| 2/16/2008 8:41:51 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
asaad1234
Mobile, AL
age: 31
| This has happened to me twice now. I meet someone, chat with them for mabey 5 emails, then have them get all pissy cause im still "online". In other words I have had two different ladies get mad at me for still showing up online, saying that if I was really lookin for something on here, then once i met them I would not be looking anymore. Does that not scare the stew out of you? Or am I the only one. I mean dont get me wrong, when i meet someone I connect with, and by that I mean, talk to more than one night, mabey start chatting on the phone, really get to know, then I will focus my attention. But If we just met, and you are already getting all pissy cause im still on DH looking around, then a big red flag goes up and I feel the need to, as Monty put it "run away"  Has this ever happened to anyone else?
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| 2/16/2008 8:54:53 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Assad, if they get all pissy because you are still online, they are way too high strung.
Do you have a mutually exclusive relationship with them? I would say no. You are dating. You can talk to whom ever you please. If they can't handle it, they probably would not let you have friends in your life as either. They are attempting to control you. That's just plain BS and there is no need for you to put up with it.
I know that if I find the one for me I'll be out of here. Until I make that commitment, I'll be here either helping, communicating, or terrorizing.
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| 2/16/2008 8:58:51 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| I've had guys tell me on the first date that they don't intend to date other people and look at me like they expect me to commit to an exclusive relationship. In my head, I always see this little guy: 
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| 2/16/2008 9:02:10 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
katie_b_78
Lebanon, TN
age: 30
| I think it important to point out that to have seen you online... SHE would have had to have been online. *pointed cough*
That's all I have to say, really.
Oh, and yes she was crazy. You are better off.
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| 2/16/2008 9:59:20 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
katiescarlett72
Justin, TX
age: 35
| Katie, I think you and I are going to get along really well LOL.
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| 2/16/2008 10:04:29 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53 online now!
| I think they are showing you a
side of them that you need to see
before its to late.
Be glad they showed you their real
selves before you got to involved
with them.
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| 2/16/2008 10:07:56 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
aniceguy4you2lv
Visalia, CA
age: 44
| RUN FOREST RUN!!!!
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| 2/16/2008 10:10:49 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
tinkerbell48
Anderson, IN
age: 48
| Wow!! I would run. I've never had that happen. I get we've been emailing for a few weeks do you want to meet. No, not for awhile. they stop emailing. Can't help it. I need alot of time at this before I'm going to meet someone I met online. I had a guy,no picture, and I never answered his wink,invite me to his house for a candle lit dinner.pictures say alot imo. Good luck!!!!
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| 2/16/2008 10:24:31 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
sdcentaur
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 48
| Sounds like you got out of that one easy Asaad.
If a woman wants to get rid of me all she has to do is start acting possessive/obsessive and jealous especially if we haven't even met face to face
I didn't come here "looking" to begin with. A friend recommended this site for the forums and I've met some great people here.
Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of nutjobs of both sexes here to go around too
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| 2/16/2008 11:11:27 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| If you aren't in an agreed upon committed relationship you are free to shop around. It would be the same in the real world. You go on dates with other women to get to know them and see who you click with. There's got to be chemistry.
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| 2/16/2008 11:25:50 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
kentots
Warsaw, IL
age: 19
| hasn't happened to me, I mainly read post and state opinions. All i can say is don't worry about and just keep looking.
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| 2/17/2008 4:22:45 AM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
| A while ago I connected via IM with a local from a different site. During the first session (yeah session - that's the term) she accused me of 2-timing her). That is having two conversations going at once.
I wasn't! But it got me into tweak mode Off she went...never to be heard from again
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| 2/17/2008 2:54:36 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
asaad1234
Mobile, AL
age: 31
| Yeah, I appreciate the input. As I stated earlier, we had literally just met, i.e had mabey exchanged 5 emails. I havent heard from her yet today, but then again, I just logged on Anyway, I just wanted to make sure I was not wrong in my feelings. When someone comes on that strong and possessive, I gotta head for the hills. I am a firm believer in friends first, really lay the groundwork, a good foundation, so on and so forth, befor i meet them off line, and way befor its anything exclusive. But, dont get me wrong, when and IF I find the "one" then my profile will be for friends only here. I am not a two timer. Anyway there is my thoughts, and thanks all for the input.
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| 2/17/2008 2:59:29 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| Yeah, I think we all had that happen. I've even had some women say "lose their number" because I was online
Damn, we are just chatting etc... And besides, she wouldn't know I'm online if she isn't online So my question is why the F___ are you worried about me when you are online yourself??? I'm not getting bent out of shape...
It's the internet. If they are acting like that from the get go, RUUUUUUNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!
IT's a total "POT CALLING THE KETTLE BLACK" situation
[Edited 2/17/2008 3:03:04 PM]
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| 2/17/2008 4:00:09 PM | Anyone ever had this happen.... | |
blue28
Barrackville, WV
age: 29
| sometimes these computers will show you are on line even when you are not and visa versa, there is no point in anyone getting upset. i have 10 million friends it seems on here.dont get to talk to everyone like i would like but it still works.everyone just try to take it easy.
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