winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
| Alex....
I must ask you to explain yourself...
I made a rude remark?
I am not aware of it...perhaps you would be kind enough to quote me...
the exact words that you found offensive to you.
Wine
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bestlover
Wellton, AZ
age: 74
| now-now girls don't fight.
when you get my age you are defanatly only seeking one.
   
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vwillht
Raleigh, NC
age: 32
| Uh.. You need to re read my post lady, and who are you to tell me not to post. i can see clearly that you havent read the post through at all. One thing everyone is replying as if i meant that your should date only one person. The post says can I make that choice, meaning that people while dating do not tell the other person that thats what they do. also even when a couple try to take it to the next level, someone may still want date and see other people instead they say nothing and force that upon the other person. Can they make that choice for themselves rather or not they want to be in that type of situation. Also please come more clear next time if your going to rebut against me, your spelling is horrible.
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
| Alex, you sent me a wink..a few days ago..
I sent you a thank you, and I complimented you on the article about *who is behind the dashboard*. I told you it was well written and thanked you for sharing it.
I did not block you, or get in a tangle with you...end of story. I am not part of the 35 or 40 women that e-mailed you and then blocked you, that you are complaining about on the 50's thread...
In THAT DASHBOARD thread which you posted outside and inside the 50's forum,(2x), neither time did you credit the author with their brillant thinking.I asked you to give the author credit for their work product.
That is not being rude....that is *asking* for something that should have been stated.
You asked me for my private e-mail address, so you could send me the author's name.
That would not give the author credit for their work product,used freely on the internet.
It would serve no purpose, to supply you with any email address associated with me.It is very evident that we will not be in communication, outside of a public forum.
Be that what it may, why would you attack me in **the middle of this thread**?
It is not my style to be rude...rather to stay on topic.
I do have an ability to compose thoughts and complete sentences.
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My apologies to the author of this thread, at this time, for the thought interruption,
in response to ALEX. Sorry, I do not want to take anything to private e-mail with him.
Wine
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marjan
Tampa, FL
age: 69
| I agree with Winesong's first letter. There is nothing wrong in dating several people for lunch, dinner or a movie as long as you are not sleeping around. One of these may turn out to be the one you are looking for but you won't know unless you see them often, you can't tell on one date!! But eventually one will become special or it will end. In the meantime I have met some great guys and some lousy ones but I am honest with them if they want to know I am dating others. All they have to do is ask.
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stormygrl
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 42
| When I'm "with" someone then I'm only with them and if I felt this need to go out and cheat on them - then I'm going to tell them and end the relationship FIRST....when you are with someone you owe them at least the courtesy of that much...
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yankeesweet
Aiken, SC
age: 58
| Wine....I agree with you.
Don't give out your private email address to anyone you don't
really know. They ask for it and then get ticked off when you
don't want to send it to them. What is up with that????
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
| Stormy...
I agree, when I am *WITH SOMEONE, & we are a COUPLE*, I am true to my
relationship. I do not date others, or play games. I would expect the same,
and I would communicate clearly about that aspect.
One cannot assume, that we are in an exclusive relationship, without mutual
understanding and consent.
Good communication is the answer to this vexing situation...
When both people are on the same page,
at the same time in the relationship, all will be well.
Have a great Saturday...I have fresh snow on the deck again.
Wine
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