What am I doing wrong??

2/14/2008 9:46:31 PM	What am I doing wrong??
lisab27 Battle Creek, MI age: 27	I need some advise...I have been on here for a while now and I feel that the only men that are interested in me are much older men...What should I do different to attract the right man???I am truely frustrated
2/14/2008 9:50:47 PM	What am I doing wrong??
chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47	I've been on here a year and I was in no rush for I didn't want to settle just for any man. Why be miserable??? Don't be in a rush. Post in other threads and get to know others as they get to know you. Read what others post to see if any have the same views and interest. Who knows you may find a potential mate. I did. Soon I will relocate to where he is and there won't be the distance that there is now. Best wishes on your search
2/14/2008 9:58:24 PM	What am I doing wrong??
dutchboy4u Huntington Beach, CA age: 45	Don't use this place as your only hunting site. Go out in your community and look as well. Most people your age don't use internet dating as much as us old guys.
2/14/2008 10:18:01 PM	What am I doing wrong??
ntalekchule Minneapolis, MN age: 32	Your idea of "what am I doing wrong?" is actually the problem. Whether you want to believe it or not. That type of statement generally comes from a person whose attitude and self outlook is low. So take a deep breathe and realize that the problem is not you. Time is a virtue for every one. Use it to your advantage to be the best person you can all the time without worrying about your lack of finding the right man. Remember this... Love comes when it is least expected. So have fun bullsh#$$#@g with as many people as you can. And test out new forms of communication with each different man you talk to. Perhaps you need to unleash yourself and not be reserved... Or vice versa. (can't really say, I don't know you). And overcome your fears too. Confidence in a woman overpowers almost any other attribute besides humor. Learn jokes to tell all the guys that you think you want to talk to.. And send them only the funny ones that make you bust out laughing ( this way you will find out if your type of humor is compatible) But no matter whaat always be yourself. Whether you are who you are... or are in the middle of changing to who you want to be... Do not pretend to be what you are not. Be honest and upfront immediately ( another attractive quality) Take your time too... Be selective... Act as if your a predator looking for your perfect type of prey... But be willing to adjust. More than anything, You need to have fun and be fun. And the more you practice the better you will get at being the one people want to talk to. As long as your willing to put yourself out there to be noticed. Good luck doll.
2/15/2008 8:46:33 AM	What am I doing wrong??
michaelcee Sarasota, FL age: 51	Maybe becaus the binding is so old it's cracked???
2/15/2008 9:09:28 AM	What am I doing wrong??
billericachick Billerica, MA age: 38	You are doing nothing wrong.....It takes time thats all.....Be patient it will happen....Keep the faith!
2/15/2008 10:14:55 AM	What am I doing wrong??
metu Mansfield, TX age: 46	Instead of wondering what you're doing wrong.......concentrate on what you're doing right......just a thought.
2/15/2008 10:47:57 AM	What am I doing wrong??
atlgarn Longwood, FL age: 53	I dunno...been "here" less than a week. But have been on other sites for over a year...and guess what? No different! I just think one has to bide her time, meet some guys and go from there. It's almost like a buffet for men and women....we all pick and choose! Just enjoy yourself while you can and really, like one other poster said "don't judge a book by it's cover". Although we all have our preferences, take a chance-at least you'll get some "face time" in!
2/15/2008 4:58:04 PM	What am I doing wrong??
lisab27 Battle Creek, MI age: 27	I just want to thank everyone of you for your input...I believe all of you are right saying that it will take time and someone will come along when the time is right...thank you again I believe my questions have been answered...you guys are very sweet
2/15/2008 6:06:02 PM	What am I doing wrong??
ladylove1luv Milwaukee, WI age: 38	Well I looked at your profile you are dressed nice,but you have to sell yourself sweetie. You are not telling much about yourself. Your saying what you like to do but your not telling about your qualities that you have in the inside of you. Your not letting the reader know about you personally. Some people if the picture don't catch them the profile will. I am hidden right now but I get responses all the time. If I don't get compliments on my pic then it's on my profile. Look inside yourself and let your heart do the talking . Write about YOUR GOOD QUALITIES let a person get to know you a little. hope this helps you . GOD BLESS YOU !
2/19/2008 8:51:19 AM	What am I doing wrong??
lova_girl Albany, GA age: 30	State it in your profile that you are not interested in dating older men, and that you are looking for someone in a certain age range and maybe that will help.
2/19/2008 11:20:45 AM	What am I doing wrong??
gonesailingbabe Des Moines, IA age: 45	You might try a photo that's a closeup? Show your face and your personality...and make more of an effort by engaging conversation with others in the threads....it's a good place to become friends. Also....if you do find someone - compliment them. Tell them sincerely what appeals to you about them..... You like Smiling Bob's smile - tell him! Chances are good it will brighten his day and lift his mood and yours also...... Sounds easy - cuz it is. Everyone here is here for the same reason... Where else can you find people to talk to 24-7 when you WISH to?