be NO. That's fishing in the shallows.
You twisted and convoluted the question when you imply that he has faults but gives us affection, attention and other things that are more deep than good looks, and handsome smile...
SO what is YOUR real question here?
If you're asking will we overlook a few faults because he's a great guy in all other ways?
Or are you asking will we overlook that he beats us - just because he looks hot while he does it???
To attempt an answer is - semi-ludicrous but.... a good man has faults, an excellent man knows them and understands them and communicates with his partner about them and yes, that makes him infinitely more sexy and attractive - regardless of his - physique - because MOST women find that they prefer a man who is complete, confident and certain of himself and then looks aren't the top priority.
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| 2/10/2008 9:23:05 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50
| How many men would overlook OUR faults?????
It's not just about the wrapper - it's the whole package. No one is perfect.
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| 2/10/2008 10:07:17 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
chuck92
Ottawa, IL
age: 34
| Ok, I stated the question wrong, I am a guy that will admit when I am wrong, and tell a woman that I am sorry if I hit a sensitive spot and she got offended. And I like to make a woman smile and tell her she looks good and give her compliments.
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| 2/10/2008 10:19:49 AM | How many women would over look a guys faults for his looks? | |
sweetbunny13
West Lorne, ON
age: 38
| Waht I have come to discover is that nothing is what it seems on the surface. I am one of those relenting women that falls in love and just wants to be loved so much that she forgives her man everything. It's like addiction. They screw up, they have fun, they come back all sorry and sincere and the drug grabs hold of you again. I forgave my husband for everything, and although he's living with another woman, that addiction is still there and I would probably take him back. I don't want to, but I can't stand living without him. Constantly my mind is at war with my heart.
I am now thrust into a situation where I can't give in and take him back because he doesn't want me; so I am trying to improve myself and remind myself that I deserve better.
So, to answer your question, for 18 years I overlooked all his faults (and they are really bad ones) to satisfy my fear of abandonment. It happens. I will not let this happen to me again though.
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