| 2/21/2008 12:23:57 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
randy_savage
Hope Mills, NC
age: 71
| She screwed around while I understood we were exclusive - and was dumb enough to get caught. She swears it was just one time.
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| 2/21/2008 12:26:29 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
yunvs
Columbus, OH
age: 35
| follow your heart randy it happens everyday
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| 2/21/2008 12:31:11 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
cindyms32117
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 42
| Theres a difference between forgive and forget. yes you should forgive her as a person,
but you shouldn't forget, you dont cheat on those you love. If she didnt love you enough not to do it the first time, it will probable happen again. But its your life you must live with the choice you make , no one else..
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| 2/21/2008 12:43:19 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| forgive her, but forger her, once a cheater, always a cheater. I learned my lesson. She will always do it to you. Always. Forget her and move on and find someone who is going to respect you for you. Enough of that crap. We are too old to be putting up with such ingnorance. Good Luck my friend.
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| 2/21/2008 12:47:01 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| I would probably forgive her as a person, but I would end the relationship for a partner or date...once trust leaves the relationship there's not much to build real love upon is there?
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| 2/21/2008 12:48:21 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
huskertomboy
Hiawatha, KS
age: 51 online now!
| Once a cheat... always a cheat. Forgive her if it gives you peace, then move on. Myself, I will never forgive that betrayal. But I have definitely moved on. Life goes on my friend... and it does get better.
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| 2/21/2008 12:52:53 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
togot
Rockford, IL
age: 25
| forgiving is just another way of condoning someones actions. whether you forgive her or not, i hope you're not foolish enough to trust her again
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| 2/21/2008 2:33:01 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
davids07
Princeton, LA
age: 50
| You can try to forgive but you will never be able to forget. You know yourself better then any body else so do what you feel is right and good luck to you.
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| 2/21/2008 3:10:35 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
| I can't believe age was brought up in this thread.
That said, if one gets to a stage in life whence memory begins to fade, then, what the hey.
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| 2/21/2008 4:35:30 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| so what you're saying is he could conceivably forget where he put her in the 1st place? Cool! 
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| 2/21/2008 4:40:28 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
sunnyboy59
Queensland
Australia
age: 48
| Yeah ...Right!!!!!!!!!
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| 2/21/2008 4:46:44 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
radrigr
Edon, OH
age: 47
| last night, as i got home, bout half past 10....[take a letter maria]..nuff said
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| 2/21/2008 4:52:28 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| I wasted alot of years on a cheater, always forgave...never forgot. I finally walked away and he wonders what hit him?! Only you can decide what is right for you. Would I put up with it again?....never I am, you are, everyone is worthy and deserving of a love that belongs only to us...not to be shared. jmo
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| 2/21/2008 5:03:16 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| I agree... once a cheater always a cheater. How many other times has she done this that you don't know about?
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| 2/21/2008 7:23:56 AM | Should I Forgive Her? | |
mlc1305
Cranston, RI
age: 50
| no you shouldn't forgive her, she will do it again. once a cheat always a cheat, i dont care what she says. ask her this, why did she cheat.
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