Forums: Relationships: Why is it so hard to find Love?
2/24/2008 12:17:19 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

brownsugar25
Gainesville, FL
age: 26

Maybe someone has the answer to my Question !!
Why is it so hard to find true love, why is that some people take people feelings as a joke.

2/24/2008 12:22:43 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

familyguy58103
Los Angeles, CA
age: 88

brownsugar- your other post on this category shows that you have the right attitude. You said you plan to use your alone time for self improvement. There are a lot of good people on here who have dealt with loneliness, and hopefully you can learn something.
I think the people who are disrespected are the people who come on here pitying themselves or fishing for people to tell them how pretty (or handsome) and special they are.
If you truly want things to get better for you, they will. Use this time not only to look for a partner, but to learn more about yourself and what you want from life and from someone else. Good luck

2/24/2008 12:28:14 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

brownsugar25
Gainesville, FL
age: 26

thank u that really helps

2/24/2008 1:47:21 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34

because it's hard finding someone without the following

1. playing games
2. deceitfult
3. they want a mate with all the good characteristics, yet they haven't taken the planks out their own eyes or have cleared their own closet full of mess.
4. one is quick to dismiss the other for a minor imperfection or minor bump in a relationship instead of sticking it out.
5. many are simply not ready to commit unconditionally - EVEN IN MARRIAGE

2/24/2008 2:46:48 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45

largely because the world is made up of different people who believe differently about what is acceptable and what is not.....

as many stars as there are in the sky are the infinite number os reasons why someone is the way they are - finding two people who compliment each other and understand those numerous variables - is NOT easy.

2/25/2008 6:58:23 AMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53

"SHALOM" use this word wisley



You don't find love it comes in your heart, the first sight, feel, smell, hugs, laughter and so on. Just chill and relax its the one way to enjoy life and a happy person attract happy people in their lives.
Slow down - deep breaths and wonder through this earth with antenans and feelers for the one will show up right beside you and you won't even know it till you relax.



2/25/2008 7:07:26 AMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46

Because you're looking in all the wrong places.........

2/25/2008 3:07:08 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

kenb5b01
Northport, WA
age: 44

If life was supposed to be easy, growing up wouldn't take so long.....

Just like a good garden, the better things in life require some time and effort..

2/25/2008 3:07:53 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

pinkrose78
Rockland, MA
age: 29

Its hard to find love because your looking too hard.. Try not to look so hard and let Love find you.. someday give it time.

2/25/2008 7:01:48 PMWhy is it so hard to find Love? 

tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 46

i don't really think true love is hard to find
i think its more into who are what . usualy the one that truely love you are the very one your not interested in .


people seem to over look other that don't look the way they want .
but they never think that maybe its not looks you need . god only send to you what is best for you .and that might not be a gourgous man are woman

but some one that know and understand you needs