Forums: Relationships: why does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else
2/23/2008 2:16:39 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

baby_momma20
Birmingham, AL
age: 20

1. he doesn't care about his baby
2. he never loved her




2/23/2008 2:21:43 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57

You didn't put C. Both A & B Or maybe he doesn't want to be tied down. This he should have thought about before hand. I wish you well if this happened to you. Keep you chin up. Somebody will love you for you.

2/23/2008 3:17:25 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

eyeswideopened
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 43

That happened to me ! A man I was with for five years got another girl pregnant.
It was the most devestating moment in my life. Made me think how many other times he
had cheated on me. Regardless if she was the first or not, it was the most horrific
feeling I have ever felt.

2/23/2008 4:18:30 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45

its both my love
it was about the sex in the first place . a man that don't take care of his kid or kids isn't a man. only a man with a weake mind for sex isn't a man . cause a man step up where a boy run .

2/23/2008 4:20:03 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47

Women need to take care of themselves, because if the man leaves that's all she has, oh that and a baby.

2/23/2008 4:27:18 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

bry11ca
Buellton, CA
age: 43 online now!

When I was 18 in the Army I met a guy who was proud that he had 10 TEN!!! children with various women around the world. We know how much f**king he did, but how much fathering did he do?

I told him he was a loser. He wasn't pleased.

2/23/2008 4:50:28 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52

Why do teenage girls get themselves into these situations? Don't you know about birth control or better yet stay away from him till he is ready to commit. Yea I know I'm a good one to be talking but at least Im not pregnant Girls grow up a baby isnt going to make him love you will only leave you tied down and responsible for someone the rest of your life, wait till you are ready the right man will come along

2/23/2008 4:54:54 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31

He never liked kids? I dunno

2/23/2008 5:39:20 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

chimike
Chicago, IL
age: 57

Probably both....it's a bad situation. Hopefully he will at least be somewhat responsible for HIS baby...if not, I'd make sure he was if I were you. It might be that you think you don't want him involved, and maybe that's best, but if you need help, you need help; you have to consider your baby. (IF you're referring to yourself being in this situation.) There is a third person going to be involved here.

2/23/2008 5:41:30 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

coslty8
Uniondale, NY
age: 32

Sweety "some" men will say anything to get into your pants.

It's really up to you to be smart enough to keep your leggs closed until you "REALLY" know a person.

In general men are wired differently from women, their heart is not always connected to their penis.

In general, a womans heart is connected to her vagina. Guard your heart and your body, that's your responsibilty, not anyone elses.

Really get to know someone before you sleep with them. When a woman makes a man wait she really finds out what his true intentions are.


Do you know how many men approach me with "ill" intentions? But I have learned to protect myself and "wait" to see what they are really about.

Sorry to say but most of the time some of them just want 1 thing...and I'm proud to say that they don't get it!!!!



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2/23/2008 6:54:53 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46

He wanted sex.

2/23/2008 7:02:33 PMwhy does a man get a girl pregnant and leaves her for someone else 

rockinrobin63
Provo, UT
age: 45