Forums: Chat Room: nice guys finish last
2/26/2008 3:20:30 PMnice guys finish last 

crockerjc82
O Fallon, MO
age: 25

why is it that i see all the asshole guys gettin the girls and when i am being nice and everything i get nothing, i can't even get a date. why is that nice guys finish last, what am i doing wrong, maybe i should try being and asshole sometime and see what happens. come on ladies what is the deal, help me out. give me some advice.

2/26/2008 3:22:32 PMnice guys finish last 

lifetimeskier
Olympia, WA
age: 47

No don't be changin over to asshole on us...just be yourself, be nice have fun...I am not attracted to assholes at all...nice guys is where it is at for me...

2/26/2008 3:23:21 PMnice guys finish last 

stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50

Oh, stop!

That's crap...

I am attracted to the person, there's good guy/bad boy in each of you!

2/26/2008 3:26:04 PMnice guys finish last 

md120
Feasterville Trevose, PA
age: 40

I have to agree. Nice guys always finish last. It's funny women always talk about being miss treated but always go for the same guy. I don't get it. I am an average lookin guy. Wish alot to offer. Looks fade, weight varies. But a true heart! Thats forever. I'm not changing I'll just wait for the right girl!

2/26/2008 3:27:53 PMnice guys finish last 

sea_wench1
Chandler, AZ
age: 55

Md??..So does that mean you have a 55 yr old in mind???.. lol..( wink ) Sea



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2/26/2008 3:28:26 PMnice guys finish last 

crockerjc82
O Fallon, MO
age: 25

then what am i doing wrong, could it be that i am too nice. I don't try to get into the womens' pants on the first date, not even on the second, third, or fourth. i want to go out and have fun, not have sex, yes i will admit i like having sex, i have never met anybody who doesn't, but what is wrong with just going out and having fun without the expectation of trying to "get some". and is there a problem with a man wanting to have a family and who knows how to do stuff around the house. why does that scare some women. let me know what yall think.

2/26/2008 3:32:48 PMnice guys finish last 

rosewood513
Lanoka Harbor, NJ
age: 58

It is not you, those so called aholes are just that, The can get any girl they want but for how long? Ever see an ahole get married? Ever see them with a girl more than a few months.
Listen I have been around a long time. Ass holes finish last. Do not change at all. It is not even you, you are not the only one that can't get a date. I have not been on a date in 10 years and I am a good looking, nice woman. It is very hard today to get dates. Everone out there is "finding themselves", and they get so independent they don't need anyone.

Hang in there guy, you are not bad looking, I don't know you but you sound like a nice guy. Some day that girl will come along that will knock your socks off.
Just wait. Hint,ladies like a clean cut well dressed guy that makes them smile.

2/26/2008 3:40:50 PMnice guys finish last 

crockerjc82
O Fallon, MO
age: 25

yeah, that picture is like 2 years old, i have been working on my looks, trying new things, new hairstyles, new clothes, just trying to figure out the best way for me to look good, as soon as i get some new pictures i will post them and ask ya what ya think. thank you for the positive support and i will definently put it to good use.