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2/21/2008 8:17:11 PMQuestion? Were is love 

berrywine
Upper Darby, PA
age: 42

Ladies & Men. Do you go looking for love or does love find you? And if you found it would you know what it looked like?

2/21/2008 8:19:02 PMQuestion? Were is love 

evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35



2/21/2008 8:21:58 PMQuestion? Were is love 

wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 41

I was just about to give up when it found me..I wasn't sure what it looked like at first..went into it very slowly...still easing into it..even though I now Know it IS love..
dont wanna screw it up like I've done soo many times before..
babe if/when you see this...know that I you..

2/21/2008 8:23:29 PMQuestion? Were is love 

garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48 online now!

awww turtle....you two make a lovely couple. I'm so happy for you both!

2/21/2008 8:25:14 PMQuestion? Were is love 

belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38

Well for me, I go looking for love. Maybe in the wrong places, but i dont know. What does love look like? It could like anything, a smile, a gentle touch, a hello, a gentle touch in passing, eye contact. Noone ever knows. I tend to go with my heart. This happens every time i tend to go out is when I look for love. When i go out with an I dont care looking for love attitude, that is when I strike gold, but then it puts me in a bind. You have at least three or four nice guys hitting on you, buying you drinks, asking you to dance, all come from good family backgrounds, have good and stable jobs, etc. So now the biggest question of them all, whom do you choose? What would you do?

2/21/2008 8:31:40 PMQuestion? Were is love 

berrywine
Upper Darby, PA
age: 42

Ballydreams? Out of those 3 guys, which one, really now is looking for love? You know what they want??? Too, get layed?? especially if you are in a bar drinking...I have never met love in a bar or a club,,,only men looking to get layed are there....??? I just don't know...Good searching. berrywine

2/21/2008 8:40:47 PMQuestion? Were is love 

belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38

Well berry just not a bar, it could be anywhere, it could be at work at a church function, there are lawyers, doctors, etc out there, and they could be looking for one thing too. Just because they make good money and drive fancy cars dont mean they are good men. I work for the US Government and I know a judge and i party with him time to time and points me out to all the attorneys who cheat on their wives and what not. And i have seen women who have met men in a bar, who have been faithful for 18 and 19 years who have been together. MY mother and father will be married 46 years in April. This is not the 50's anymore. Now you have to take chances these days. I have no idea where to take these chances at. Do you?

2/21/2008 8:42:56 PMQuestion? Were is love 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43

LOVE IS GIVEN...you don't find it,you don't take it....
IT'S something YOU GIVE freely!!.....(and expect noting in return)

2/21/2008 8:43:03 PMQuestion? Were is love 

arcstrike
Kankakee, IL
age: 37

where else are we suppose to go to meet you?

2/21/2008 8:44:18 PMQuestion? Were is love 

inspectorrick
Florence, NJ
age: 40

u will know it when u see or feel it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2/21/2008 8:45:35 PMQuestion? Were is love 

arcstrike
Kankakee, IL
age: 37

I want to find love. I want to be in love. I want the kind of love that when your apart you just can't wait to be back together again, and i'm having doubts that that exists anymore.

2/21/2008 8:47:29 PMQuestion? Were is love 

berrywine
Upper Darby, PA
age: 42

Bellydreams, yes you could have a point...just tried of looking. Old school, a man's instinct, basically is to hunt or seek out...When a woman do this...it means only one thing for the man..."I am definitely going to get me some bootie"... Is there a difference between love & lust??? Are they both intertwined?

2/21/2008 8:53:24 PMQuestion? Were is love 

belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38

Yep, sure is a difference between love and lust, been there done that before. I never been married. I do have a 14 year old son. My sons father was the love of my life. I thought we were going to get marrid, but he wanted the party life. He was into drugs, leaded me on, he said things to make believe he loved me. So it took me seven years to get over him. I was in denial. So here i am, single for ten years. Now lust to me, is just liking and lusting over a cute adorable man, maybe just following him wherever he goes, not as in getting in a car and following him, no no no, just maybe you like him, and thinks he's sexy and adorable, and you just want sex for him but hes not the right one for you, you know hes not the right one for you. You can usually tell. I could tell right when i put him and my sons father together. Now since im older, i will be 38 in June, and it is getting tougher, i know god gave me a precious gift which was a child. I dont know if i was meant to be single for the rest of my life and be happy with just a child, or will that love of my life come in due time? I wish i was with that big man up in the sky to know what my future really holds. SO have you had any luck? I love your hair, and you are absolutely a beautiful woman. Lisa

2/21/2008 9:01:51 PMQuestion? Were is love 

berrywine
Upper Darby, PA
age: 42

bellydreams: I could feel your pain, been there too..just have to love yourself first...once you keep loving yourself..that glow of love will show on your face & in your eyes..any man close too you or see you from a distance will be blinded by that glow...& definitely want to come close...I am now realizing this @ 42....Self love is the first love....Not know kinky stuff..just taking care of yourself...keep loving..