| 2/17/2008 11:32:58 AM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
boofy81
Stamford, CT
age: 27
| I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter and every time I tell someone that they are like never mind, whats up with that. I don't see a problem with it, if your into someone then just take them as they are.
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| 2/17/2008 11:39:42 AM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
canufi6my
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 59
| It doesn't sound like he was "into" you, I don't date women that still live at home with their parent(s).
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| 2/17/2008 12:04:16 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
jw9t69
Medical Lake, WA
age: 39
| You just have not found the right one, yet. You just need to have patience. I do not see that as a reason not to date a woman. 
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| 2/17/2008 12:31:04 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| I've been on dates and I'm a single mother. I think single fathers that are raising their children have a harder time than single mothers. I don't know why but I've talked to a few single fathers and it is more acceptable to see a single mother than a single father. I am guessing that the people who don't want to date anyone with children either don't care for children, they don't want to help raise someone else's child(ren), or they want the person they are interested in to give the full attention to them without any other distractions. 
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| 2/17/2008 12:48:04 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
nativebabef4u
Montgomery, MN
age: 40
| Date a hispanic,native american indian or some other culture they are more family orientated. Since i have dated other cultures. They have no problem with me having kids.
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| 2/17/2008 12:53:06 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
trinagirl
Riverdale, NJ
age: 48
| shouldnt matter.but it just may be the age factor. see that your 26. alot of guys in thier twenties may get nervous about the responsibility and their meeting more women without children. when their in their thirties and forties, its a lot more common to meet women with kids. and by then, alot have their own children from an ex. just a guess.
your a package deal. there are enough guys who dont mind at all. dont be bothered about the rest.
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| 2/17/2008 1:10:06 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
chimike
Chicago, IL
age: 57
| I'd have no problem, even with little kids as I think they're great, help keep you young and all, but, don't get that opportunity as the moms usually are far too young. Some guys just aren't ready for that, to be honest, though...too much responsibility and maybe they're a bit selfish, wanting you only for themelves.
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| 2/17/2008 5:27:54 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
goldengirl200
Rahway, NJ
age: 38
| Maybe try finding someone who understands your circumstances. The only way is to find a man who has kids. Hopefully there is enough common interests to start something great.
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| 2/17/2008 5:37:37 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 35
| Some guys (me) just don't want kids....period...
Some guys don't want to deal with ex husbands/boyfriends...
Some guys don't want to end up in a relationship being a father figure and hear, "you're not my daddy"...
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| 2/17/2008 6:07:17 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Okay but remember you ask. Most guys feel trapped with someone elses kids, If you correct them and accept them as your own, YOUR PICKING ON THEM, If you just let them go ahead and do things, YOU DON'T CARE CAUSE THEY'RE NOT YOURS. don't believe it, an ex girlfriend of mine had a 20 year old son who decided he didn't like what his mother said so he slapped her, when he came to she was screaming for me to apologize for knocking him out, I didn't have time I was busy leaving.....wonder how that all turned out?
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| 2/17/2008 6:08:39 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
boots57
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 51
| The men that are like that are not worth you worring about. If you tell them up front and they say that they have no problems with that then you have found someone "maybe" but just be a little more careful & watch them closer ok. Those that are hesitant at first but then accept you kids will be your best bet ok. Good luck. I know if I like the woman then I will accept her kid also. 
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| 2/17/2008 6:10:20 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
boots57
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 51
| Good for you duck 
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| 2/17/2008 6:37:01 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
greg2468
Arlington, TX
age: 30
| to be honest it doesnt bother me at all that someone has children...it is how they act is what gets my attention..are the well mannered....are the little hell yens? if they are good children then that hasnt stoped me from dating a single mother..
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| 2/17/2008 6:51:45 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
drawyah
Spring Lake, NJ
age: 54
| I would not have a problem dating a single mother as long as she didn't have toddlers or younger. I am now too old for kids in diapers. I am a father myself and can understand some of the things it takes to raise children. Especially how plans might have to be changed at a moments notice.
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| 2/17/2008 7:07:28 PM | Why won't men date single mothers?? | |
ghostgrunt
Greensburg, PA
age: 46
| I don't have a problem with it, but i don't like the kids to get too attached to me in case things don't work out. Or the other way around for that matter.
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