Forums: Relationships: No women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem
2/23/2008 5:55:02 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

vikki41
Round Rock, TX
age: 41

My husband was very faithful when it came to another women, but alcohol and drugs always came before anything. I can fight another women, how do you fight the other??????????

2/23/2008 5:55:32 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34

Honestly you don't

2/23/2008 5:57:38 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

coslty8
Uniondale, NY
age: 32

you can't he needs help, while he's going through this storm, you gotta protect yourself. Only he can make the change that needs to be made...

2/23/2008 5:58:38 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

l2kids44
Lanesville, IN
age: 45

You can't,thats why I had to leave my marriage. Unless he admits it's problem and ask for help he'll never stop.



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2/23/2008 6:02:03 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

theller
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 39

I've had both.....a women that cheated.............another one that never cheated but put drugs and alcohol ahead of me.............it sucked both times

2/23/2008 6:15:29 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!

You could declare war on them. Yea that always fixes it ::sarcasm::

2/23/2008 6:19:43 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

snake4u
Edmonton, AB
age: 40

Why fight a crack head// drunk Move on to greener pastures

2/23/2008 6:58:23 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38

You cant fight the other. My sons father was an alcholic. Did drugs here and there, but the alcohol was his main target. He has to help himself in that area. You can never change a man. You have to walk away. He will never change, it is you that has to change, and that is exactly what i did. I am absolutely much more happier than i ever was, and i dont regret a thing.

2/23/2008 7:01:13 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31

I dont think you can fairly say "He'll never change" people sober up all the time.....but only when they are ready and for some they aint ever ready

2/23/2008 7:06:18 PMNo women was ever put before me, that wasn't the problem 

harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39

Well said south - I agree, some people can change. But it's usually when they have hit rock bottom or see their family breaking apart that they decide to change for the better. It is possible. How do you fight? Tough love!