| 2/13/2008 4:48:26 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
dwar2221
Pineville, LA
age: 43
| do yall really want a nice, careing man, or do u want a bad boy type?
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| 2/13/2008 5:20:52 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52
| want a nice, caring, Loveing, honest, sincere, monogamous man one who wants and needs only me
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| 2/13/2008 5:27:10 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
surchison
Sterling Heights, MI
age: 38
| A nice caring guy!
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| 2/13/2008 5:32:58 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
noifandbut
Mount Olive, NC
age: 43
| I wish I could find one, decente, caring, loving, respectful, independente, loyal, one woman men.  if men like that still existe, hadn't crossed with one, yet.
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| 2/13/2008 5:36:17 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
dwar2221
Pineville, LA
age: 43
| i was a careing, honest, loving one woman man. and both of my wifes left!!!!!
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| 2/13/2008 5:42:05 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
tg67
Thomasville, NC
age: 40
| A nice caring man , of course! Bad boy types can get your attention, but after a while
you get tired of bailing them out of jail.....lol!
Don't take it personal that both of your wives left. That doesn't mean you should change the way you are. Sometimes things are not meant to be.
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| 2/13/2008 5:44:50 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53
| I like the good ole boys
But the bad boys rock
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| 2/13/2008 7:09:27 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
ret1058
Westerville, OH
age: 49
| Well...I admit that I always have been (and still am) attracted to bad boys. I'm not sure why. What I really like are bad boys who are really good guys inside. Anyone see the movie "3:10 to Yuma" with Russell Crowe?...yep...he plays a bad boy who is really a good guy on the inside.
However...hanging out with the bad boys has not proven to be a good thing....fun....yes...good relationships...no. Note: All of the bad boys that I've known knew how to treat a lady. (they weren't the really, really bad boys that are disrespectful to women)
So now...I am looking for a good guy who has just the right amount of ornery or "spice" in his to keep things interesting. I think that will work better for me. I hope.
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| 2/13/2008 7:18:48 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
katiescarlett72
Justin, TX
age: 35
| Dwar, you've posted a couple of things like this, and also asked for a profile review in another forum. Are you looking for a general answer as to what women are looking for, or something more specific as it applies to you?
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| 2/13/2008 7:51:49 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
metal1970
Towson, MD
age: 38
| The imature woman want the BAD ASS the mature woman want the nice caring man. I grew up w/ four sisters
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| 2/13/2008 7:53:55 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!
| how about option c......a nice,caring bad boy 
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| 2/13/2008 8:14:00 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
dwar2221
Pineville, LA
age: 43
| well katie i guest its both. its is very important for couples to know what the other is looking for. but are people really honest with each other. or are most relationship miss leading to what the man or woman really wants or looking for. I know people say they want one thing but ends up doing the opposite.
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| 2/13/2008 11:42:50 AM | women which one is it??????????? | |
katiescarlett72
Justin, TX
age: 35
| Okay, ummmmmmm ... I guess we'll go profile first. I don't mean any of this personally but constructively, so please don't get offended. Also, it's all just my opinion, so use what you want and toss the rest. Or toss it all.
First, the country-western look is really wayyyyyyyyy over; like, 90's over. All of your photos have a very CW look to them. There *are* women who still think that's awesome, but you're also really limiting yourself, because it's just not a mainstream style anymore. I would try to update your wardrobe some (get a fashion-conscious chick friend to help you) and also try to update your haircut a bit. You still have a nice head of hair, use it to your advantage! Women notice details like that, and even for men, haircuts and styles change with the times.
Then, get new pics. Try outdoors, where the light is better, it'll look way more cheerful. Also, SMILE!!! You look like you're afraid that your teeth might jump out, hon. Put on your best "my team just won against all odds" grin and get a photo of that. Your smile is your absolute best offensive move in the area of attraction.
On the description, you have got to get something in there. I take it as lazy if a guy hasn't bothered to enter any typing into his profile. Look around at what other people have written that seems to be successful and then try to apply it to yourself. Be specific; "I'm looking for an honest woman and I'm a great guy and loyal and like to travel and romance" = zzzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Talk about what makes you, specifically you, that sets you apart from the dozens of other guys on here.
Also, please keep in mind that on a site like this, all members can see every post that you've written by clicking on "all posts" link on your profile. Yours are about 99% sexually related. That would bother me. It would make me think that you were just here because you really want to get laid, rather than because you're looking for a quality woman.
As for your question here: (A) You can't find a single woman or group of women who can speak for all women. (B) Just like with women, men are usually not all bad or all good. They're kind of in the gray area to one degree or another.
What I believe women are attracted to is CONFIDENCE. That's what we generally see in the "bad boy" that we like so much, and what we find lacking in some "caring, nice" guys that turns us off. I don't want a repeat offender or a Hell's Angel and I certainly don't want someone abusive. I *do* want someone with a lot of self confidence and a wicked sense of humor who *also* happens to have a big, caring heart.
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| 2/13/2008 12:12:19 PM | women which one is it??????????? | |
ret1058
Westerville, OH
age: 49
| Katiescarlett....I have been thinking about this...and I agree with your last paragraph. I think it does have something to do with confidence.
I know that I haven't been immature since I was 20...but still the attraction.
And I do believe that in my case...it is also a matter of "opposites attract". The "bad boys" tend to be the opposite of me...and maybe I wish I were a bit more like them...adventurous, bold, daring, etc. Some of the really good "bad boys" also have a certain manliness about them. (I don't want to be that  )
But, as we all know...opposites are not necessarily the best match.
I also agree with this statement:
"I don't want a repeat offender or a Hell's Angel and I certainly don't want someone abusive. I *do* want someone with a lot of self confidence and a wicked sense of humor who *also* happens to have a big, caring heart."
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| 2/13/2008 12:27:41 PM | women which one is it??????????? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Women want the asshole who is nice to them.
A man who has confidence and not afraid to get his ass kicked for her safety.
Money and being tall doesn't hurt either.
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