| 2/15/2008 11:21:06 AM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
misty419
Perrysburg, OH
age: 31
| How do you men and women feel about getting involved with some1 with children from a previous relationship?
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| 2/15/2008 11:33:52 AM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
samichmeister1
Winder, GA
age: 40
| Well for me, I married a woman who had two children from a previous marriage. After 18 years she decided to go find a younger model...to bad for her..he dumped her soon after our divorce. I have dated two other women each with 4 kids since. If you really like the person. You like the whole package kids included and are willing to give it a try. Simple enough?
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| 2/15/2008 12:34:42 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
huckleberrysqr
Renton, WA
age: 38
| I know that doesn't bother me whatsoever. I love kids, my entire family is very focused on the children in it. If I were with that someone that made my life complete, adding children into the mix would only make it even better to me.
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| 2/15/2008 8:37:17 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
planejumper73
Milford, MI
age: 35
| Kids from previous relationships are not an issue from me. I've dated 2 women with kids from 2 different guys since my divorce. I have 2 kids myself. Why should I judge someone and deem them unworthy of my time simply because they have kid/s with other guys?
John
P.S. Hi Misty
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| 2/15/2008 10:21:27 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
aboomer
Hot Springs National Park, AR
age: 50
| One thing about hooking up with someone who has kids is that you can pretty well feel that they at least have their act together. Don`t know of any state that will let someone keep their kids if they are the least bit psycho. When it comes to kids and government agencies, there`s just no way for someone to be screwed up and keep the kids. A good example would be Britany Spears.
Now one might have a problem with numbers and finances, but it`s not the kids fault and if one can`t handle those problem, then the best thing for the kids is to not start something in the first place. Kids have enough problems nowadays without having a couple of self centered so-called adults causing them unnecessary grief.
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| 2/16/2008 9:10:54 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
misty419
Perrysburg, OH
age: 31
| thanks for everyones input im new to this dating things and now i have children in the mix.My kids come first. thanks again
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| 2/16/2008 9:29:04 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
coolcajun
Boutte, LA
age: 37
| misty you should always put you kids first
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| 2/17/2008 3:44:48 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
txgirl05
Janesville, WI
age: 47
| Ok, but what happens when that special someone has an ex from HELL! And it seems that she doesn't want me around or near the kids. Which isn't too hard, because we live 5 states apart. I have grown children, but I don't really know if I can be a mother again at my age to a 3 and 5 yr old. It's like, Good Lord, what did I get myself into.
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| 2/19/2008 2:20:28 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
asaad1234
Mobile, AL
age: 31
| Well. you take the whole package, I love kids, and if the girl i was dating had kids, and we "completed" each other, then kids would just make it that much sweeter
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| 2/19/2008 3:15:34 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
hott2trott
Aurora, CO
age: 24
| I have 2 kids and have dated a few who have also had children. Im very choosy about who comes around my kids. One thing that is a deal breaker for me is if he doesnt hold similar views on raising children. One guy i dated had taught his daughter to call her mother, grandmother and aunt a b*tch. She would parrot this to him like it was well rehearsed. I have a very black and white point of view on whats right and wrong to subject kids to. If his view is similar to mine, no problem. It should be a decision made with some great thought. JMO.
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| 2/19/2008 3:17:58 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
canyouhearmenow
North Augusta, SC
age: 23
| its a package deal, my last two relationships involved children from prior relationships, and they've been great. you have to love everything about them, and the kids are included in the deal
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| 2/19/2008 3:17:59 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!
| i did it before and it's not an issue for me.since i have my own,i'd prefer someone who had as well since they would understand what it entails.
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| 2/19/2008 3:42:50 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
potillodee
Washington, DC
age: 48
| i feel aslong as all adults involved are mature it works because the children are the key focus not individual egos 
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| 2/19/2008 4:15:24 PM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| Right now the man I am interested in has numerous children from his previous marriages. I welcome them in my family and my future - if that happens.
(by the way beautiful photo of you!)
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| 2/20/2008 6:38:07 AM | Relationships involving children not your own | |
cozzykitten_383
White Cloud, MI
age: 38
| well iff there grown and gone not a problem but iff living with him mine are grown and gone so ide like some fun in the sun with none
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