| 2/22/2008 10:25:33 PM | Real and Honest women | |
rlbitinpa
Ephrata, PA
age: 56
| OK here is the bottom line. Is there any real and honest women out there? Is this a condition that is only prevalent to SE PA, or is it universal? It is 1:25 AM, I just got back from a "meeting". We emailed and talked on the phone. Seemed like wed had a number of things in common. We were both excited about meeting. We met. Things went super. To make a long story short, we had a great time, hugs and all. Then the inevitable question," Will I see you again?" Then the age old answer, maybe, depends, etc., etc. So my question is, "Is there any real and honest women left out there, that want an honest man, a real relationship, and someone to be with?"
Would love some input on this........thank you........This is in no way a post to bash women in any way.
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| 2/22/2008 10:38:28 PM | Real and Honest women | |
tony120120
Tullahoma, TN
age: 27
| Its good to hear from a women.That knows what shes talkin about
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| 2/22/2008 10:59:15 PM | Real and Honest women | |
coslty8
Uniondale, NY
age: 32
| Look let's be honest, it could be a number of things.
Maybe the initial attraction and conversations was great over the phone, but maybe she wasn't attracted to you. That doesn't make her dishonest.
The picture on your profile really doesn't show your face, and the rest are not of you.
Yes there are real honest women and men out here...but I believe very few. It's so sad that we have come to this...jaded, bruised, abused, misused, people trying to have relationships.
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| 2/22/2008 11:03:45 PM | Real and Honest women | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| time will tell
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| 2/22/2008 11:14:37 PM | Real and Honest women | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48 online now!
| I agree sailing....I agree
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| 2/22/2008 11:18:38 PM | Real and Honest women | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| Be honest, and put the ball in her court, Suggest a second date, and tell her to let you know when she is ready. Then she has the opportunity to accept or decline.
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| 2/22/2008 11:30:47 PM | Real and Honest women | |
ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
| I dont know, I think it sounds as though she was being polite and not wanting to offend, or hurt your feelings. She wasnt being direct. there is a difference between being dishonest, and not being direct. I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you...
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| 2/23/2008 2:42:01 AM | Real and Honest women | |
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52
| yes me I tell it like it is and if I dont like you, you will know it up front.All I'm looking for is someone to love love me back and be areal wife too.
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| 2/23/2008 2:49:18 AM | Real and Honest women | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| well put!
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| 2/23/2008 3:04:13 AM | Real and Honest women | |
steevn
Knoxville, TN
age: 36
| What exactly is real and honest in these days anyhow? Everyone has something to try to cover up, a little imperfection, a secret, an issue they haven't been able to deal with. Even if it is just in their own eyes. Everyone is unique unto themselves. If there is something that attracts you to her, then take the time to find out what that is. Even if it doesn't work out, at least you'd be able to find out something about your own perceptions of love/dating/women/love that maybe you hadn't recognized before.I guess that is my paradigm for now. You were cheated on, I am I wrong? Best of luck, to you and me, I hope that isn't to selfish.. Sincerely, Steevn
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| 2/23/2008 10:15:09 AM | Real and Honest women | |
rlbitinpa
Ephrata, PA
age: 56
| I think most of you missed the point. It is not only me who is saying this. I have talked to many that have said the same thing.
Tuffkris......although your post is good and you perceive it to be honest, your age tells me that you have not experienced life and it's tribulations to the extent that I and others have. As I said i thank you for your input.
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| 2/23/2008 10:25:29 AM | Real and Honest women | |
teaurtei
Payne, OH
age: 41
| So what was the point?
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| 2/23/2008 10:39:44 AM | Real and Honest women | |
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52
| how real are any of us? I'm here asking for opinions on someone I trusted and believed in, give me yours on that, the truth is we have to take our chances no matter what and deal with what is thrown our way and try to understand
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| 2/23/2008 10:48:00 AM | Real and Honest women | |
markiemay
Nashville, TN
age: 55
| Might as well let it go.........Yea guys lie. Gals lie. Part of the game. We may hate it but its a fact !!!!! In real life and here on DHU. Take the GOOD with the Bad. We all say we are lookin for the same thing HONESTY !!!!!!!! but welcome to the real world.
Sorry!!! Markie 
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| 2/23/2008 10:50:06 AM | Real and Honest women | |
hotpockets
Maple Shade, NJ
age: 53
| I get your post. It happend to me the same. We met, had fun, chemistry, emails, phone calls...then second date...good time, fun easy conversation, dinner and movie, nice kiss...goodnight... next wrote a thank you...nothing for 4 days...ok no problem sent another...he writes back...he's not into a committment...who said anything about a committment??..Just wanted to get to know him and date?...think he just was not into me...can't try to figure it out...am learning all the time --->>> NEXT!
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