*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~

2/16/2008 10:13:40 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
auraofanangel Mayfield, KY age: 39	Hello to One and All...I'd love to discuss, why do people have to lie on here when they know they will be meeting you and at that time, the trueth will come out..not just on the petty thing like appearences, but jobs, that effects relationships, how many kids they have....being divorced 5 times instead of 2. I have so many questions, I'm going to hold the line up at St. Peters Door.......Sooooooo, come on in and let's chat~
2/16/2008 10:17:32 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
rich341973 Youngstown, OH age: 34	I guess it's because the people you've been talking to are insecure. Or they think that they are such great liars that they would getaway with it!? Buy the way... Professional chef, never married, 1 kid.
2/16/2008 10:22:41 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
belladreams Binghamton, NY age: 38	Well welcome angel, im lisa, how are you? Well this question would be directly toward the men, because they seem to have an issue with this all the time. They talk on the phone for while, try to get to know a woman, and then when it is all said and done, the go out and meet this girl and it is a whole different story. The women's weight is completely different, they have no teeth, the hair is messed up, the woman has six children insteand of none, so it is quite interesting. There is alot of lies, but it can be on both ends too. It happens to be that the women are on public assistance when they say they work as a nurse and they are bringing home like $50,000 a year, and they have two cars and a big farm and two horses, etc. The same way can go for a man, but it is highly unlikely for me when i talk to them. Just the other day, you missed a thread and post on this. The men usually have a problem with this on the women. They go and meet them and it is one completely different story. Some men just go speed off right in their car and dont say one word. Have you had any such luck, or what have you been noticing?
2/16/2008 10:24:13 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
auraofanangel Mayfield, KY age: 39	~Smiles~, Must be......it all comes out in the wash in the end, and i've studied on it some, and read once where it said, a person can not "fake" their personality for over a 2 week period (meaning, say, i'm a dr. 32/ and really a trash man of 43.) something in the brain starts kicking in and their fake side slips up~ ~Nice to meet You..i'm basically a mom, a sister, a daughter and a friend...and care for many as many as i can in charity work, just had the passing of my moma on the 4th, my brothers birthday was the 5th.........it was rough~
2/16/2008 10:27:39 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
rich341973 Youngstown, OH age: 34	I'm sorry to hear that. If i were you i wouldn't worry. I just checked out your profile & not only are you a slammin' hottie but your not brainless either!! You should have no problem finding someone who will be upfront with you.
2/16/2008 10:31:48 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
auraofanangel Mayfield, KY age: 39	shines, hello Lisa, ~What You say has been in my thoughts, and yes, just about 2 weekends ago i meet someone, he was calling morning, noon, night, breaks, begging to come see mee.......we talked on the phone over 11 hours the first time.......everything went wonderful..i allowed him to come over, he was more then a gentle man, opening the door type, lady first,, ect...........and omg, drop dead nice looking, a dream, everything was so perfect, the champayne, he bought my favorite perfume even i just found that tonight, for i've not been home the last couple of weeks. He left a note to not worry, and to call his cell and left his cell number and i've not heard from him since, he even drew a heart on the letter.......tell me what you make out of that......no returning calls, no emails answered, nothing.......i really worried if he had a wreck or something, and i think i just got off the subject winks, but honestly, i admitted to him everything...and no lies on weight even.......his wife had passed and she was 50lbs over mine, that wasnt' an issue~
2/16/2008 10:35:47 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
auraofanangel Mayfield, KY age: 39	~smiles~ ~thank You for the compliments........i really appreciate getting them s, then again, what female wouldn't giggles* ~Do you have your own restaunt, (spell check) or catering?
2/16/2008 10:41:45 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
belladreams Binghamton, NY age: 38	did his wife pass recently? This is odd. All kinds of men do this angel. I have so many of them do this to me. I had a boyfriend two years ago. He was a carpenter/landscaper. We talked on the phone for hours, planned what we were going to do for the weekend, etc. The phone rang non stop. After the night we went out, i never heard from him the next day. IT was odd. People were telling me he did have an ex girlfriend but he said he was completely over her. He was with me. I even call him at his parents house to see if he was okay and i asked why did you not call me and his reply was oh i have been busy with work and im tired? The same old lame excuse that they always use. Dont get me wrong, not all of them are like that. I dont know why they do that. But mose of them do. You are a very pretty girl. I don't know why a man would want to run away from you. Maybe he could not deal with his mothers sudden death? Did you say that your brother had died to? I am so sorry for your mothers loss at this time. I will keep her in my prayers. I wish there was more i could do, but we cant keep going on chasing these guys because that is what they like. They love to see you chase them. That is their thrill. SO you go on and pick up the pieces from there and you go and find a nice gentleman, someone who loves you for you and forget about it. That is what i had to do. Everything will be okay. If you ever want to email me i am here. I accepted your friend request. Lisa
2/16/2008 10:44:35 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
dancinglynx Reedsburg, WI age: 44	I don't understand why people feel the need to lie. I guess it's easier for them then having to face the truth aout themselves or maybe it's cuz they feel other people wouldn't like them or want to be with them if they're honest about their simple lives? I'm just befuddled over it. I'm always upfront & honest about myself & I think that's just
2/16/2008 10:46:27 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
rich341973 Youngstown, OH age: 34	No. Unfortunatly i don't have my own restaurant. I've done some catering on the side but thats sporadic at best. I'd really like to own my own duplex or apt. building. Still getting my credit in order for that. So.. how long were you away from that guy? A couple weeks? Did he know you would be gone for that long & wanted you to call him when you got back?
2/16/2008 10:48:15 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
katiescarlett72 Justin, TX age: 35	Must be......it all comes out in the wash in the end, and i've studied on it some, and read once where it said, a person can not "fake" their personality for over a 2 week period (meaning, say, i'm a dr. 32/ and really a trash man of 43.) something in the brain starts kicking in and their fake side slips up~ I think whether they can pull it off longer than that depends entirely on the stupidity level of the person they're pulling it on. Did anyone else watch the Dr. Phil show last week where this woman had been married to a man for three years that she was convinced was a doctor and owned a $10 million home in Florida? The one time they went to see the home he had "forgotten the keys" so they had to just turn around and go back, and he'd never actually practiced medicine for a single day nor could produce any licenses or diplomas. This girl had the nerve to look shocked when the truth came out.
2/16/2008 10:51:09 PM	*Raised in Ky, Born in Tenn. Just as Country, as Cornbread Can Be~
drumman3 Cave City, KY age: 38	I have been through it too I have meet two women from online dating services, and they were NOTHING like they said they were so now, I won`t even talk to a woman about meeting unless they can prove that the picture they have posted is them, and as for them talking about their career if that is a lie after you meet them then just mark it as a lesson learned and move on.