2/18/2008 10:34:53 PMwhat makes a man, a MAN and what makes a girl a GIRL? 

farrsight
Eureka Springs, AR
age: 24


so i was thinking, what in the world really is the diffrence between men and women? do you think its right to only have these two classes? that is with such a wide variety of people out there struggle to find their gender because they fall somwere in beetween. we can just start by the obvious genetial, but i would perfer to stay less on the phscial and more to the social/phyco/philiso thanx

2/21/2008 12:43:39 PMwhat makes a man, a MAN and what makes a girl a GIRL? 
sweet_in_ark
Fayetteville, AR
age: 38


Well you know sometimes it isn't as cut and dry as genitalia. I try to be a very open minded person, though I do not consider myself even bi-curious. I think it is more of a comfort in your own skin thing. Some people are just naturally feminine and some are naturally masculine regardless of their sex. Whichever way, everyone should be and have a right to be happy whatever makes them that way. JMO.

2/25/2008 9:15:25 PMwhat makes a man, a MAN and what makes a girl a GIRL? 

chicagoiceman
Mountain Home, AR
age: 47


Interesting phrasing of our question. A man a man a girl a girl why not a woman a woman? First of all genetically that has been predetermined for all of us. While I have met some masculine women and effeminate men it seems to me society determines the standards for each and the farther one gets from highly populated urban areas the more stigma and prejudice exists. Being originally from Chicago I have learned to laugh at the gay pride parade and accept alternative lifestyle choices. It is not my business to judge what others choose for themselves. I am heterosexual but I have a live and let live attitude toward alternative lifestyles. Since I have moved south I have found less tolerance and a bit of homophobia. In answer to your question what makes a man? I’m old fashion; a man should defend his family, never strike a woman, and work to support his family. A woman should support, comfort and create a welcoming home for her man. Simple ideas from a simple man

5/3/2008 11:34:02 AMwhat makes a man, a MAN and what makes a girl a GIRL? 

arkansasnewbee
Benton, AR
age: 56


Try reading the books *Women are from Venus* *Men are from Mars* I believe there is some great explanations with the difference between men and women.