Forums: Relationships: Just wondering....no reading into it.
2/25/2008 8:30:25 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
brandie1975
Stockton, CA
age: 33

I was wondering what individuals would consider what lasting relationship material/qualities would be.

As I am sure alot of us on here have been in long term relationships before and for those of you that are actually looking for something longer than the moment at hand, what do you want from the opposite or not so opposite sex when it comes to lasting? What are the things you would hope to receive, feel, have, give?

I am just wondering, strictly for reasearch, dont go getting all freaked out thinking I am looking to fall in with the first person to bat an eye...lol.

Help me out here, say what is on your mind, in your hearts... hell let me have what you think with between your legs as well... it all plays a vital part.

2/25/2008 8:41:06 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
greg2468
Arlington, TX
age: 30

someone who is honest..being truthful..has the same in put as me....ie enjoys to make the other person happy..someone who is appreciative..i prefer traditional just because i like to take care of the women im with but not a must...ohh yeah and pretty and same figure as me..

Sex ..well i want someone who is submissive..i like to be dominating in bed..or be in control...someone who likes to give head and doesnt find it a chore...that is a must..swallows is even better..someone who doesnt gag..PRICELESS....doesnt mind tryng new things..positions whatever...as long as it doesnt envolve my a** or another guy im up for it...

2/25/2008 8:45:36 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
coslty8
Uniondale, NY
age: 32

JMO...

From Me that special person would get:
1. a woman that loves herself so she's able to love you
2. someone who's willing to do the "work" that a relationship takes
3. a woman with a mind of set of "how can I make your life easier"?


What I need:
1. A man that loves God
2. A man that has a vision and purpose for his life
3. A man that desires to protect and love me



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2/25/2008 8:55:50 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
brandie1975
Stockton, CA
age: 33

so far, impressive..... Keep it comming folks.

2/25/2008 8:58:40 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
thad16
Dayton, TX
age: 61

If you are not willing to "take a bullet" for your lover, clean up for him when he can't, be there for him always and make him happy in bed and out, then you don't have anything in that relationship. Better move on.

2/25/2008 9:05:36 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57

I would want a partner in every sense of the word. My late wife was a real partner. If I was going to shingle the roof, she was the first one on the roof with her hammer. She worked beside me all the way.

She loved me with her whole heart. She loved my sons. She didn't go running to mom when things weren't 100%. She never played the game, I'm withholding sex for whatever reason. We always worked things out.

She enjoyed sex as much as I did.

I would want somewhat the same, but not necessarily exactly the same in another partner.

2/25/2008 9:46:18 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 

daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54

If you couldn't be in love with someone in a castle or under a bridge, you're not really in love, with anyone but yourself

2/26/2008 2:27:00 AMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
chicorivera67
Benton, AR
age: 41



2/26/2008 2:39:58 AMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
bcjonesus
Waldron, IN
age: 36

dam that song touched my heart i cried thanks that wast great made my day

2/26/2008 7:48:09 AMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
belle35gurdon
Gurdon, AR
age: 37

i would like to take away all the stress,pain,worry,make life easier on all of us ,wish i had more to offer someone but ive only got me .i have respect,faith,honesty,patience and hope ,ive been down and out and ive been up on top ,and ive never changed and i wont and dont expect someone to change for me ,just except my children and i for us
i take things as they come to me ,i deal with what i have ,and what is in my reach or my ability to get it
i help people who help me,if you there for me ,im there for you anytime ,anywhere,when i can
kids do come first though,i have friends but just that friends and i talk to them about my life and sometimes thye even help me help ones i care for ,and know i dont hold grudges and i forgive ,but i dont look back ,some things are done by mistake and forgiving is part of life ,but doesnt mean you have to forget them ...what mistakes you make you learn from only makes us stronger person and we learn to love better from some of those mistakes other have made towards you,like you treat someone wonderful and they just quit caring ,some times i confuse myself ,

2/26/2008 7:53:41 AMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
brandie1975
Stockton, CA
age: 33

I well answer my own question:

I want sencerity, genuine, unconditional, passionate, adventerous, spontanious. This list could go on and on, I was married for 5 years and together for 7, our marriage ended but we remain friends. When this happens you have a chance to reflect back to what was missing and learn the things you truely want from a partner, by what you felt was lacking in the one you had. I want to know I will be loved no matter what... I want that deeply engrained connection that physicallities are just a bonus. I never want to feel "I will love you, if" again. Caring for me on a level that is scary. Find me beautiful when I have the flu, make me feel like you cannot get enough of me.

What I have to give:

Everything... I want you to know that your time and space is important to me too, That you are beautiful to me no matter what. Make you feel like no one in the world is a better man, father, gentle soul as you are. I wont smother, or damper the light inside. I am avaliable to you as a woman, and promise to keep things spicy. I will have you feel like a man eventhough I am a head strong woman, but not too opinionated or critical. I will always be honest even if that honesty hurts, I will walk to the end of the world to make sure you are taken care of. If my heart belonged to you then with you is home, rather it is in a box begging for food, or in a comfortable home with heating. The old saying is true, "home is where the heart is" I would make you feel desired, men need that as well, not just on a sexual basis. But desired on a whole, I will need you in my life, everone WANTS someone but to let down your guard to actually need someone is immeasurable. I will care for you when we are old, I will give you all of me and there is alot in this heart I have to give.

There is so much more that could spill out into this box, and one day I will have that golden life time with some one, but in the mean time I will be patient and pour all of that love into the one person who will always deserve it no matter what, my beautiful child.


B

2/26/2008 8:31:30 PMJust wondering....no reading into it. 
brandie1975
Stockton, CA
age: 33

Common People, I know there are more of you out there that want to get it out!!! Who knows maybe you will figure something out about yourself when you read over it??? Take a chance, tell me what is on your mind!!! your heart!!! and in your loins...!!!!